Newsletter for March, 2020
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From our Minister: Beloved Wisdom
MARCH'S SPIRITUAL THEME FOR COMMUNITY EXPLORATION
“Wisdom shouts in the streets. She cries out in the public square.”
-Proverbs 1:20
-Proverbs 1:20
Our spiritual theme for community exploration this month is wisdom. Theme-based ministry invites the entire congregation to reflect upon universal themes of religious life in creative ways each month. Wisdom is an important subject considered in all of the great religious traditions of the world. In Jewish scriptures, Chokmâh is personified as Lady Wisdom.
In the Book of Proverbs, it is written: “When there was yet no ocean I was born, no springs brimming with water. Before the mountains were settled in their place, long before the hills I was there…When the heavens were set in their place…I was at the divine’s side each day…” and “Those who love me I love, those who search for me find me…my path is that path of justice.” Wisdom is personified as the beloved of the divine, the guardian of righteousness and justice, and as an inherent dimension of existence. Many feminist religious scholars have embraced Lady Wisdom as the divine feminine in Jewish and Christian religious teachings.
When I reflect on wisdom, I instantly think of my grandmother. A Polish immigrant, she had to cross the seas with her family following World War II and learned to survive in a foreign land where she did not speak the language. Overcoming many obstacles, she did not allow life’s hardships to make her bitter but shared an abundance of love with the generations that followed her. Like many who live to a ripe old age, the experiences of life and its challenges hopefully cultivate a wisdom we can share with the generations that follow us.
Wisdom isn’t simply learned knowledge or an innate intelligence but something more expansive and holistic. We can accumulate a lot of knowledge and be very intelligent and still not be wise. Susanne Schaup explains in Sophia: Aspects of the Divine Feminine: “Wisdom goes beyond knowledge. It asks questions about the meaning and purpose of knowledge, about the responsibility of our accumulated knowledge to a higher authority.” Wisdom might be defined as our capacities to integrate experience, knowledge, intelligence, insights, and values. It has communal dimensions as well given that it is something we typically learn from others and share with others.
Let us cultivate wisdom in our beloved community this month and in all months. We are privileged and blessed to have a community with so many different people who contribute to our collective experience. Let us remember to seek out the wisdom of others and to listen more often than we speak. Let us cherish our elders and our ancestors and remember what they have taught us. Let us learn from the richness of our great spiritual tradition and find meaning, purpose, and happiness for our lives. Let us listen for the voice of Lady Wisdom in our lives and attend to her call.
With love and gratitude,
Jeremiah
Rev. Jeremiah Kalendae
Developmental Minister
Featured Articles:
2020-21 Pledge Drive Kicks Off: The Community We Aspire to Be
Dear UUSM Family and Friends,
I hope this message finds you healthy and well. If you are someone who has supported the Unitarian Universalist Community Church of Santa Monica, you will be receiving a mailing in the next day or two that mimics this letter.
It’s a strange time to be kicking off a pledge drive.
We have just wrapped up our second week of live-streaming our Sunday service. This time coming together from many locations to create community online and hold space for breathing and being together.
Additionally, dozens of members are ramping up pastoral care efforts to check in with every community member on an ongoing basis. And they are beginning to roll out new ways of deepening connection even as we shelter in place.
We continue to co-create the community we aspire to be—beloved to each other, uplifting and encouraging, and caring for a world that hurts. But times call for us to more creatively answer the call as Unitarian Universalists, to side with love and come together (at a safe spatial distance).
As we move further into uncertain times, you will find deep comfort through small group ministry. You’ll find wonderful inspiration in streamed worship. And you’ll find great meaning in service to members of our community. The Unitarian Universalist Community Church will be at your side, figuratively speaking, and literally, if you need it.
But here is the challenge, you play a more critical role than ever in keeping UUSM healthy. Rental income and fundraising event revenue has evaporated; and we have a moral obligation to pay our staff throughout this public health emergency.
So as we kick off our 2020 pledge drive, I am asking you to join me in making a financial commitment to the very best of your ability so we can build a stronger UUSM in the coming fiscal year, no matter what.
Will you make a generous pledge for the coming year today? It’s easy. Sign up at archive.uusm.org/2020pledgedrive.
And if you support UUSM events like Dining 4 Dollars, please consider tacking that on. I’m sure our hosts will be thrilled to hold events when things get back to normal.
What’s afoot at UUSM?
A lot! Even if it’s all happening in cyberspace right now.
First, with Reverend Jeremiah on board we have a new kind of transformative worship, a comprehensive pastoral care model in the works, and a spirit of joy and playfulness permeating our culture!
Second, we are enriching multigenerational religious education, supporting families with children and youth in exciting new ways. A new Adult RE model, membership program, and leadership development offerings are coming. And we are becoming more connected to our national UU movement.
Finally, we are creating a culture of abundance within and beyond our walls, and with kindred UU organizations. We are better supporting our staff and loving our campus. We are increasing the share of our Sunday offering going to partners doing good in the larger community. And we are more consciously aligning our investments with our UU values.
Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. asserted that a society of justice, equity, and peace, established on a foundation of love, was a goal for human life. He called it the Beloved Community.
You and I fuel our beloved community at UUSM with our pledges of support. Indeed, more than two-thirds of next year’s budget will come from pledges like yours and mine.
Your generous pledge means that we can continue to transform worship and pastoral care, build enriching multi-generational RE, and create a community more capable of bringing love and justice into the world.
Society needs Unitarian Universalism. Our UU principles are a bulwark against a dominant culture that feeds on comparison, consumption, and exclusion.
We need UUSM. Our shared spiritual home at the corner of 18th and Arizona provides a wellspring of inspiration, friendships, and support as we navigate 21stcentury life. And it challenges us to work together to create the society that Dr. King imagined.
“Denunciatory rhetoric is so much easier and cheaper than good works, and proves a popular temptation,” William Lonsdale Watkinson wrote. “Yet it is far better to light the candle than to curse the darkness.”
Thank you for Igniting Our Faith with your 2020-2021 pledge.
Sincerely,
Jacki Weber, President
Responding Full-On: COVID-19 Update March 17
ONE HEART TO ANOTHER
Love is the doctrine of this church, and it binds one heart to another even in times when we are separated. UUSM staff and volunteers are responding to the COVID-19 crisis full-on, to keep our congregation connected and to continue to lift up the voices of marginalized, highly vulnerable members of our wider community.
Rev. Jeremiah declared from the pulpit on Sunday, “I want you to know that the people of this community love and care about you and will support you through the days ahead…. We are being invited in this time to imagine new ways of creating beloved community together and of caring for each other and our world.”
While the future of this global pandemic is still unclear, it is likely that things are going to get much worse before they get better. We are proud to do our part to reduce the spread of this deadly illness and to support our community to do the same.
- Technology has blessed us with the means to remain connected in our social isolation. Through the end of March, Sunday worship is being live-streamed on Facebook at 10:00 am. (You do not need to join Facebook to view the service live, or to view the recording on Facebook or YouTube.) More than 70 worshipers viewed the last service and shared the familiar camaraderie of being in the Sanctuary! If you missed it, or want to enjoy it again, it’s always available on the front page of this website (scroll down to the Featured Video box in the left-hand sidebar), on the UU Santa Monica Facebook Page, our YouTube channel (scroll down to Uploads), and at this direct link.
- We invite you to join us on the public UU Santa Monica Facebook Page to hear updates on activities and calls to action. Those who are not on currently on Facebook but would like to connect, please contact pastoralcare@uusm.org or leave a message at the office at 310-829-5436.
- We are creating online forums for community social life and Religious Exploration, and we are learning new teleconferencing techniques. Watch your email for the Thursday Announcements and monitor the UUSM Newsletter for book groups and other RE activities that are canceled or taking place online. Join the UU Santa Monica Facebook Group for more-intimate sharing of activities, personal updates, and current needs. (If you’re not receiving emails from UUSM regularly, check your spam folder or call the office at 310-829-5436.)
- A Pastoral Response Team has identified seniors and other at-risk members in our community and will check in with them as the pandemic progresses. If you know of a UUSM member or friend that remains unconnected to church life, please contact pastoralcare@uusm.org or leave a message at the office.
- Look for a call for Chalice Companions. You can partner with an isolated and vulnerable member of our community: connecting on the phone or by text and exploring resources with them.
- We are exploring online community mediation groups to enhance resiliency in these difficult times.
- Watch Facebook and email for calls to push our government toward empathy and compassion for marginalized members of our community. The UU Santa Monica Peace and Social Justice Team remains in touch with allies. They will keep us abreast of how to create justice and peace in a world in crisis, and here in our local communities. Like and follow the P&SJ Facebook Page to receive notifications.
We invite you to bring your own creativity as we explore new ways to co-create beloved community, share our ministry, and care for our world. And we ask for patience and loving kindness as we wrestle with new platforms and software—with all the attendant aggravations that come with them.
In our beloved community we have our sights set on support, resiliency, and learning. Our liberal religious values inspire us to respond to the suffering of the world with love, compassion, and mercy. They ask us to
look out for each other and to prioritize those who are in harm’s way. They compel us to challenge inequity, racism, and injustice—even in the midst of a pandemic.
In this hour when humanity faces such a great challenge, know that this beloved community is here for you.
Thanks to Rev. Jeremiah Kalendae for letting us borrow heavily from his March 15 homily.
A Note to Our Members and Friends at This Uncertain Time [COVID-19 Update]
FROM REV. JEREMIAH AND THE BOARD
Take courage friends. The way is often hard, the path is never clear, and the stakes are very high. Take courage. For deep down, there is another truth: you are not alone. —Rev. Wayne B. Arnason
Dear Ones,
As COVID-19 grips the country, you have no doubt been instructed and warned and increasingly alarmed by the news reports.
What we think you need to hear most at this time is that you are not alone.
The Unitarian Universalist Community Church of Santa Monica is here to support you. And we see this time of heightened anxiety as an opportunity for us to learn to be together and support each other in new ways.
One of the great things we can offer to another when facing fear or uncertainty is calm and the presence of mind to make good decisions and take sensible action. Another is the tools to connect and care.
Here’s what we would like to share today:
1. Centering practice works: Adopting a meditation practice of just sitting for 5-20 minutes a day can help to alleviate and cultivate mindful presence. If you don’t have your own prayer or meditation practice, We’d like to share a resource library (from our friends at InsightLA).
2. We are heeding LA Mayor Eric Garcetti’s recommendation to slow the spread of the Coronavirus by foregoing worship in our sanctuary this weekend. Instead….
3. Please join us online for a special livestream Sunday Worship through Facebook. If you need help accessing Facebook, please contact board member Eileen McCormack who can assist you!
If you are a RE Family, DRE Cleo will have a special email for you. Stand by!
Because our older members are among our most vulnerable, the Pastoral Care Team is going to be setting up a check-in system.
Isolation can be lonely but we do have wonderful technology to connect, whether telephones, FaceBook or Zoom Rooms. Please reach out to pastoralcare@uusm.org if you are in need of support or you are willing to reach out to others who may need you.
We are ramping up our capabilities for virtual group and committee meetings beginning next week. Stand by for more information.
We are ramping up our online communication tools, creating a private FaceBook
If you become infected with COVID-19 please let Rev. Jeremiah know so we can track cases and care in our congregation. He is reachable at minister@uusm.org or you can call the church office.
We are taking the precautions necessary to protect our community. It is important that everyone follows the directions of the Center for Disease Control (CDC) and our local public health agencies.
If you need to be on campus, know that we are following LA County Department of Public Health recommendations to reduce risk.
Finally, know you are not alone and this beloved community is here for you. Please don’t hesitate to call the church office or reach out to one of us at any time.
With love and concern,
Jeremiah
Rev. Jeremiah Kalendae
Developmental Minister
minister@uusm.org
Jacki Weber
President, UUSM Board of Directors
president@uusm.org
Please note these event postponements and/or cancellations in the Thursday, March 12 Announcements.
Be safe and stay well.
—Your UUSM Newsletter Team
Dining for Dollar$ 2020 Silent Auction on March 8 & 15
WHAT ARE YOU HUNGRY FOR?
Dining for Dollar$ 2020
Silent Auction – Two Sundays in March
Sunday, March 8th – Sunday, March 15th
11:00 – 12:30 in Forbes’ Hall
What is Dining for Dollars?
Dining for Dollars is one of UUSM’s largest and most successful fundraisers of the year. Don’t miss the opportunity to lend financial support to our beloved community while enjoying the fellowship of community members. From individual homes and gardens spreading out onto fascinating SoCal sites, hosts plan fun and creative events and activities. Some offer ticketed events or goods and services. We’ve got it all!
How often are events held?
The auction for Dining for Dollars events is held once a year, and the individual events take place all through the year. We have often have as many as 50 or more events up for auction!
Who may bid on and attend the events?
Bidding in the Dining for Dollars silent auction is open to anyone who attends the church, and the winning bidders attend the events.
How many events are there?
Groups and individual hosts usually offer about 50 different events each year, each with a different theme.
What kinds of themes do hosts choose?
Ethnic meals (Indian, Italian, Mexican, French, etc.) are always popular. We’ve also had sailing trips, pancake breakfasts, game nights, pool parties, Shakespeare nights, architectural tours, murder mystery parties, and even a tide-pooling picnic. The possibilities for themes are as varied and infinite as the hosts’ imaginations.
Who and how to HOST an event?
Without hosts the Dining for Dollars Auction does not happen. As we need 50-60 hosts each year that means that we ALL need to give consideration to becoming an event host. Emily Hero and her assistants will be at the D4$ host sign-up table each Sunday until March 1, waiting for members and friends to stop by and speak with her for all the details and for ideas to help you become a host yourselves.
It’s great fun, energizing AND is imperative in helping support our beloved community and it’s many programs that reach and extend to the greater community as well. If you are ready to sign up now you may go directly to this D4$ link and register to become a host right now.
For more photos of past Dining for Dollars events, see http://news.uusm.org/d4d2020/
Dining for Dollars Bidding
How would you like to enjoy a MOROCCAN FEAST? A delectable multi-course dinner with a variety of traditional Moroccan dishes, including vegetarian and decidedly non-vegetarian options.
Or maybe you're in the mood for spending an elegant summer evening dining under a 300-year-old oak tree at the 1920’s Donald Douglas Estates.
For those that are mole-curious, you can join two of UUCCSM’s legendary gourmet explorers for a guided tour of Mexico’s moles and the foods that love to be smothered in them.
We have all this and more in the Dining 4 Dollars Catalog of Events and Services. You'll want to break out your highlighters and pens to develop your auction strategy. This is one of UUSM's largest and most successful fundraiser thanks to you.
Now is the time to bid, this Sunday, March 8 and March 15! You don't want to miss out!
Bring the catalog with you or pick up a hard copy catalog at church on Sunday, 11:00 a.m. – 12:30 p.m.
Click here to view and/or download the catalog.
UUSM Passover Seder 2020
JOIN US FOR A TRADITIONAL MEAL ON APRIL 11 AT 5 PM
Building on the immense success of last year, we are planning to present a Passover Seder for our congregation on April 11. For all UUs, this is an opportunity to expand cultural horizons. We will learn the rich history and deeply meaningful practices that shape this holy day. We will read from the Haggadah, learn the symbolism and the ancient songs, and the significance of the meal itself, all with the company of your fellow congregants and their families.
The Passover Committee is pleased to announce that Rabbi Miriam Hamrell of Ahavat Torah Congregation will be leading our Passover Seder this year. Rabbi Miriam E. Hamrell, MHL, MA Ed, holds the distinguished honor of being the first Israeli born and raised woman to head an American Jewish congregation for the past 17 years. She is a leading personality, spokesperson, and Ethicist for the Jewish community. Rabbi Miriam served in the Israeli Defense Forces and has consulted, taught, and inspired numerous women, not only with her volunteer prison work, but also her work on behalf of women around the world. This year, Rabbi Miriam celebrates her eighteenth year of service in the rabbinate and as a motivational leader and teacher, whose written and spoken messages express a unique wisdom.
Rabbi Jonathan Sacks, Member of the House of Lords of the UK, an international religious leader, philosopher, and author, wrote these words about Passover:
There is a profound difference between history and memory. History is his story – an event that happened sometime else to someone else. Memory is my story – something that happened to me and is part of who I am. To be a Jew is to know that over and above history is the task of memory. Judaism makes this a matter of religious obligation. Passover is where the past does not die but lives in the chapter we write in our own lives and in the story we tell our children. Once a year, every year, the Jewish people are asked to relive the experience of Egypt as a constant reminder of the bread of oppression and the bitter herbs of slavery – to know that the battle for freedom is never finally won but must be fought in every generation.
Honoring the Passover tradition also honors and aligns with the 7 UU Principles, especially the inherent worth and dignity of every person, acceptance of one another, encouragement of spiritual growth in our congregations, and respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.
Ellen Levy, committee member, writes:
I consider myself a Jewish Unitarian. I am a cultural Jew; that is, I was not raised with a religious background but with some of the cultural traditions of Judaism. One of these traditions is a Passover Seder, which connects us to Jews everywhere and throughout history. It celebrates our release from slavery from the Egyptians but is made relevant to modern times by recognizing the slavery that still exists in our world. I think it is important for our congregation to experience Passover because as Unitarians we honor all religions. Our children get some exposure to other religions and religious celebrations through RE, but as adults, we get very little. Especially now, with the surge of anti-Semitic feelings in the world, I think it is important for our congregation to see that many Jewish values are similar to Unitarian values and to experience the lovely ancient ceremony that is Passover.
Resa Foreman, also a committee member, was instrumental in bringing the Seder to UUSM last year. She says:
My family celebrated Passover at my grandparents’ house. Unfortunately they spoke no English and I no Yiddish. We were secular Jews and I had no religious training. It was not until I became an adult that I developed an appreciation for Passover, it’s rituals, and the broader, universal symbolism. It is a holiday that celebrates freedom from oppression and renewal. I am happy our committee has brought this tradition to UUSM.
We invite you to be a part of this tradition, to not only share the ancient story but also to see its relevance and importance in our lives today.
So please join us on Saturday, April 11, 2020, at 5pm in Forbes Hall for our UUSM Passover Seder. We are asking for $15 per person, or $30 per family to help cover expenses, plus come with a dish to share, keeping in mind the kosher guidelines. No one will be turned away for lack of funds.
Please sign up at the Adult RE table or online at https://www.signupgenius.com/go/904084FAEA928A5F85-passover
If you have any questions, contact us.
The Passover Committee Team: Resa Foreman, Ellen Levy, and Teri Lucas
News & Announcements:
Update March 21: UUSM events during the COVID-19 emergency
UUSM IN TRANSITION TO ONLINE EVENTS
From the announcement email sent on Thursday, March 19.
Join us online again this Sunday as we co-create beloved community together in the midst of a global pandemic. We are suspending congregational worship gatherings until further notice to protect vulnerable members of our congregation and the larger community. You can watch our special live-streamed service on the church’s Facebook page at 10 am on Sunday morning, March 22. Help us spread the word about these changes. We look forward to being with you virtually and in spirit on Sunday morning. If you need help getting online, please contact board member Eileen McCormack for assistance.
“Giving Ourselves Away” (A Special Online Worship Service)
A YouTube link will be available after the service on Sunday, March 22
The generosity of heart, spirit, and resources is fundamental to the spiritual path. This is taught by all of the great religions of the world. This Sunday, we celebrate the formal launch of our annual stewardship campaign and explore the meaning of giving to our lives, our beloved community, and the world. We will get to hear the many transformative stories of why so many support this congregation with our first congregational video.
Church Facilities are Closed
Please note that church buildings and offices are now closed for business and services until further notice, and church staff members are working remotely. See above for online Sunday service information.
Scheduling Meetings
Although our current in-person meetings and events have been canceled/postponed, we are working on offering online gatherings and other ways of maintaining our community spirit. Please stay tuned as we work out the details. In the meantime, if you need to schedule a church business group or committee meeting via zoom, please contact Cyndee Hayes at assistant@uusm.org 310-829-5436 ext. 102. Please provide the following details at least three days prior to the meeting. If you would like the meeting to be posted in the Weekly Email Announcements, please email Sibylla Nash at OOS@uusm.org by Wednesday evenings.
- Title of meeting
- Meeting’s host information
- Start time and end time
- Participants’ email addresses for an Invite. Individuals can attend the meeting by phone if they do not have an email address.
Adult Programming
During this time of social distancing and uncertainty, the Adult Programs Committee is working hard to transition many of our groups and programs for personal and spiritual exploration to an online format, mainly via Zoom (but other platforms are a possibility). The plan is to get much of our regular programming up and running within the next ten days. We’ll also be providing assistance to those unfamiliar with how to use Zoom – just let us know you’d like help by emailing AdultRE@UUSM.org at least a few days before the program you’d like to take part in. Look for more information and links for programs on Zoom soon. We look forward to connecting with you!
Upcoming Events
CANCELED>> D&D – Living in UUville, Sunday, March 22, 2020, 10:00 am – 11:30 am, Cottage NW. Contact Cleo Anderson for more information at DRE@uusm.org.
CANCELED>> Visitor Meetup, Sunday, March 22, 2020, 11:30 am – 12:30 pm, Cottage NE. Visitors and prospective members are encouraged to attend this informal get-together held on each Sunday of the month.
CANCELED>> Faith Forward – Inquirers Group, Sunday, March 22, 2020, 11:30 am – 12:30 pm, Forbes Classroom 1. Session 5: Faith Development for Children & Youth with Cleo Anderson, Director of Religious Education. Our Whole Lives (OWL) and Program Coordinator, Beth Rendeiro. You can find the full schedule here.
CANCELED>> Discussion and Support Group for Persons with Disabilities, Sunday, March 22, 2020, 11:30 am – 1:30 pm, Cottage SE. Come and join us as we share stories, inspirations, and find community with each other. This group offers a forum in which members can feel the benefit of its mutual support. Contact Michael Young for more information.
CANCELED>> AAHS Freethinker Forum, Sunday, March 22, 2020, 12:00 pm – 1:30 pm, Warren Mathews Conference Room. The Freethinker Forum is a monthly interactive meeting sponsored by AAHS: Agnostics, Atheists, Humanists & Secularists of UU Santa Monica. All are welcome to join in a lively discussion where diversity of viewpoints is encouraged and respected. Contact James Witker at aahs@uusm.org for more information.
CANCELED>> Coalition for Police Reform, Monday, March 23, 2020, 5:00 pm – 7:00 pm, Forbes Classroom 1. Contact Audrey Lyness for more information. Meditation
ONLINE WITH ZOOM>> Open Meditation, Monday, March 23, 2020, 7:30 pm – 9:15 pm, Forbes Hall. We gather twice a month to sit together quietly for 20 minutes, to walk with gentle awareness for seven minutes, and to explore the integration of meditation with ordinary life through reading and sharing. Anyone who senses they would benefit from 20 minutes of silent, non-guided sitting is welcome to join us. Contact Bev Schoenberger or email AdultRE@uusm.org for more information and the Zoom link.
CANCELED>> Facility Meeting, Tuesday, March 24, 2020, 8:30 am – 10:00 am, Forbes Classroom 1. For more information contact John Zinner or Brad Hutchinson.
CANCELED>> C&Y/RE – Book Group Discussion and Dinner, Friday, March 27, 2020, 6:30 pm – 8:30 pm, Sanctuary. Brilliant, bold, and energetic, Mona Eltahawy’s “The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls,” is a manifesto for all feminists in the fight against patriarchy. Join us on Friday nights March 27 – May 15 (no meeting April 10) to discuss one chapter per meeting. Dinner will be served. All are welcome. Contact Cleo Anderson, DRE to register and purchase a book at dre@uusm.org.
CANCELED>> Adult Programs – Body-Mind Tune-Up with Bruno, Saturday, March 28, 2020, 11:45 am – 12:45 pm, Offsite. Bruno Lacombe is conducting exercise classes for UUSM members who are seniors, super-seniors, and people with physical difficulties. Contact Bruno Lacombe at (310) 666-7387.
CANCELED>> D&D – Living in UUville, Sunday, March 29, 2020, 10:00 am – 11:30 am, Cottage NW. Contact Cleo Anderson for more information at DRE@uusm.org.
CANCELED>> Town Hall Meeting, Sunday, March 29, 2020, 11:45 am – 1:00 pm, Sanctuary. Review of 2020-2021 budget and current church finances.
CANCELED>> Lessons of Loss with Leon Henderson, Sunday, March 29, 2020, 12:00 pm – 2:00 pm, Forbes Hall. The Lessons of Loss is a Life-Span Curriculum developed by Unitarian Universalist Carol Galginaitis. We shall explore participants’ experiences to losses large and small including those associated with death. Reflecting on experiences, we shall also explore the consequences of both sharing and ignoring feelings of loss as well as relevant, related Unitarian Universalist theses from theologians and laypeople alike.
CANCELED>> Open Meditation, Monday, March 30, 2020, 7:30 pm – 9:15 pm, Forbes Hall. We gather twice a month to sit together quietly for 20 minutes, to walk with gentle awareness for seven minutes, and to explore the integration of meditation with ordinary life through reading and sharing. Anyone who senses they would benefit from 20 minutes of silent, non-guided sitting is welcome to join us.
CANCELED>> UU Men’s Group, Thursday, April 2, 2020, 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm, Cottage NE. The Men’s Group offers a special opportunity to the men of the congregation and other like-minded men to join our welcoming group in provocative and stimulating discussion and to get to know others with UU perspectives in a more meaningful way.
CANCELED>> Adult Programs – Body-Mind Tune-Up with Bruno, Saturday, April 4, 2020, 11:45 am – 12:45 pm, Offsite. Bruno Lacombe is conducting exercise classes for UUSM members who are seniors, super-seniors, and people with physical difficulties. Contact Bruno Lacombe at (310) 666-7387.
UUSM events during the COVID-19 emergency
STAY SAFE. BE WELL.
From the announcement email sent on Thursday, March 12.
“Love is the Spirit” (A Special Online Worship Service)
Join us online this Sunday as we co-create beloved community together in the midst of a global pandemic. We are temporarily suspending congregational worship gatherings to protect vulnerable members of our congregation and the larger community. We will be providing more information soon so you can watch our special live-streamed service on the church’s Facebook page on Sunday morning. We will consider how we spiritually prepare and fortify ourselves in uncertain times. Help us spread the word about these changes. We look forward to being with you virtually and in spirit on Sunday morning. If you need help getting online, please contact board member Eileen McCormack for assistance.
Upcoming Events
CANCELED>> R/E – Collage Group with Stan Bemis, Saturday, March 14, 2020, 10:00 am – 12:00 pm, Cottage NE. The goal of this group is to help foster personal worth and empowerment, entering into that holy place within and having sacred fun. The objectives are to create works of art and create cards for events or celebrations.
CANCELED>> Adult Programs – Body-Mind Tune-Up with Bruno, Saturday, March 14, 2020, 11:45 am – 12:45 pm, Offsite. Bruno Lacombe is conducting exercise classes for UUSM members who are seniors, super-seniors, and people with physical difficulties. Contact Bruno Lacombe.
CANCELED>> Visitor Meetup, Sunday, March 15, 2020, 11:30 am – 12:30 pm, Cottage NE. First-time visitors are encouraged to attend this informal get-together held every Sunday of the month. This is an opportunity for you to get to know us and for us to get to know you. We look forward to meeting you. Contact Cheryl Sims or Sharon Harrell of the Membership Committee at membership@uusm.org.
CANCELED>> D&D – Living in UUville, Sunday, March 15, 2020, 10:00 am – 11:30 am, Cottage NW. Contact Cleo Anderson for more information at DRE@uusm.org.
POSTPONED>> Dining for Dollars Bidding, Sunday, March 15, 2020, 11:00 am – 12:30 pm, Forbes Hall. Dining for Dollars is one of UUSM’s largest and most successful fundraisers of the year. Events, goods, and services – it’s all there! Don’t be left out on the final Sunday and miss the opportunity to lend financial support to our beloved community while enjoying the fellowship of community members in so many varied and interesting venues including!
CANCELED>> Children & Youth RE Committee Meeting, Sunday, March 15, 2020, 11:30 am – 1:30 pm, Cottage NW. The Children and Youth Religious Exploration Committee will meet for its monthly meeting. Anyone who is interested is welcome to attend.
CANCELED>> FIA: Peace & Social Justice, Sunday, March 15, 2020, 11:45 am – 1:00 pm, Warren Mathews Conference Room. The Peace & Social Justice Committee (PSJ) focuses on many activities in the areas of labor and economic issues; racism, police brutality, and mass incarceration; immigration and immigrant detention; and peace and alternatives to war. It also collaborates with the Green Committee on activities focusing on climate change. Please email Dierdra Deitel for more information.
CANCELED>> OWL Meeting – K/1 Parent Orientation #2, Sunday, March 15, 2020, 12:00 pm – 2:30 pm, Forbes Classroom 1, Forbes Classroom 4, Mural Room. Are you a parent of a 5 – 7-year-old or know others who are? Then come to a parent orientation for the K/1 O.W.L. (Our Whole Lives), part of the comprehensive, life-span human sexuality program offered at our church. If you need child care please email Cleo, our DRE, a few days ahead of the event at DRE@uusm.org.
POSTPONED until March 29, 2020>> Lessons of Loss with Leon Henderson, Sunday, March 15, 2020, 1:00 pm – 3:00 pm, Forbes Hall. The Lessons of Loss is a Life-Span Curriculum developed by Unitarian Universalist Carol Galginaitis. We shall explore participants’ experiences to losses large and small including those associated with death. Reflecting on experiences, we shall also explore the consequences of both sharing and ignoring feelings of loss as well as relevant, related Unitarian Universalist theses from theologians and laypeople alike.
CANCELED>> Adult Programs – An Enjoyable Dive into Who and What We Are, Monday, March 16, 2020, 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm, Forbes Classroom, 3. Bill Blake helps participants master specific meditation skills. This class will include meditations that explore participants’ spiritual goals.
CANCELED>> Science Non-Fiction Book Group, Tuesday, March 17, 2020, 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm, Forbes Hall. We will discuss “Sorting the Beef from the Bull: The Science of Food Fraud Forensics,” by Richard Evershed, et al. The authors go beyond the important stories of adulteration – both purposeful and accidental – and look at the methods for detection and the “arms race” as scammers respond to ever-improving technology. All are welcome. Contact Rebecca Crawford for more information.
CANCELED>> UU Men’s Group, Thursday, March 19, 2020, 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm, Cottage NE. The Men’s Group offers a special opportunity to the men of the congregation and other like-minded men to join our welcoming group in provocative and stimulating discussion and to get to know others with UU perspectives in a more meaningful way. This week’s topics include: “What was the model of masculinity you grew up with, and how did you receive the messages of what attitudes, values, behaviors, and roles are expected of a man?”
CANCELED>> Ukulele Strum and Sing-Along, Saturday, March 21, 2020, 10:00 am – 12:00 pm, Forbes Hall. Please contact Kim Kalmanson for questions.
CANCELED>> R/E – Collage Group with Stan Bemis, Saturday, March 21, 2020, 10:00 am – 12:00 pm, Cottage NE. The goal of this group is to help foster personal worth and empowerment, entering into that holy place within and having sacred fun. The objectives are to create works of art and create cards for events or celebrations. Stan works to bring joy and peace into people’s lives by creating art. He has taught many who didn’t realize they had creative talent, from all across the world – from California to Palestine/Israel. He welcomes all ages.
CANCELED>> Adult Programs – Body-Mind Tune-Up with Bruno, Saturday, March 21, 2020, 11:45 am – 12:45 pm, Offsite. Bruno Lacombe is conducting exercise classes for UUSM members who are seniors, super-seniors, and people with physical difficulties. Contact Bruno Lacombe.
CANCELED>> International Folk Dancing with Instructors, Saturday, March 21, 2020, 7:00 pm – 8:30 pm, Forbes Hall. They say that dancing is combining fun with exercise and friends! Learn international folk dancing with instructors Sandy Helperin and Teri Hoffman. Folk dancing is for anyone who loves to move to traditional music. New dancers are welcome – there are no partners required. Donations accepted.
March UUSM Generous Congregation Supports #UUtheVote Nationwide
UUS MOBILIZE FOR THE 2020 ELECTION
We know our current democratic process is flawed. But the issues we care most deeply about — climate change, LGBTQ rights, immigration, racial justice, and more — will be on the ballot in 2020. So we continue to work within our democratic processes as one of the ways we can reduce harm and dismantle oppressive systems. Unitarian Universalists have a legacy of working to expand democracy and to shape a world in which all people are free and flourishing. Participating in our democracy is not only about our fifth principle. As UUs, our deepest beliefs are a life-giving, life-saving, life-sustaining alternative to the narratives and policies of domination, supremacy, exceptionalism, and exploitation that are on the rise. The stakes couldn’t be higher. #UUtheVote is a coordinated campaign of action and advocacy. UUs are joining forces across the country to organize; to engage in spiritually grounded, values-based issue conversations in our communities; and to vote a Side with Love agenda. For more info on how UUSM is taking action locally, check out Let’s #UUtheVote in 2020! #UUtheVote is an opportunity to communicate our passion to voters nationwide. #UUtheVote doesn’t just facilitate voter registration drives or get-out-the-vote campaigns. It’s a powerful chance to engage UU justice ministries and their partnerships with community, state, and national justice organizations. We can help ensure the voices of the people — particularly those most directly impacted by oppressive structures — are heard in the halls of our government. Click here to send a $10 GCC text donation Generous Congregation Our practice here at UUSM is to dedicate half of our non-pledge Sunday offerings to organizations doing work in the world that advances our Unitarian Universalist principles; the other 50% of the offering is used to support the life of our church. UUSM’s Generous Congregation supports our church community. And together, we uplift the reach and impact of vital organizations doing work we could not do on our own. This month, half of our Sunday offerings will go to #UUtheVote. Your support will help congregations and UU organizations, nationwide, as they engage and educate their communities, mobilize voters, and rally around key ballot initiatives—all while seeking electoral justice at the local, state, and national levels. “We face a daunting challenge in this election year, but when UUs lead with love, we are stronger than any attempts to silence us,” tweeted UUA President Susan Frederick-Gray. Please consider supporting the mission of our church, and #UUtheVote. To give right now, text “$10 GCC” to 844-982-0209. (One-time-only credit card registration required.) Because #UUtheVote is non-partisan, your gift is eligible to be treated as a charitable contribution, not a political donation. 
Faith in Action News:
Join us at Second Sunday Cinema for “Suppressed: The Fight to Vote”
SUNDAY, MARCH 8 AT 4:30 PM IN THE SANCTUARY
Suppressed: The Fight to Vote, the new documentary by Robert Greenwald (Director of Outfoxed, Walmart: The High Cost of Low Price, and Making A Killing: Guns, Greed, & the NRA) weaves together personal stories from voters across the state of Georgia to paint an undeniable picture of voter suppression in the 2018 midterm election where Stacey Abrams fought to become the first Black female governor in the U.S. The issues Georgians faced included polling place closures, voter purges, missing absentee ballots, extreme wait times and a host of voter ID issues – all of which disproportionately prevented many students and people of color from casting their ballots.
Suppressed: The Fight to Vote features experts, poll watchers and everyday Georgians speaking to the reality of voter suppression and the threat it poses in 2020. In a race that was ultimately decided by 54,723 votes, the film exposes that the basic constitutional right to vote continues to be under siege in America.
Join us for the screening at 4:30 PM on Sunday, March 8, 2020.
Let’s #UUtheVote in 2020!
FIND OUT HOW YOU CAN HELP
On January 12th, the Unitarian Universalist Association launched UU the Vote, a nationwide initiative aimed at promoting progressive values and protecting democracy in the 2020 elections. (You can watch archived video of the launch, and read some of the comprehensive launch guide.)
Rev. Susan Frederick Gray, president of the UUA, wrote:
“The stakes couldn’t be higher in the 2020 elections.
Directly or indirectly, the issues so many of us care most deeply about—climate change, LGBTQ rights, immigration, racial justice and more—will be on the ballot in 2020.
As progressive people of faith, we can seize the opportunity that the current electoral cycle offers us to fight for our values, counter voter suppression, expand democracy, and engage in spiritually grounded, values-based issue conversations with other voters in our own communities.
In this political moment, UUs are called to join forces with all people who want to organize our communities and our nation to #VoteLove and #DefeatHate. Let’s UU the Vote in 2020.”
The March 2020 Generous Congregation offering will send half of all non-pledge Sunday donations to #UUtheVote. How else can UUSM members and friends participate? At the February meeting of the FIA Peace & Social Justice Committee, we agreed on some ways in which current social justice projects may overlap with the national initiative, as well as some new things we can do:
- Voting Support and Assistance: The next election day is coming up soon on Tuesday, March 3! Do you or anyone you know need help locating or getting a ride to a voting location? The Peace & Social Justice Committee is here to provide support. Stop by the Faith In Action Table in Forbes Hall or contact justice@uusm.org. Everyone can also find information about changes to local voting at Lavote.net.
- Protect Truth: FIA has endorsed the Pro-Truth Pledge, and so can you! The Pro Truth Pledge is a public project that promotes truth-seeking and critical thinking in politics during this time of much disinformation. It challenges politicians and citizens alike to commit to truth-oriented behaviors — in what they say, endorse, and share on social media — and protect facts and civility. Stop by the Faith In Action Table to learn more and sign the pledge or go to https://www.protruthpledge.org/.
- Learn About the Danger of Voter Suppression: Join us for a screening and discussion of the award-winning short documentary film, “Suppressed: The Fight to Vote” on Sunday, March 8 at 4:30 pm, before Second Sunday Supper.
- Advocacy for Ballot Initiatives: The Schools and Communities First Campaign aims to reduce longstanding inequities in public funding of education by closing tax loopholes for (only) corporate real estate. Last Fall, The Peace & Social Justice Committee co-hosted an info session and public advocacy training for the campaign here at UUSM with ACLU SoCal, and we can do much more to make sure it gets on the November ballot and help to educate the public about its potential positive impacts. The campaign is supported by a broad coalition of other grassroots, faith and labor groups such as League of Women Voters and our friends at the UU Justice Ministry of CA. Additionally, we can support LA County Measure R, which will bring sorely needed accountability and fairness to LA’s criminal justice system.
- Green New Deal: The urgency of working for Climate Justice intersects with many UU principles and values. Whereas the science has become clear that our civilization must act within a few years to transform our economy and infrastructure away from fossilized energy and toward sustainability, delegates at UU General Assembly affirmed last year that UU congregations should work to help Build the Movement for a Green New Deal. We will continue to find ways to collaborate with and support local allies such as The Sunrise Movement, Citizens Climate Lobby, 350 and others. We will also look at potentially hosting a public forum with expert panelists to educate our community and the public about the policy challenges and opportunities.
Which of these projects do you want to be involved with? What other ideas do you have about how we can #UUtheVote? Let us know at the Faith In Action Table, stop by the next meetings of the Green Living Committee (first Sundays) and the Peace & Social Justice Committee (third Sundays), or email justice@uusm.org.
2020 Census: I Count. You Count. Everyone Counts.
APRIL 1 IS NATIONAL CENSUS DAY
Every 10 years, the Federal government is required to count every person residing in the U.S. through a national Census. April 1 is our next National Census Day. Among the many areas where the Census numbers determine outcomes are boundaries of congressional and state legislative districts.
An accurate and complete count means you are helping make the best possible future for your children and families.
Participating in the Census is safe. The citizenship question will NOT be on the Census questionnaire.
For the first time in history, the Census questionnaire will be available online. The U.S. Census Bureau will send a postcard in March to complete the survey online. The Census can also be completed by mail, phone, in-person or at any library branch. Please note: this is NOT JUST FOR RESIDENTS IN SANTA MONICA.
California has historically been the hardest-to-count state in the nation. Three out of four Californians belong to one or more groups that tend to be undercounted.
Federal funds, grants and support to states, counties and communities are based on population totals and breakdowns by gender, age, race and other factors. Information from the Census is used by local government officials, real estate developers, businesses, and residents use the Census to support community initiatives involving legislation, quality-of-life and consumer advocacy.
For more information, visit https://2020census.gov/en.html
Splinters from the Board:
Board Highlights February 2020: Stewardship Drive and Compassionate Ministries Begin
On February 11, the Board met and discussed ongoing aspects of governance.
Usually the membership list is culled during January. This year it was delayed by a month because of our recent change in fiscal year. In the past, our fair share dues to the Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) Annual Program Fund (APF) were determined by membership numbers. Members with no contribution of record for the calendar year were removed from the roles reported to the UUA. The current method of assessment used by the UUA is based on our operating expense budget.
In his minister’s report, Rev. Jeremiah Kalendae described that, although things have calmed down since the holidays, he and Board President, Jacki Weber, were busy with stewardship. The committee got activated from new beginnings, but needs a lot of assistance. Members of the Board are also involved in the stewardship kickoff – which will be March 22. Gerald Saldo and Eric Paesal, directed filming for the kickoff. The film was edited by our Director of Religious Exploration, Cleo Anderson, who was a film major in college. Many thanks go to new member, Frances Tibbits, for her efforts on behalf of stewardship.
Jeremiah has reinstated theme-based ministry. February’s theme is resilience. He also met with the groups who are involved with Sunday services, e.g. ushers, to find out how each group functions. He will put together a pamphlet/manual that lays out each responsibility. This meeting helped with his sense of the bigger picture. Jeremiah also finalized the compassionate ministries project. Beginning Monday, March 2, We Are Uno and UU Animal Ministries will prepare meals for the unhoused in the Forbes kitchen from 3-6 pm.
With regard to Pastoral Associates, Denise Helton was welcomed into this leadership committee.
The treasurer, Vilma Ortiz, reported that our finances are about on track. Pledge income is close to projected, and our expenses are lower than originally projected.
Board member, Eileen McCormack, reported that the Health and Safety task force is making progress with a plan.
Board Secretary, Norm Richey, was pleased with the attendance at the first meeting of the new round of Faith Forward. Members are welcome to attend these informative classes. Norm is also planning for a Bring a Friend to Church Sunday.
Vice-president, Beth Brownlie, reported of happenings with facilities. The new sanctuary doors and windows are almost completed. The committee is developing a 1000-day calendar for building needs. The heating system is highest on the list.
In her report, DRE Cleo mentioned her book group to discuss The Seven Necessary Sins for Women and Girls, by Mona Eltahawy
A discussion of General Assembly came up. The meeting will be in Providence, RI, June 24-28. The church is allowed up to six delegates. If you are interested in attending as a delegate, see Jacki Weber.
Other UU News & Events:
2020 PSWD Assembly is Coming!
Visit the PSWD website right now to find out more and register for the 2020 Pacific Southwest District Assembly, April 24–26 at Unitarian Universalists San Luis Obispo! This will be the best opportunity all year for UU congregations to learn from one another and share how they are working for climate justice.
RE News:
2020 Faith Forward Inquirers Series
NINE-SESSION INQUIRERS SERIES OPEN TO ALL
Many folks come to UUSM with a host of questions ranging from “What is Unitarian Universalism?” “What do UUs believe?” “What programs do you have at this church?” Our Inquirers Series is designed to help answer these questions and many others.
A total of nine sessions will be presented from Sunday, February 9, through Sunday, May 3 at 11:30 am – 12:30 pm, in room 1, second floor of Forbes. You may attend any class at any time; it is not necessary to attend them in sequence nor is it necessary to attend them all, although we hope you do so.
The following is a list of sessions:
- 2/9/20 Session 1: UU Principles, Sources, and Historical Overview. Facilitated by long-time UUs John Oliver and Sharon Harrell.
- 2/16/20 Session 2: Worship and the Liturgical Year. Abby Arnold, Worship Associate.
- 2/23/20 Session 3: Campus Tour, Orientation, and Church History. Beth Brownlie, Facilities Past Chairperson, and Bryan Oakes, Architect
- 3/1/20 Session 4: Faith-in-Action Commission. Sarah Mae Harper, Co-Chair. Under its umbrella are the Peace & Social Justice Committee and the Green Committees.
- Two-Week Break
- 3/22/20 Session 5: Faith Development for Children and Youth. Cleo Anderson, Director of Religious Education. Our Whole Lives (OWL) Program, Beth Rendeiro, Coordinator
- 4/5/20 Session 6: Q & A with the Minister. Rev Jeremiah Kalendae
- One-Week Break
- 4/19/20 Session 7: Adult Programs: Opportunities for Personal & Spiritual Growth. Beverly Shoenberger, Chairperson. Heart to Heart Groups, Cheryl Sims, Chairperson.
- 4/26/20 Session 8: Pastoral Care. Ron Crane, Past President. Care Ring, Linda van Ligten, Care Ring Committee.
- 5/3/20 Session 9: The Meaning of Membership and the Path to Membership. Norm Richey, Co-Chair, Membership Committee, and Barbara Gibbs, Membership Committee.
You may attend any or all of these sessions, whether you are a visitor, a new member or a long-time member of the congregation. For first time visitors to UUSM, we offer a brief Visitor MeetUp after each Sunday Service. At the conclusion of Visitor MeetUp you will be invited to join the Inquirers Series the following Sunday.
Inquirers Sessions will be held weekly from 11:30 am – 12:30 pm, in room 1, second floor of Forbes after the service.
Please join us…the sessions are interesting, educational and informative!
— Norm Richey,
Co-Chair, Membership
Personal and Spiritual Exploration for Adults, March 2020
February 24, 2020 Adult Programs Personal and Spiritual Exploration for Adults
Learning and exploration are about the transformation of the individual, our community, and the larger society. Participation helps us grow in wisdom, compassion, and ethical living. See our upcoming activities, programs, and workshops for adults.
To contact the facilitator in regard to any offering, you may email AdultRE@UUSM.org with the title of the group in the subject line. Your email will be forwarded.
Special Workshop
Lessons of Loss Sundays, March 1, 15, 29 and April 12
The Lessons of Loss is a Life-Span Curriculum developed by Unitarian Universalist Carol Galginaitis. To paraphrase Carol Galginaitis, in Lessons of Loss, we frequently note that loss and gain are part of the same experience. We permit the certainty of death to aid our focus on those aspects of life we find most precious. We do not suppress the great pain of loss, yet we recognize that with it may come growth, greater capacity to survive change, and novel avenues of strength. When shared, we recognize that related experiences may help our neighbors, families, and children face life and its often relentless sets of losses, with grace, hope, and peace of mind. We shall explore participants’ experiences to losses large and small including those associated with death. Reflecting on experiences, we shall also explore the consequences of both sharing and ignoring feelings of loss as well as relevant, related Unitarian Universalist theses from theologians and laypeople alike. We shall meet in Forbes Hall on March 1st from 1-3 pm, and March 15, March 29, and April 12 from 12-2 pm. Contact: Leon Henderson-MacLennan.
Community Building Through Personal Development:
Collage Group with Stan Bemis Saturday, March 14
Do you wish to express yourself creatively in art, and yet may feel inadequate or untrained? Do you yearn to make an artistic statement, yet not sure how? Do you have too many catalogs, magazines, and advertisements, and haven’t a clue what to do with them? We welcome you to create your own collages with Stan Bemis! Stan works to bring joy and peace into people’s lives by creating art. The goal of this group is to help foster personal worth and empowerment, entering that holy place within and having sacred fun. We encourage you to bring your old magazines to work with as well. We will meet from 10 am-12 noon in the NE Cottage. Contacts: Stan Bemis or Sarah Robson.
International Folk Dancing with Instructors Saturday, March 21
They say that dancing is combining fun with exercise and friends. Learn international folk dancing with instructors Sandy Helperin and Teri Hoffman. Folk dancing is for anyone who loves to move to traditional music. New dancers are welcome – there are no partners required. Donations accepted. We are meeting from 7-8:30 pm in Forbes Hall. Enter through the Arizona entrance. Contact: Ellen Levy.
Ukulele Strum and Sing-Along Saturday, March 21
UU Ukes of Santa Monica presents a monthly strum and sing-a-long. Come and play Ukulele with us (or join with another strumming instrument) or come just to sing along. All levels welcome (from no experience to advanced). Bring a Ukulele if you can, chords and lyrics will be provided and we will share tips and support each other to strum and sing-a-long, pulling from a wide range of music. We will meet in Forbes Hall on the third Saturday of the month, from 10 am-12 pm. Contact: Kim Kalmanson.
Exploration of Ideas:
AAHS Freethinker Forum Sunday, March 22
AAHS (Atheists, Agnostics, Humanists, and Secularists) is an open group that meets for a lively and engaging discussion on topics of politics, science, religion, and philosophy. We also host occasional guest speakers, films, and outings. We are a home base for non-believers and questioners, but everyone is welcome. For many, atheism/agnosticism is a first step; Humanism is the thousand steps that come after. We’ll meet one hour after the service in the Warren Mathews Conference Room. Contact: James Witker.
Science Non-Fiction Book Discussion Tuesday, March 17
We will discuss “Sorting the Beef from the Bull: The Science of Food Fraud Forensics,” by Richard Evershed, et al. The authors go beyond the important stories of adulteration – both purposeful and accidental – and look at the methods for detection and the “arms race” as scammers respond to ever-improving technology. All are welcome. We meet from 7:30-9 pm in Forbes Hall. Contact: Rebecca Crawford.
Interest Groups:
Body and Mind Tune-Up for Seniors Every Saturday
Bruno Lacombe is conducting exercise classes for seniors, super-seniors, and people with physical difficulties. Classes are no-charge for UUSM members; non-members suggested donation $10 per class to UUSM. We meet from 12:30-1:30 pm in Forbes Hall. Contact: Bruno Lacombe.
Discussion and Support for Persons with Disabilities Sunday, March 22
Come and join us as we share stories and inspirations and find community with each other. The group offers a forum in which members can feel the benefit of its mutual support. Previous topics include: how to improve the quality of one’s life overall and how to use structure, aides, and devices more successfully/productively/efficiently in one’s life. The Disability Support Group will be promoting a dialogue on a selected topic at each of its meetings throughout this church year. There is a different theme for each month. All church members interested in the topic are invited to attend. We meet on the fourth Sunday of each month a half-hour after the service in the SE Cottage. Contact: Michael Young.
Parents’ Group Sunday, TBA
Come join us to discuss the joys and challenges of parenting in a group setting! Childcare will be provided. Contact Chris Brown for more information.
UU Men’s Group Thursdays, March 5, 19
The Men’s Group offers a special opportunity to the men of the congregation and other like-minded men to join our welcoming group with provocative and stimulating discussion and to get to know others with UU perspectives in a more meaningful way. The topics for Thursday, March 5 are: “What’s the best piece of advice anyone ever gave you,” and “We’re all lucky to be here; were there any events in your life that but for … could have resulted in tragedy and how were they averted.” The topic for Thursday, March 18 is: “What was the model of masculinity you grew up with, and how did you receive the messages of what attitudes, values, behaviors, and roles are expected of a man? Who were the key people, entities, etc. who modeled and communicated that model and those messages? How did that model affect your relationships? How, if at all, has your model of masculinity changed over the years, and what have been the consequences of that change?” We meet the first and third Thursdays of the month from 7:30-9 pm in the NE Cottage. For more information contact Richard Mathias.
Meditations:
An Enjoyable Dive into Who and What We Are Mondays, March 2, 16
Bill Blake will present an enjoyable dive into the “who and what” we are. This on-going, twice a month class on the 1st and 3rd Monday is presented to help participants master specific meditation skills. We endeavor to answer the questions Who am I? (attitudes and beliefs) and What am I? (essence or true nature). This class will include meditations that explore participants’ spiritual goals. The monthly group meetings will also focus on insights gained throughout the month. It is expected that participants will develop and enjoy a regular meditation practice. The class meets in Forbes Classroom 3 from 7:30-9 pm. Contact: Bill Blake.
Open Meditation Mondays, March 9, 23, 30
We gather twice a month to sit together quietly for 20 minutes, to walk with gentle awareness for seven minutes, and to explore the integration of meditation with ordinary life through reading and sharing. Anyone who senses they would benefit from 20 minutes of silent, non-guided sitting is welcome to join us. We have found that this time of quiet meditation and shared exploration can be deeply nourishing – a time of simply “being” amidst all the “doing” of our lives. We meet in Forbes Hall, from 7:30-9:15 pm. Contacts: Bev Shoenberger or Carol Ring.