June 21 topic: From the NYT: “I rented my bedroom out through a Web-based vacation-rental service. It became apparent that the guest and I had some sexual chemistry. The first night I slept on my futon in another room. The next day we ‘slept’ together — this was entirely consensual and not solely instigated by me — in my bedroom. Do I refund her the rental fee and, if so, for one or both nights?” We especially welcome new members.