The ability to listen until we understand differently is not a technique but a way of life or a spiritual journey. We will look at a spiritual journey that moves us from hospitality to a vision of shalom/salaam. Elizabeth Conde-Frazier has formed a home with her husband and two children that are HisBlackic. She is also associate professor of religious education at the Claremont School of Theology and has written on issues of interfaith dialogue and multiculturalism.