Newsletter for February, 2013
Dear friends,
When I was asked to serve as president last year, I was asked to serve a one-year term. I might not have said yes, if I had been asked to do more. Now I am finally feeling comfortable that I understand what the job requires, and the year is eight months old. I find the work fulfilling in many ways, but my vision keeps expanding and I haven’t accomplished my goals. So I am going to run for another term. If you choose to elect me at the Annual Meeting on May 19, I will serve as your president for another year, and the nominating committee can breathe a sigh of relief.Dining for Dollars 2013 is coming!
Many of you know and love this event, but if you’re anyone new, you should know that D4$ is a silent auction where you can bid on events such as dinners, as well as gift certificates, homemade baked goods, and other
treats offered by church members and friends.
D4$ is our church’s biggest fundraiser, but even better, it’s a “win-win-win,” because the church gets the money; the hosts/ donors get tax deductions; and the bidders get to attend great events (or receive fabulous baked goodies, etc.), build community, socialize with friends, and probably meet some new people.
\Inside this issue is a preliminary list of events and other offerings — a final list will be available on the days of bidding, which will take place on February 17 and 24 after each service.
Please note that we have many more events that are still being scheduled, including the annual Choir Concert, an event by Barbara Kernochan, and many, many others. Please contact Melissa Weaver, D4$ Chair, if you would like to host an event, or offer baked goods or services or gift certificates.
Dining for Dollars Events (listed so far):
- Money donated (paid) for the winning bids is nonrefundable.
- The board-approved cancellation policy is available from the D4$ Committee.
- If you cannot bid in person, you can submit bids by email or U.S. mail — please contact Melissa Weaver for further information. NO PHONE CALL BIDS will be accepted.
- Remember — bid early and often, and to have the best chance of winning, come to the auction on February 24.
- If you have any questions, please contact Melissa Weaver.
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Nonviolent Communication Workshop in Oxnard April 13 and 14
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Peace Vigil Against Torture
As Rev. Rebecca was on vacation with her family on the East Coast, First Vice President Barbara Gibbs lit the
- I will be true to myself, listen and contribute.
- I will relate to others with respect, trust, compassion, and support.
- I will remember that I am representing the community I serve.
- When I am relating to congregants who are not board members, I will serve as a two-way conduit between the board and the congregation as a whole.
- I will identify myself and the office I hold.
- I will be approachable.
- I will model commitment to the community.
- I will be an available and encouraging agent of communication.
From Our DRE
- Isolation, depression and a lack of community
- Anxiety and my desire to always be in control
- Debt, joblessness
- The past hurts of my childhood
- All the small fears that hinder…all acts of kindness left undone
- The most difficult part of this year is knowing so many people who are so alone and in need and feeling guilty
- My grandpa died
- Still being nowhere close to being able to pay the bills by doing what I love
- The loss of my beloved’s physical presence
- Worries about everyone’s health
- Fear of the transitions in life
- Infertility
- Loneliness, no family, slow loss of abilities
- Pain, pain, pain, pain
- Custody battles, worry
Warmest Wishes:
- New understanding of myself – new phase of my life
- Appreciation of productive employment, love of family
- My 30s
- Continued effort to treat others as worthy of dignity and respect
- Joy in my changing relationship with my children
- I am going to be more active in my community church and practice love and dedication
- Wisdom, love, joy, energy
- HOPE for all that sustains and nourishes, LOVE for myself, others & our environment, PEACE within & without
- Confidence and more awareness
- A new start. A new school. (The gift of change.)
- I will bring to the new year the people that I love and thetime we spend together.
- Confidence in becoming a leader of a new initiative, courage to take on a new role in life, a belief in the
- I always have my family
- Having the best year in terms of my career, life and relationship
- Trust more, take care of myself, look on the positive side
As we reflect on these messages of fear and hope, longing and promise, we remind ourselves that no matter how dark, no matter how long the night, the light shall come again. It is my hope that you will find UUCCSM to be a place where you may bring your whole self, with all of your pain and uncertainty as well as your dreams and joys, to be consecrated within the chalice of our community of faith.
Ministry Them Quotes for February: Vocation
Bettye Barclay has provided this list of daily thoughts about our ministerial theme for February.Lifespan Religious Exploration In February
- “The New Jim Crow” discussion resumes on Sunday, February 10, in the Cottage at 12:45 p.m. with Rick
- Wednesday Night Writers continue to meet on the second and fourth Wednesdays of each month in Forbes
- Empty Nesters have begun their monthly meetings on the third Sunday of each month upstairs in Forbes at
- Necktie Quilters will meet on Saturday, February 2, in Forbes Hall at 10 a.m. Bring your sewing machine,
Faith Like a River, Part 2: Themes from Unitarian Universalist History
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