Sunday Services
"Our Faith Today, Part II"
A sermon by the Rev. Judith E. Meyer
Unitarian Universalist Community Church
Santa Monica, California
February 17, 2002
Unitarian Universalism is a faith tradition
that is truly open to learning from others,
as generations of children
who have taken their religious education with us
can remember and attest.
They have observed religious rituals on field trips to temples and mosques,
they can speak authoritatively about Divali and Ramadan,
and they are almost as familiar with stories from the Bhagavad Gita
as they are from Doctor Seuss.
We have sought to nurture open minds
and teach tolerance in our young
by immersing them in religious pluralism.
We have prepared them well
to grasp the complex issues
that challenge the world every day.
What we have not done so well
is to teach them our own tradition.
We correctly assume that our values of openness and tolerance
are implicit in these explorations,
and we trust that they will guide them safely back home.
But we rarely point out that just as other religions
have their spiritual practices,
ours does too,
and we might be hard pressed to say
what our spiritual practices actually are.
Just this week I attended an interfaith meeting
in which a Protestant pastor spoke disparagingly
of the "tour bus" approach to experiencing religious diversity.
"On this side, we have Hanukkah,
and on that side, Christmas,
and look – coming right up, there's Kwanzaa!"
she joked.
She wasn't referring to Unitarian Universalism (I'm fairly certain),
but I had to suppress the impulse
to speak out in defense
of what people think we are all about!
Sometimes this is what we think
we are all about, too.
And yet, we do have practices of our own,
deeply rooted disciplines that constitute
a Unitarian Universalist spiritual life.
They are distinctive because they are grounded
in an approach to faith
that emphasizes ethics and character,
rather than creeds and belief.
They teach us how to live in the world,
grow in character,
learn from each other,
and make a positive contribution to life
as it evolves and changes.
Yet we are so accustomed to seeing ourselves
the way others sometimes do,
that we tend to minimize the work,
the struggle,
and the discipline required to be a Unitarian Universalist.
Our spiritual tradition owes a lot to the Transcendentalists,
Unitarian renegades who brought passion and originality
to nineteenth century thought and literature.
One Transcendentalist, Henry David Thoreau,
captured the ethos of Unitarianism
in a characteristically succinct quip
attributed to him on his deathbed.
When someone attending Thoreau as he lay dying
asked him if he could see the "other side,"
Thoreau responded, "One world at a time."
For all of their interest in the many worlds of religious ideas –
and the Transcendentalists were the first
to introduce a pluralistic world view into our tradition –
they consistently grounded themselves
in the here and now.
"I wish to live deep," wrote Thoreau.
And he did.
We Unitarian Universalists wish to live deep too,
one world at a time,
with minds open enough to appreciate new experiences
and nimble enough to keep growing.
And that is not all.
We also wish to have full hearts –
capable of giving and receiving love,
and of feeling the bonds of human care.
We all wish that our lives
could make a positive difference in some way –
and that when we die,
we can rest knowing our work is done.
Our yearnings for transcendence take on diverse shapes,
from a belief in God
to a passion for science;
we all yearn,
in one way or another.
Traditional spiritual practices,
such as meditation or contemplative prayer,
have given many of us a way to center ourselves
within the vast and mysterious experience
of being alive.
But some of us have no affinity for formal practice;
and life itself is the practice for us all.
And that is where we all must begin.
In Walden, Henry David Thoreau takes on all the different ways
in which we make life too complicated
and difficult for ourselves.
He advocates voluntary simplicity in many areas –
work, economy, consumption –
and even in spirituality.
"I think we may safely trust
a good deal more than we do,"
Thoreau observes.
That simple statement of faith guides us
to a spiritual practice
that is embedded in our tradition.
We trust life.
We do not turn to belief to tell us
exactly what we may trust
or what benefits will come to us if we do.
We go it alone,
unencumbered by dogma.
We have our freedom,
but not the security afforded by a tidy closed system.
This is the hard and open path,
which takes courage.
Sometimes it takes everything we have to keep up our courage.
We do it every day – several times a day.
Ask anyone in this room.
It takes courage to trust life,
but that is what we do.
Trusting life is more than overriding our fear of the unknown.
It is also an attitude of appreciation
towards the gift of life we have received
and the world in which we have our being.
In another passage from Thoreau's Walden,
he recounts a rainy day when he was feeling depressed.
"I was suddenly sensible of such sweet and beneficent society in Nature,"
he writes,
"in the very pattering of the drops,
and in every sound around my house,
an infinite and unaccountable friendliness all at once
like an atmosphere sustaining me."
Even though we face many difficult times,
we always return to the awareness that life is good.
We work to hold on to that awareness,
even when bitterness threatens to overcome us
or despair throws us a nasty curve.
If life is our practice,
our spiritual discipline is the will to trust
that life is good.
Another spiritual practice –
is the discipline of individual growth
or self-improvement.
This practice is also rooted in our tradition.
The liberal preacher and mentor to the Transcendentalists,
William Ellery Channing,
spoke of it as "self-culture,"
in an address he gave to thousands of people
who packed a downtown Boston hall
in September, 1838.
The human capacity for self-searching belongs to our nature,
Channing declared,
but the fact that we are also "self-forming"
is the "ground of human responsibility."
We have the capacity and the responsibility
to make ourselves better people.
Not only that,
but "there is more of divinity in it,"
according to Channing,
"than in the force which impels the outward universe;
and yet how little we comprehend it!"
Unitarian Universalists today still live our lives by this insight.
We understand that life has given us a gift to be developed.
The work it takes to grow in so many ways –
emotionally and intellectually –
is spiritual work for us.
There is a moral dimension to development,
a responsibility to actualize this divine power
and use it to make our contribution to the world.
Much of what we might call holy
is the strength we find to grow and to change
in constructive and healing directions.
Our spiritual practices are not all solitary.
Having the courage to trust life
and the wish to grow
are individual efforts,
but another important practice is rooted
in community.
To participate in a Unitarian Universalist church
is to undertake the spiritual discipline of democracy.
The democratic process is a rigorous
and sometimes wrenching exercise
in accepting the decisions and directions
the majority elect.
And while most of us see our church
as a community of likeminded souls,
real differences do exist
and require us to make choices as a group.
How to live with these choices
and with each other is the spiritual practice of our community.
Anyone who has been involved here,
or in any other Unitarian Universalist church
for any length of time,
learns the challenges of this practice.
We see it here,
in decisions we make about our building,
our budget,
and our leadership.
We recently made a collective decision
about the display of the American flag on our property.
For every decision we make,
some will disagree.
Conflict can be painful.
But our practice of democracy challenges us to stay in community
even when a decision does not reflect our preference.
We learn to yield our individual position
to the will of the majority.
We move on together.
This is very hard work,
and not everyone will choose to do it.
But those who do
have made an extraordinary personal contribution
to the common good
and deepened our spiritual life as a community.
The spiritual discipline of democracy teaches us
about the very real interdependence in all life.
Unitarian Universalism is a relational practice.
Implicit in it is the assumption
that we "live deep," to use Thoreau’s expression,
through our bonds with one another.
These bonds are infinitely deep,
renewable and transforming.
They are the spiritual reward of our common faith.
Whether individual or collective,
Unitarian Universalism asks us to be present to life:
our practice is simple,
immediate
and real.
We take the challenges and the possibilities
we meet in each and every day
and use them to shape our souls
and our faith.
The religious diversity we see in the world
and in ourselves stimulates and sharpens our sense
of the work to do:
the need to know ourselves
by living deep.
This Unitarian Universalist practice is rooted in our history,
but it chooses the present over the past –
and even that choice is rooted in our history.
Ralph Waldo Emerson wrote,
"Why should not we enjoy
an original relation to the universe?
Why should not we have a poetry and philosophy
of insight and not of tradition,
and a religion by revelation to us,
and not a history of theirs?
The sun shines also today.
There are new lands,
new men and women,
new thoughts.
Let us demand our own works and law and worship."
We have close at hand everything we need
to live deep:
open minds,
yearning spirits,
full hearts.
We have a community to encourage us
and challenge us in the way of freedom.
By this practice and on this path together,
our souls will grow.
References used to prepare this sermon include: Walden, by Henry David Thoreau (Boston: Beacon Press, 1997), Self-Culture, by William Ellery Channing (Boston, 1838), and Selections from Ralph Waldo Emerson (Boston: Houghton Mifflin Company, 1957)
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