During our Christmas- and solstice-themed holiday pageant on December 23, all who attended were invited to reflect on the last year and write down a few words about their own “longest nights” — the things that were hardest to bear, or that they wished to leave behind — as well as their “warmest wishes” — things they’d like to bring forward with them into the new year.
Friends, within our community we harbor much brokenness, as well as much hope. I’d like to share a small sample of these words with you, and I invite you to think of your own longest night of 2012, and your warmest wish for 2013:
As we reflect on these messages of fear and hope, longing and promise, we remind ourselves that no matter how dark, no matter how long the night, the light shall come again. It is my hope that you will find UUCCSM to be a place where you may bring your whole self, with all of your pain and uncertainty as well as your dreams and joys, to be consecrated within the chalice of our community of faith.
Bettye Barclay has provided this list of daily thoughts about our ministerial theme for February.
February 1. Before I can tell my life what I want to do with it, I must listen to my life telling me who I am. Parker J. Palmer
February 2. I think it would be well, and proper, and obedient, and pure, to grasp your one necessity and not let it go, to dangle from it limp wherever it takes you. Annie Dillard
February 3. You owe it to all of us to get on with what you’re good at. W.H. Auden
February 4. Discovering vocation does not mean scrambling toward some prize just beyond my reach but
accepting the treasure of true self I already possess. Vocation does not come from a voice out there calling
me to be something I am not. It comes from a voice in here calling me to be the person I was born to be, to fulfill the original selfhood given me at birth by God. Thomas Merton
February 5. Every industrious man, in every lawful calling, is a useful man. And one principal reason why men are so often useless is that they neglect their own profession or calling, and divide and shift their attention
among a multiplicity of objects and pursuits. Ralph Waldo Emerson
February 6. The blind spiritual instinct that tells us obscurely that our own lives have a particular importance and purpose, and which urges us to find out our vocation, seeks in so doing to bring us to a decision that will dedicate our lives irrevocably to their true purpose. Thomas Merton
February 7. Is that what they call a vocation, what you do with joy as if you had fire in your heart, the devil in your body? Josephine Baker
February 8. I have no expectation that any man will read history aright who thinks that what was done in a remote age, by men whose names have resounded far, has any deeper sense than what he is doing today. Ralph Waldo Emerson
February 9. Don’t be in a hurry about finding your work in the world for yourself — you are not old enough to judge for yourself yet; but just look about you in the place you find yourself in, and try to make things a little better
and honester there. Thomas Hughes
February 10. Everyone has his own specific vocation or mission in life; everyone must carry out a concrete assignment that demands fulfillment. Therein he cannot be replaced, nor can his life be repeated; thus, everyone’s task is as unique as his specific opportunity to implement it. Viktor E. Frankl
February 11. An unfulfilled vocation drains the color from a man’s entire existence. Honore de Balzac
February 12. The fact of the matter is that the most unexpected and miraculous thing in my life was the arrival in it of poetry itself — as a vocation and an elevation almost. Seamus Heaney
February 13. The artist’s vocation is to send light into the human heart. George Sand
February 14. When something is a vocation, you don’t really make a decision about it. Cate Blanchett
February 15. It is not more vacation we need — it is more vocation. Eleanor Roosevelt
February 16. I’ve always felt that if one was going to take seriously this vocation as an artist, you have to get beyond that decorative facade. Anish Kapoor
February 17. A society in which vocation and job are separated for most people gradually creates an economy
that is often devoid of spirit, one that frequently fills our pocketbooks at the cost of emptying our souls. Sam Keen
February 18. Each man has his own vocation; his talent is his call. There is one direction in which all space is open to him. Ralph Waldo Emerson
February 19. The test of a vocation is the love of the drudgery it involves. Logan Pearsall Smith
February 20. A vocation that is not mine, no matter how externally valued, does violence to the self. Parker J. Palmer
February 21. Where talents and the needs of the world cross, therein lies your vocation. Aristotle
February 22. Discover vocation and creation. And joy will come like clairvoyance, where blindness was before. Rumi
February 23. The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle. Steve Jobs
February 24. Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life. Confucius
February 25. To find out what one is fitted to do and to secure an opportunity to do it is the key to happiness. John Dewey
February 26. Some luck lies in not getting what you thought you wanted but getting what you have, which once you have got it you may be smart enough to see is what you would have wanted had you known. Garrison Keillor
February 27. Be like a postage stamp. Stick to one thing until you get there. Henry Wheeler Shaw writing as Josh Billings
February 28. It’s not that I’m so smart, it’s just that I stay with problems longer. Albert Einstein
Lifespan Religious Exploration In February
Children
This month in the children’s RE program, preschoolers will celebrate Valentine’s Day, and will begin to explore the larger world around them, focusing on the moon and the stars this month. Early elementary participants will engage this month’s theme of VOCATION through stories and special class activities, and will also explore some of the many different kinds of “sacred spaces” found in many traditions and cultures all over the world.
Upper elementary children in the UUniverse Story program will continue getting to know “Our Cosmic Neighborhood,” which explores our own solar system, giving participants a sense of scale. The class will also learn about human exploration of the moon and Mars, as well as the formation of the moon and how it is vital to the foundation of life on Earth.
Middle-schoolers in the Compass Points classes will explore some of the values Unitarian Universalism draws from its history, exploring the path from Protestors to Pilgrims, and from Calvinism to Channing. We will also take part in this month’s Faith in Action project on February 24 with a visit to the Westside Food Bank for a special food sort with UUCCSM members of all ages.
Youth
This month in Coming of Age, youth will explore spirituality in film with a visit from Rev. Silvio Nardoni, and will then begin exploring some of the “big questions” of faith, including the meaning of life and death.
The high school youth group is gearing up to launch fundraising efforts for this summer’s service trip to New Orleans, and is beginning to craft the theme for their worship service coming up in the spring.
The 8th to 9th grade Our Whole Lives sexuality education course is in full swing, and the 10th to 12th grade O.W.L class will begin in March, so families should be on the lookout for invitations to the parent orientations coming up soon.
Adults
Ongoing:
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“The New Jim Crow” discussion resumes on Sunday, February 10, in the Cottage at 12:45 p.m. with Rick
and Peggy Rhoads.
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Wednesday Night Writers continue to meet on the second and fourth Wednesdays of each month in Forbes
Hall, and newcomers are always welcome. February meetings are on the 13th and 27th at 7 p.m.
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Empty Nesters have begun their monthly meetings on the third Sunday of each month upstairs in Forbes at
12:30 p.m. The February meeting will be on the 17th and newcomers are always welcome.
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Necktie Quilters will meet on Saturday, February 2, in Forbes Hall at 10 a.m. Bring your sewing machine,
sharp scissors, and a sack lunch for stitching and fun.
Faith Like a River, Part 2: Themes from Unitarian Universalist History
Facilitated by Catherine Farmer Loya
Six sessions: Thursdays February 21 – March 28
7-9 p.m., Forbes Room 4
Faith Like a River explores the dynamic course of Unitarian, Universalist, and Unitarian Universalist (UU) history — the people, ideas, and movements that have shaped our faith heritage. It invites participants to place themselves into our history and consider its legacies. What lessons do the stories of our history teach that can help us live more faithfully in the present? What lessons do they offer to be lived into the future?
Join facilitator Catherine Farmer Loya for an exploration of our UU religious tradition’s roots.
After the introductory first session, this course will explore aspects of our history not covered in last spring’s Faith Like a River class; however, there is no need to have taken the earlier course in order to participate fully.
How Do Adult Programs Happen?
Well, first someone has an idea about something they either would like to learn about or can share their knowledge about at UUCCSM. They come to the Lifespan RE table in Forbes Hall on a Sunday morning and pick up an “Adult Programs Proposal Form” or they contact a committee member (listed below) and talk to him
or her about their idea. If you want to facilitate a program, you can submit the proposal form and it will be discussed at the next Adult Programs meeting (they happen on the first Tuesday of each month). If the committee feels that the concept is appropriate to our goals, we will move ahead with scheduling.
If you have an idea but aren’t feeling qualified to be the facilitator, contact someone on the committee and tell us
about it. If we think it is a viable concept, we will try to locate someone who is qualified to lead it.
Not all proposals are automatically accepted. Next month we will include a list of the criteria that we use in making our selections. In the meantime, feel free to contact any of our committee members: Carol- Jean Teuffel, Emmy Cresciman, Karen Hsu Patterson, and James Witker.
Patio Chat
Monthly UUCCSM Theme Discussion with Leon Henderson-MacLennan @ 10:10 a.m. on the Patio
Sunday, February 24 — Vocation