Sometimes we just don’t know what to say.  We see something; we know it is wrong, but we say nothing.  The next morning we think of several things we might have said, but the moment is gone.  The perpetrators think we agree with them.  The targets feel alone and abandoned.  And we feel like failures as witnesses, allies, or advocates.  And then there are the times when “sorry” isn’t enough.  But we just don’t know what to say.  Join the chorus of a very human community of goodhearted people who want to do the right thing, but sometimes just don’t know what the right thing is to say.