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The 2005 capital campaign has raised pledges of $720,000.
Our goal is $1,000,000.
As of now, 130 pledges have been received; 188 member units have not yet pledgedin our expanded capital campaign to build on the 18th Street property.
A number of you have: (1) Waited to pledge until the city permits are issued,(2) Waited to pledge until we begin building, or (3) Not yet responded to ourinvitation to pledge.
Beginning in September it is time to give our attention to our annual operatingpledge campaign. An adequate operating budget for physical expansion and currentprograms is essential.
We ask you to give your full and enthusiastic support to the Stewardship Committeeduring our annual operating fund pledge drive.
What of the capital campaign?
We'll follow up on those who have postponed their pledging or not responded,but we will remove ourselves from our highly visible presence of the past months.
When the congregation approves building phases and building begins, we'll beback to ask for your help in completion of the funds needed for our building.
"Once in a Lifetime" was not intended to be "Lasting for a Lifetime."
Your completion of a pledge for the 2005 campaign is still needed and requested.See Carol Agate, Ron Crane, Carol Kerr or Ofelia Lachtman to make your pledge.
At the least, consider giving "a dollar a day" to build our church.
With great appreciation for your enormous effort and generous contributionto the building of our church-we thank you.
"I'm a Builder" and so, too, are many of you.
- Ron Crane
Chair, 2005 Capital Campaign
A Long Night with the Planners Ends with a Unanimous "Yes"
As part of a larger group, six members of the Wednesday night covenant groupattended the Santa Monica Planning Commission meeting on July 20 to show oursupport for the church's building plans. The commission would now decide whetheror not we would receive approval to move forward.
We met for an enjoyable dinner at California Wok in West LA, allowing us toget to know each other better. But the best was yet to come.
The proposal was second on the agenda, so we caravanned to City Hall for 7:15p.m. The large group of supporters was proudly wearing bright iridescent yellowtags, identifying us as friends of the church.
The first part of the meeting went very quickly. But suddenly, time seemedto stop. The item preceding us, approval of a cellular telephone tower (we thoughtthis item would take a reasonable amount of time), began at 7:30 p.m., lastinguntil 10 p.m. By then, some of our group had to leave, understandably so. CarolKerr, church president; Catherine Farmer, director of religious education; CarolAgate, treasurer; Alison Kendall, Building Committee chair; our architect; threeof our youth, and 10 to 15 church members hung in there until close to midnight.All of us at UUCCSM can be proud of the presentation made by our representatives.
There were quite a few people who live on either 18th Street or Arizona, whoaddressed the body, even at the late hour, regarding their parking difficulties.(Please see article about parking relief on page 7.)
When all was said and done, the commission unanimously approved our petition,allowing us to build our dream church. Thank you to all who have worked so hardto bring our plans that much closer to a reality.
- Paulette Katz and Carol-jean Teuffel,
Wednesday night covenant group
Wanted: Fire in the Belly to Spark a Spiritual Need
Is the climate right for the message of Unitarian Universalism to be heartilyembraced by our communities? Are people searching for a faith that teaches tolerancerather than self-righteousness? For one that understands that giving man dominionover the earth doesn't mean "humans" can simply dominate the earth? Do peoplewant a faith that works for social justice instead of promising pie in the sky?Absolutely.
Why do we show up at church on Sundays, but to be challenged to go out andmake the world a better place in which to live? And to create a culture forour children where they feel a responsibility and, indeed receive pleasure,from doing the same?
I think of the amazing sermon my dear friend Daniel Sokatch gave this summeron the work of the Progressive Jewish Alliance (PJA). The congregation was raptas he continued far beyond the typical endof- service time. Daniel was talkingabout the transformative work the PJA does: how it's not doing just service,but working for justice; and it's filling a deep spiritual need, especiallywith young people. He talked about the Jewish moral imperative to work for justicein your own community: literally, faith in action. A dozen people approachedhim afterward and asked, "Is this really what Judaism is about? If it is, maybeI should consider revisiting it."
Do we have a fire in our belly that drives us to transform our own lives andthe lives of those around us for the better like Daniel and the PJA? I thinkmany of us feel it, and that's what draws us here. We hope to find in this churcha group of like-minded people searching for transformation. And we do.
I believe what happens, however, is that we fall short of realizing our potentialbecause we don't have the infrastructure to support this transformation.
I love our minister, Judith Meyer. I love Marie Kashmer- Stiebing, our churchadministrator. I love the work that Catherine Farmer, our director of religiouseducation, is doing, along with Steve Wight, Louis Durra and our other musicstaff. But ask any one of them: They will tell you there is so much more theycould be doing, and the church could be doing, if they had more support.
Imagine an addition to this great team: someone who focuses on lifelong religioustransformation among our members; someone who embraces new members and seeksto bring out their gifts; someone who can see the desire of people within ourcommunity for self-transformation and transformation of others and connect thosedots; someone who can help integrate the 50-plus new members we sign up eachyear, to help them incorporate our UU values into their lives and spread thegood word to others who might join us.
Imagine having a point person on staff who could work with our Faith in Actionand Small Group Ministry to make our presence in the community a formidableone. We only need look to our friends at Neighborhood Church in Pasadena tosee their impact on the community. A few years back they added an Outreach Coordinatorto their staff. They now have more than a dozen outreach programs, most of whichoffer effective hands-on volunteer opportunities that have daily impact on Angelinos(particularly at-risk children) for the better.
Imagine adding support for Judith and Catherine: someone who can focus on thespiritual development of the young adults in the church, or the older adultsin the church for that matter. Imagine a full-time member of our community whocould oversee programs from Circle Suppers to a Caring Committee . . . and reallygive them the energy and time they need to be nurtured.
These are a few of our needs. I'm sure there are others, and maybe more importantones. But since I joined the church a few years back, it seems to me that ourbudgeting process (i.e., how can we keep our expenses as limited as possible)has limited our vision (i.e., how can we transform as many lives as possible,both within our church and in the larger community)
Our UU faith has the right message for this time in history. But committedvolunteers alone cannot grow our church. We must all ask ourselves, how manylives do we want to transform? What do we want our legacy to be? And what willit take to fulfill that legacy?
Our fall pledge drive begins in just a few weeks. We'll once again be askingyour support for the coming year. You've been asked to fund our new buildingproject. Now, consider increasing your pledge for our operating budget. Thischurch is a vibrant community -one that has much potential and can truly changethe world. But it's going to take some resources from each one of us. Won'tyou make that commitment?
In faith,
Jacki Weber,
Chair, Stewardship Committee
One more thought . . .
Please consider making this congregation your primary charitable beneficiaryand pledge a percentage of your income to support the church's work. A pledgeof 5% or more of your after-tax income says in clear terms that your church,the values it helps you live by, and this community of friends have a significantplace in your heart or life. That 5% number may be scary to you. I'm at 3% (combinedcapital and operating pledges) and it's a real commitment. But this year, myhusband got a raise. We'll give the church 10% of his raise and yearby- year,we'll inch up toward that 5%. When we finish paying our capital campaign pledge,we'll increase our operating pledge by the amount we're currently sending tothe new building project. Join me in increasing your commitment and become partof the transformation.
Living Green: More Good Ideas
The Seventh Principle of our Unitarian Universalist faith is "Respect for theinterdependent web of all existence of which we are a part." With that in mind,here are some more ideas about living green.
1. Use an environmentally safe dry cleaner. They advertise,so look at storefronts or use the phone book to find one near you.
2. Buy things that last. Ignore ads prompting you to get anew one.
3. Use cloth napkins. Families can reuse these all week byfolding and putting them in napkin rings for the next meal. If you are handywith sewing, you can make your own from fabric scraps.
- Sandra Trutt
Pres. Bush to Our Dr. Goodman: "Your Actions are Part of Change"
President Bush has written a letter of commendation to our past president andlongtime active member Dr. Ray Goodman, sending congratulations to him on receivingthe President's Volunteer Service Award from the President's Council on Serviceand Civic Participation. "Through service to others, you demonstrate the outstandingcharacter of America and help strengthen our country," the President writes.
Ray is Medical Director of the Los Angeles Medical Reserve Corps, serving 11million people, all of Los Angeles County, the largest community in the U.S.Over 500 volunteers are prepared to provide health care services in mass vaccinationclinics, aid in the distribution of pharmaceutical centers, and participatein the presentation of public health education programs to prepare and respondto any major disaster. Ray and all his health care professionals serve withoutany compensation. More information is available at www.cphd.ucla.edu/mrc.
The President's letter to Ray added: "In January 2002, I called on all Americansto dedicate at least two years-or 4,000 hours-over the course of their livesto serve others at home or abroad. I congratulate you and all Americans whohave answered this call and have earned a Silver Award from the President'sCouncil. Americans of all ages can serve others in countless ways, such as mentoringa child, caring for an elderly neighbor, teaching someone to read, cleaningparks, and creating safer neighborhoods.
"My Administration encourages every American to help their communities andour country. Through the USA Freedom Corps and the President's Council, we arebuilding a culture of service, citizenship, and responsibility in America thatwill last for decades to come. Americans continue to serve and are part of thegrowing momentum of millions of acts of kindness and decency that are changingAmerica, one heart and soul at a time. Your actions are part of this change.I urge you to continue serving your neighbors and earn a Gold Award. I alsohope that you will ask your friends, family, and colleagues to join you in servingyour community and our Nation.
"May God bless you, and may God continue to bless America.
"Sincerely, George Bush."
The Seventh Principle of our Unitarian Universalist faith is "Respect for theinterdependent web of all existence of which we are a part." With that in mind,we would like to share some more ideas on living green.
1. Reuse everything until it's worn out.
2. Buy produce from local farmers markets to reduce the cost of getting foodto your table, save gas, and save on packaging materials.
3. On sunny days, hang wash outside to dry.
- Sandra Trutt
Join the movement afoot to strengthen our community in ways we've always hoped.
"Stewardship begins when a first-time visitor arrives at church, becomes amember and extends throughout the life of the congregation, including estateplanning and bequest options. Stewardship is an essential ministry of the church,an integral part of congregational life . . ." writes Michael Durall, author,"The Almost Church."
The Stewardship Committee is interested in using stewardship's tools-service,community and charitable giving to transform lives. Inspired (and in some cases,agitated) by Michael Durall's book, the committee and friends who joined usfor a book discussion on May 11 came up with a number of initiatives to undertakein coming months.
Interested in finding out more? Join a new Yahoo Group and keep abreast ofwhat's happening. No need to join a committee. No need to make a commitment.(Unless you want.)
It's easy to join. Simply visit the stewardship website at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/uusm_stewardshipand click on "Join this group" in the upper right-hand corner. There you canregister for Yahoo Groups (if you haven't already) and then sign up for uusm_stewardship.You can receive posts as they are sent, or in daily digests (when there aremultiple posts in a day, you'll receive them all at once), or never. Then whenyou visit the page, you can see the conversations that have taken place anda calendar of upcoming stewardshiprelated activities.
If you don't have e-mail, but you're interested in stewardship's work, pleasecall me.
- Jacki Weber
Small Group Ministry -- View from the Inside:
How did the program come into being at UUCCSM?
It all began when Intern Minister Stefanie Etzbach- Dale got the green lightfrom the Rev. Judith Meyer to explore interest among the congregation. Stefanie'sintensive research ensured that we would have a solid foundation for the program,and Small Group Ministry (SGM) has become one of the important legacies of hertenure at our church.
After assembling the pieces from her research efforts, Stefanie started witha small group of church members, explaining the vision, purposes, and structureof SGM as it is followed throughout the UU community. Those interested membersbecame the core group to finally launch SGM at UUCCSM.
Covenant Groups, per se, are the tip of the SGM iceberg and they are the operatingunits and the raison d'etre. However they would be unable to function effectivelyif it weren't for the preparation and ongoing work done by the Covenant GroupImplementation Team (CGIT), the core group started to launch SGM and the committeethat now sustains it.
The CGIT, after a month of "learning" meetings and armed with a stack of paperwork,met as a task force to shape and define covenant groups for UUCCSM and givethem form and life. The CGIT took the blueprint and began planning, trying newideas, learning, and fleshing out our program.
The rest is history. Two new Covenant Groups are underway and the initial twoare still meeting. More new groups will form in September. The program is aliveand well, and the CGIT is the invisible hand at work behind the scenes to ensurethe continuing success of SGM at our church.
For example, the CGIT has developed and/or assembled the following items:
Are you a member of a UUCCSM committee? Do you ever wish there were a simpleway to e-mail all of your committee members without constantly looking up andre-typing their e-mail addresses? Do you ever lose track of who has joined orresigned from a committee you're trying to contact? If so, you might want toconsider setting up an e-mail alias for your committee, which would establisha single address for e-mail that is sent to all your committee members. Forexample, members of our Building Committee can now be reached using the addressbuilding@uusm.org, the Stewardship Committeeis at stewardship-committee@uusm.org,and the people who receive newsletter submissions are at newsletter@uusm.org
The benefits of having a single address for your committee are that anyonetrying to reach the committee can use just a single address to contact all themembers at once, a "reply all" response lets everyone follow the conversationthread, and it doesn't matter how often people leave or join the committee -the contact address always remains the same.
To set up an e-mail alias for your committee, please contact Marie Kashmer-Stiebingat the church office, and let her know the name of your committee, the e-mailaddress (with an @uusm.org suffix) you'd like to use, and the namesand personal e-mail addresses of the people who should receive mail sent tothat address. Marie will pass the information on to Greg Wood and Liz Fuller,who manage the mailing addresses through our website host.
Also, if you'd like your new committee address to be published on our website,we can do that as well. Just be aware, however, that any address published onany website will become a target for spam and the occasional strange or randominquiry. So anyone who receives mail from a published address (i.e., anyoneon your committee mailing list) will receive that spam as well. (We do havejunk mail filters on the aliases, but while they help, they can't solve theproblem entirely.) If all the members of a committee approve publication ofthe committee's address, however, we will be happy to include it on the website.
- Liz Fuller
Once in a Lifetime is Now
I paraphrase the late Robert Karnan, UU Minister, because he speaks to thegreater meaning of what a community builds:
We UUs are theists and atheists, pagans and Trinitarians, the confused andthe certain. Our sharing stimulates us. We are made thoughtful by our differences.
We do not come to church to balance a budget or meet the goals of a buildingcampaign. We come to church because it speaks and acts for the transformationof our lives at all levels: spiritually, emotionally, intellectually, and morally.
We live together as a community made of companionship and love, social concerns,agreements and disagreements, and hospitality, spirituality and mystery.
Our community exists to do something a great deal more compelling than growingour congregation or annual budget. We exist to enjoy the gift of deep and soulfulfriendship. We share our sorrow, our tears, our laughter and our joy. We shareour lost moments and our insanity, our found moments and our sanity. We shareour humanity. We live to err time and again, but we do so openly and in a communityof searching and understanding. We mold a context of truthfulness and spiritualvulnerability that is ferociously alive and transforming.
For our children, and for ourselves, we provide the safety of learning andloving.
Above all the items we are both a giver and a receiver. As you consider thedifficulty and excitement of making buildings and gardens, remember that theyare only vehicles that carry our community. Contribute to what we are and whatwe offer others to be.
"Once in a Lifetime" is now.
-Ron Crane
Member, Unitarian Universalist Community Church of Santa Monica
Our Ministers Lobby in Sacramento
The Rev. Silvio Nardoni and I joined 50 clergy from several faiths in Sacramentoon April 17 to ask legislators to support AB 19, the "Religious Freedom andCivil Marriage Protection Act." This bill ensures equal treatment under thelaw for same-sex couples by allowing them to marry in California.
A highlight of the day was listening to the coauthors of the Act, AssemblymanMark Leno and Assembly Speaker Fabian Nu
Don't Park on Street; You Could Win a Raffle Ticket
The Building Committee met with neighbors of our church on March 13 to answerany questions about our building project. We blanketed the neighborhood withinvitations, and had six neighbors attend, all of them residents of 17th, 18thor 19th Streets. We soon learned that they had three issues on their minds:parking, parking and parking.
The neighbors acknowledged that much of the problem in the neighborhood comesfrom employees at the car dealerships and visitors to the nearby hospital andmedical offices who park on the street rather than pay high parking prices.In addition, many housing units in the neighborhood lack onsite parking forresidents. Our church contributes to the lack of street parking at our busiesttimes, especially Sundays and Monday evenings when a large group rents ForbesHall. We can help to reduce our impact on an already difficult situation bycarpooling with others to events at the church.
We have a long-standing agreement with UCLA that provides us with access totheir garage at the corner of Arizona and 16th Street from 8:30 a.m. to 2:30p.m. every Sunday. These hours can be lengthened with advance notice to accommodateour occasional Sunday afternoon events. All you need to do is pick up a lightblue parking permit from the front office, place it on your dash, and have theattendant let you in. We are distributing copies of the parking pass at servicesto make sure everyone has a copy.
If you need to drop off food, young children, or older or disabled people whohave difficulty with the walk from the garage, please use the spaces along Arizona.We have asked the City to allow one of the spaces on Arizona near Forbes Hallto be designated a yellow "drop off zone," but until the curb is painted, wewill need to try to keep this area free for dropping off on Sundays.
Another great way to get here without parking hassles is on the Big Blue Bus,Santa Monica's award winning bus system. Our church is located right betweenline 2 on Wilshire Boulevard and lines 1 and 10 on Santa Monica Boulevard. Wehave posted the bus map and schedule in the lobby of Forbes Hall, along witha supply of schedules for these lines. The fare is 75 cents and is only 25 centsif you are at least 62 years old. Check bigbluebus.comfor further information.
My favorite way to arrive at church is on foot or on a bike. If you've beenlooking for an excuse to take a walk or a bike route, what better time thanSunday morning? Walking to church gives you a chance to relax and enjoy thegardens, stop in for brunch, and do your errands. We have a bike rack in theback yard of 1248 and are looking into installing one in Anderson Courtyardto provide a convenient place to lock your bike. Don't forget to wear a helmet.Bike route information is posted with the bus schedules in Forbes Hall.
For the next few months we will be offering special incentives for using ourremote parking, carpooling, walking, biking or taking the bus to church. Asyou arrive at the church, tell us your "good neighbor" effort and you will geta raffle ticket good for prizes at the end of the month. You'll also be helpingus document our good neighbor travel behavior for our follow-up meeting withthe neighbors and our public hearing with the Planning Commission later in thespring. So let's not forget to "walk the walk" on our way to church, as wellas within.
-Alison Kendall, Building Chair
Our Own Weekend Retreat Beckons Us June 17 to 19
Did you ever want to own a cabin in the mountains - a place where you can retreaton weekends; a place to walk in the forest and hear the sounds of the wild -the birds, a babbling brook, the chatter of a squirrel; a place so quiet youcan hear an acorn or a leaf hit the ground; a place where you can wonder atthe nighttime sky and smell the pines?
Well, you do own justsuch a place.
"Everyone who is a member of any UU church in southern California owns Campde Benneville Pines," says John Schaibly, president, Camp deBenneville Pinesboard of directors.
Our church will occupy the entire camp again for the Father's Day weekend thisyear. The dates are June 17 to 19. A full agenda of activities for all agesis planned, so there is always plenty to do. Or, you can simply relax, enjoythe good food and get to know people from church in a very different setting.
We expect to have a full house again this year, so be sure to register aftereither of the services on Sunday, April 17. If Craig's Cabin is overbooked,we will have a random drawing to select the lucky ones.
Don't miss this special event. The record rainy season will guarantee a mostenjoyable summer solstice environment.
We need your help. Once in a lifetime, the opportunity presents itself to participatein something that makes the world a better place. A better place for now. Abetter place for the future.
Our capital campaign is in the beginning stage.
We are on our way to completing the funding to have a larger sanctuary, safeand adequate room for our kids, a lovely building and grounds.
UUs are renowned for their service to the community. Now is the time to providethat well-known service to our own community.
In the course of the capital campaign, more than 100 people will provide volunteerservice to make the campaign a success.
The campaign will need luncheon organizers, writers, stuffers, canvassers,designers, music makers, teachers, talkers, givers of time and money and hardworkers who share a desire to complete our building program.
Volunteer. It's what we do.
-- Ron Crane, Capital Campaign chair
New Telephone Outreach Program Will Connect Members One on One
If you don't have a lot of extra time, but would like to make a differencein someone's life, we have a new program you'll want to hear about. Can youspare half an hour each week?
Starting now, UUCCSM is recruiting members of our congregation to do telephoneoutreach to other UUs in our congregation who would welcome and benefit fromyour calls. The calls can be made on a day and time you reach by mutual agreement.The goal of the program is to enhance connection to the church community forour members who live alone, or are socially isolated or frail.
Soon there will be an initial two-hour training session for callers, and monthlyfollow-up sessions will monitor the program's progress.To learn more about becominga volunteer, please call Anita Brenner. We look forward to hearing from you.
An Invitation to Everyone from Small Group Ministry
A warm welcome to explore our Small Group Ministry is extended to each long-timemember, newcomer, and visitor. In the Small Group Ministry, souls are fed throughpersonal connections. An empty chair in the circle symbolizes a place for othersto join. Personal sharing is the process. Members of these small groups practicethe art of being present: breathing, listening, and just witnessing withoutjudgment. Being present provides the opportunity to understand oneself and othersby willingly working through conflicts and building relationships.
In this circle members who struggle to articulate their truth in their ownexperience and to trust an environment of acceptance, often have powerful insights.In the words of Robert M. Pirsig, "The place to improve the world is first inone's own heart and head and hands."
The current groups are growing roots; there is strong bonding, a high levelof member participation, and deeper exploration in the fifth month of meetings.
The Small Group Ministry is growing. Our minister will lead training in Marchfor eight facilitators, which will add at least two new groups in April andthen again in September, if all goes as planned. The Covenant Group ImplementationTeam is planning material to add to the actively-visited church website, consideringa permanent place in Forbes Hall for a display of photos and informational brochures,and polishing the resource guide and policy manual for future planners.
Valuable learning continues for everyone. There is pride, excitement, and hopeabout Small Group Ministry and what it can mean for individuals and the largerchurch community. This is an inclusive program where everyone is invited toshare in the expansion of our lives and what it means to be human.
Please visit the information table after Sunday services, during coffee hour.
- Carol-jean Teuffel
At the Newsletter Meeting, a Passion for Punctuation
What do your newsletter volunteers discuss when they get together for theirsemi-annual face-to-face meeting? They eat, introduce new volunteers, and reviewworkflow. But would you believe that the largest part of the February meetingwas taken up talking about punctuation - that these were not just intellectualconversations, but volunteers passionately taking sides of arguments?
Would you think that an em-dash - dash the length of an "m" setting off a parentheticalremark in a sentence, versus en-dash - used for numbers (3-5) but also createdautomatically when doing a space dash space in Microsoft Word - discussion wouldbring on equally vigorous loyalty from a majority of the writers, editors, anddesigners in the group? There was a clear split between those whose backgroundwas academia and those who worked in publishing. The decision was tabled fornow.
And it didn't stop with a dash. Other topics of passionate discussion includedwhether the hour of the day should be written 7 a.m., 7 am, 7 A.M., or 7 AM.One person opted for 7:00 a.m. And should our surrounding city be written asLA, which everybody says, but is also the abbreviation for Louisiana, or L.A.,which is an easily defensible standard? A corollary to the arguments was thatremoving the periods would make the line cleaner and free up valuable line space.The periods stayed in.
One of the designers was a passionate advocate for the academic style versusthe newspaper style. She brought down the house when she offered to trade AMfor an em-dash without spaces.
There was also a line drawn, and sides taken, on how to identify titles ofbooks, movies, etc. The book world italicizes books and movies; the newspaperworld uses quotes, always. There was one unanimous agreement though - no underlining(it's so typewriter). Final verdict: you will see quotes around titles fromnow on.
The nice part of this discussion was that it was full of laughter, becauseeveryone knew that though these things ARE important, they are not world- orchurchchanging. Carol Agate, the newsletter coordinator, commented that laughterwas not as large a part of other meetings she attends.
Whether you, the reader, know it or not, there is a payoff for you, too. Writers,editors and designers want the general reader to read an article and not bedistracted by word and punctuation confusions and inconsistencies. There isserious interest in making sure you can focus on content.
So twice a year you'll find the writers, editors, and designers laughing atthe serious job of making your reading of the newsletter easier. The other 363days the conversation continues electronically across the Internet.
- Nels Hanson
Building Committee Prepares Applications for City Agencies
The Building Committee has been hard at work preparing the plans and applicationmaterials for submission to the City of Santa Monica. The application materialsinclude a request for Development Review and a Conditional Use Permit to remodelour existing facilities at 1260 18th Street, adding a new religious educationwing to Forbes Hall at the back of the new property at 1248 18th Street, andmoving the house forward and remodeling it for use as office space. We are alsorequesting a variance for a reduction in on-site parking and use of off-siteparking facilities very similar to the request approved by the Planning Commissionlast year. Alison Kendall, chair of the Building Committee, is completing thenecessary application materials with our architect, Ralph Mechur, and our pro-bonoland use attorney, Chris Harding.
With plenty of committee input on the design, the architect is finalizing allthe drawings required by the city, and we hope to submit the application inearly February. We will be holding a community meeting sometime in March todescribe our proposal and offer discussion about concerns that our neighborsmight have.
We hope to have a Planning Commission hearing in the spring. Remember, however,that our previous application (about the 17th Street property) had been deemedcomplete in October 2003, yet the hearing about that application was not helduntil early March 2004, so we are likely to encounter delays this time aroundas well. After Planning Commission approval we will need to go through ArchitecturalReview Board approval, and then prepare and submit construction drawings forbuilding permits. We hope to expedite the house relocation and remodeling togive us usable space before remodeling Forbes Hall and building the new wing.Expansion of the sanctuary will be the final phase.
The sale of our 17th Street parcel netted over $1 million, a major start toour new capital fund, which was depleted by the purchase of the lot at 124818th Street. A new capital campaign is expected to start soon to close the gapbetween our current funds and the anticipated total amount needed for all threephases of construction. We are starting to work with our architect and the contractorwe had selected for the 17th Street project to refine our original planninglevel estimate of $1.8 million.
The Building Committee meets every other Monday at 6:30 p.m. This month's meetingsare scheduled for Monday, February 14, and Monday, February 28. Please contactAlison Kendall or Marie Kashmer-Stiebing, Church Administrator, to confirm meetingdates.
-Alison Kendall
UNICEF Donations Total Over $4,000; More Will Be Given for Tsunami Victims
Our congregation has raised $4,323.46 for UNICEF, an international agencyproviding humanitarian relief to children and their families affected by thetsunami disaster in southeast Asia.
In announcing at the January 2 services that UNICEF would receive the non-pledgecollection, the Rev. Judith Meyer said, "UNICEF is already active in all thecoastal areas affected by the tsunami. One of the many sad realities about thedestruction from the tsunami is that so many children have suffered and died;those who remain alive face drastically altered lives from the aftermath oftrauma and the threat of disease.
"There are many worthy organizations stepping up to the challenge of providingrelief, and Unitarian Universalist organizations are doing their part," Judithadded. "The Unitarian Universalist Service Committee will be collaborating withthe Unitarian Universalist Association to work with grassroots organizationsin India."
As part of our "generous congregation" program, our church will also collectmoney for the UU Service Committee (UUSC) and for Global Health Access Program,a local humanitarian relief agency that has sent Los Angeles doctor Larry Stockto Sri Lanka.
"Even if you think you don't have much to give," Judith commented, "it is worthmore than you may think. And if it is difficult to give right now, there willbe many opportunities later. Once the media attention has waned, the publichealth crisis will continue. The support we give in a couple of weeks or evenmonths will be just as badly needed as it is now."
-Paula Bernstein
Dining for Dollars Events
Bidding Dates: Sunday, February 20, and Sunday, February 27, 2005. (10:00 –11:00am; 12:00 – 1:15pm)
Date | Host | Event | Time |
Sat. March 5 | Van den Beemt | Authentic Swiss Cheese Fondue | 6:00pm |
Sat. March 12 | DePaul/Rendeiro | Games People Play & Supper | 4:30-8:00pm |
Sat. March 19 | Van den Beemt/McDonald/Guidotti/Ewen | Champagne Hike with Lunch | 9:00am |
Sat. March 19 | Scott/Spoto | Dinner & Harpsichord Music | 6:30pm |
Sun. March 20 | Trutt | Trivial Pursuit the Game & Comfort Food/Snacks | 2:00-5:00pm |
Sat. March 26 | Gilliam | Roast Beef & Shakespeare | 7:00pm |
Sat. April 2 | Moore | Crown Roast of Lamb | 6:30pm |
Sat. April 2 | Lim/Burrows/Shinno | Chinese Spring Celebration | 7:00pm |
Sun. April 3 | Hallinan | Bloody Marys & Brunch | 12:30pm |
Sun. April 3 | Elahi | Dinner with a Persian Accent | 7:00-10:00pm |
Sat. April 9 | Nyquist/Gates | Ancestors Evening Dinner | 6:30pm |
Sun. April 10 | Bamford | Sunday Afternoon High Tea | 4:00pm |
Fri. April 15 | Chapgier | French Roasted Chicken Tarragon Dinner | 7:00pm |
Sat. April 16 | Steinicke | Picnic/Wildflower Walk in Topanga | 1:00pm |
Sat. April 16 | Goodwin | Joni Mitchell Night & Dinner | 7:00pm |
Sat. April 23 | Straw/Jones/Bickford | Progressive Southern BBQ Huck Finn Picnic | 11:00am |
Sun. April 24 | Loran | Northern Italian Dinner with a View | 6:30pm |
Sat. April 30 | Nardoni | Mad Hatter Tea with Prizes for Best Hats (hats optional) | 3:00-5:00pm |
Sat. April 30 | Canady | Mom’s Lasagna & Pie | 6:00pm |
Sun. May 1 | Schonebaum | Sunday Afternoon Plein Air Drawing with Lunch | 1:00-4:00pm |
Sun. May 1 | Bjornlie | Scandinavian Supper | 6:00pm |
Sat. May 7 | Hasse/Pinto | Kentucky Derby Lunch Buffet | tba |
Sat. May 7 | Goetz | Mexican & Margaritas | 7:00pm |
Sat. May 14 | Boothe/Varga | Baked Salmon Dinner (wheat & dairy free) | 5:00pm |
Sat. May 14 | Goodwin/Lisovsky | Bridge Buffet | 6:00pm |
Sat May 21 | Bleak/Smith | Post-Kentucky Derby Lunch/Tea (The Preakness) | 1:00pm |
Sat. May 21 | Choir | “We Shall Overcome”: Songs of Social Conscience | 7:00pm |
Sun. May 22 | Kahn/Spears | Brunch with a View | 1:00pm |
Sat. May 28 | Parkerton | Moguls of Northern India Dinner | 7:00pm |
Mon. May 30 | Bonacich | Holiday BBQ/croquet, volley ball, ping pong | 3:00-7:00pm |
Fri. June 3 | Olson | Sunset Bistro Supper at the Beach/Bel Air Bay Club | 5:30pm |
Sat. June 4 | Hanson | Springtime in Southern Italy Dinner | 5:30pm |
Sat. June 4 | Jain | North Indian Vegetarian Meal | 6:30pm |
Sun. June 5 | Scruggs | Barbeque, Ping Pong & Sunset at the Beach | 5:00pm |
Sun. June 5 | Nyquist | Ladies’ Night at the Heated Pool | 5:30pm |
Fri. June 10 | Malich | Uzbekistan Restaurant Menu | 7:00pm |
Sat. June 11 | Dietz/Voegtlen | Dean’s Wonderful Pancake Breakfast by Bob Dietz | 10:00am |
Sat. June 11 | Curtis | A Julia Child Dinner Beef Bourguignon/French Wines | 7:00pm |
Sun. June 12 | Mill | South Beach Summer Feast | 6:00pm |
Sat. June 18 | Stange | California/European Gourmet Dinner | 6:00pm |
Sat. June 25 | Pulliam | Indonesian Rice Table | 7:00pm |
Sun. June 26 | Greenman/Simmons | Que-tennany (BBQ hot dogs, hamburgers, singalong) | 5:00pm |
Sat. July 9 | Fouts/Weber | Lazy Summer BBQ | 4:00pm |
Sat. July 9 | Anderson | Dinner at the Jonathan Club in Malibu | 6:00pm |
Sat. July 16 | Chipman | Champagne Lunch | 1:00pm |
Sat. July 16 | Burrows | Northern Italian Holiday From Veneto to Tuscany | 6:00pm |
Sat. July 23 | Crawford/Frank | Gourmet Greek Dinner | 6:30pm |
Sat. July 23 | Elson/Olson | Spanish Holiday (Paella & Sangria) | 7:00pm |
Sat. July 30 | Van den Beemt | Paella Dinner | 6:00pm |
Sun. July 31 | Pateman | Summer Vegetarian Lunch | 1:00pm |
Sat Aug. 6 | Wright | Fiesta: Tapas, Margaritas, etc. | 6:00pm |
Sat. Aug. 6 | Arnold/Prichard/Lane | Food & Wine from Central & South America | 6:00pm |
Sun. Aug. 7 | Brae | Sunset & Succulent Sustenance/from Ocean to Montana | 6:30pm |
Sat. Aug. 13 | Kerr | Evening in Bangkok | 7:00pm |
Sat. Aug. 20 | De Benedittis/Pinkham/Pulliam | High Noon at the Del Rey Lagoon/El Salvadorean Picnic | 12:00-3:00pm |
Sat. Aug. 20 | Machnik | An Evening at Chez Monet (Parisian French Dinner) | 6:30pm |
Sat. Sept. 10 | Patch/Harati/Paddock | Beach BBQ at Dockweiler Beach | 5:00pm |
Sat. Sept. 17 | March/Clark | Renaissance Role-Playing Feast | 4:00pm |
Sat. Sept. 24 | Kelly/Olson | Tea & Tarot/ High Tea (your fortune told) | 2:00pm |
Sat. Oct. 1 | Kernochan | “Solve” (For those with a palate for puzzlements) | 7:00pm |
Sat. Oct. 8 | Kory | California Cuisine on the Grill | 6:00pm |
Sun. Oct. 9 | Paddock | Napa Valley Brunch | 1:00pm |
Sat. Oct. 15 | Murray/Higginbotham | Bird Walk & Brunch | 8:00am |
Sat. Oct. 15 | Jones/Hamilton | Moroccan Feast | 6:00pm |
Sat. Oct. 22 | MacQueen | Beach Walk at Sunset Followed by Autumn Supper | 5:30pm |
Sat. Oct. 22 | Gomez | French Bistro Menu & Game Night | 6:00pm |
Sat. Oct. 29 | Alison/Van Ligten | Day of the Dead Celebration | 7:00pm |
Sat. Nov. 12 | Chipman | The Last Supper | 6:00pm |
Camp de Benneville Pines: Two Weekends | |||
Restaurants: Casa Blanca, Frito Misto, Melisse, Warszawa |
Meet the New Capital Campaign Leader:
Ron Crane Has Extraordinary Background
Ron Crane, a psychotherapist active in the life of our church since he joinedfour years ago, is the chair for our 2005 capital campaign.
"The serendipity, magic, or mystery of life has given us the last-minute opportunityto own the property next door," Ron believes. "Now our children will be in asafe space going to class, and now there can be room for all of our studentswithout some of them having to go a block away to reach their RE class. Nowthe Anderson Courtyard can expand and the garden can be a place where we canwalk as well as sit. Now our crumbling building can have a new face."
Ron brings plenty of experience to his new job raising money for our expansionand remodeling. "I've chaired two capital campaigns with goals of over $1 million(Santa Fe Rape Crisis Center in 1994 and Youth Shelters and Family Servicesin 1995), and I've been involved in fundraising at numerous non-profit organizations(Ocean Park Women's Shelter, Big Brothers and Big Sisters, Council for SecularHumanism, The Newbridge School, Lifering Secular Recovery Organization, YouthShelters, Family Services, and others," he says. "I've done everything fromselling raffle tickets at the mall (Big Brothers) to organizing a Hispanic MusicFestival in Santa Fe (1992)."
Raising money didn't come naturally, though. "About 15 years ago," Ron says,"I completed the UCLA certification program for fundraising and non-profit development.I took that series because I had such difficulty asking people to donate money."
Ron joined UUCCSM in 2001 with John Fels, his partner for over 20 years. Sincethen, Ron has served the church as a member of the Long-Range Planning Committee,president of Interweave, chair of the Welcoming Congregation Committee, memberof the Faith in Action Commission, member of the Stewardship Committee, chairfor Planned Giving, secretary of the Board of Directors, and instructor forthe senior high school OWL program. He came to our church after over 25 yearsof awareness of UU philosophy, primarily through work with humanist and existentialorganizations, including the Council for Secular Humanism, American HumanistAssociation, Humanist Psychology Association, and Society of Humanistic ExistentialPsychology.
"The reasons people attend our church are as individual as the individualsattending," he says. "There are as many reasons for refurbishing and buildingour church as there are members. After 75 years we now have the opportunityto clean up, beautify, and expand
Well folks, you've just had a chance to see a bit of the inner workings ofdemocracy in action. Last month, I shared with you a proposal that was beingconsidered to abolish the position of church treasurer. I cited compelling reasonsthat had led to the proposal, some of the impediments to implementing it, anda list of major factors that needed to be considered.
It was the third of those factors, the need for any volunteer position to befilled by realistically available candidates, that led the discussion to anunexpected answer. That answer was to strengthen rather than abolish the treasurerposition, but in a way that would not require unrealistic technical financialcompetence on the part of the incumbent.
Specifically, the annually elected treasurer would be responsible for monitoringand taking action relative to performance against budget, and for participatingactively in development of the budget for the following year. The longer-termFinance Committee would be the primary source of technical financial competenceon an advisory basis, providing technical support to both the treasurer andthe financial accounting functions of the office staff. It would also serveas financial policy advisor to the board and the congregation.
Democracy does work, by golly, and discussion among intelligent people canlead to solid solutions to seemingly difficult problems.
-Warren Mathews, Finance Committee Chair
Although the terms are often used interchangeably, "long-range planning" and"strategic planning" differ in what we can assume about the environment surroundingour plans. Long-range planning generally means the development of a plan foraccomplishing goals over a period of several years. It assumes that currentknowledge about future conditions is sufficiently reliable to ensure the reliabilityof the plan itself over the duration of implementation.
On the other hand, strategic planning assumes that we must be responsive toa dynamic, changing environment. It stresses the importance of making decisionsthat will ensure our ability to successfully respond to changes in the environment.Fundamental to this process is thinking that asks, "Are we doing the right thing?"
In either case, planning for our future is determined by goals, objectives,roles and responsibilities, timelines, etc., in the context of our UUCCSM vision,mission, and values.
At its spring retreat, the board authorized the formation of a long-range planningcommittee made up of board and non-board church members. In November, the boardratified this decision. There is work to be done and it's time to get going.If you would like to be part of this effort, please call me.
-Pat Wright
On Friday evening, October 29, approximately 75 members of the congregation,friends, and family members of Dean and Lee Voegtlen gathered in the sanctuaryto hear Dean talk about his life and a select few pay tribute to his nearly40 years of service to our congregation.
In attendance were two of Dean and Lee's sons, Alan and Brian; Brian's wife,Christy; and Dean and Lee's grandson, Miles Dean. Speaking in tribute were WarrenMathews, John Raiford, Charles Haskell, Ernie Pipes, and Karl Lisovsky. Themaster of ceremonies was the Rev Judith Meyer.
Warren reminded everyone that Dean has not only participated in and chairedalmost every standing committee of the church, including the Board of Directors,but in some cases has done so multiple times (Dean was president in 1977-78and 1993-94). John thanked Dean and Lee for offering solace and support in timesof crisis. Ernie highlighted Dean's calm leadership in stormy seas (figurativelyand literally, noting Dean's sailing skills). And Karl and Charles spoke ofDean's love of tennis and how the game may be seen as a metaphor for life.
Dean described his childhood growing up in New Jersey and summers in upstateNew York, his truncated academic career at the University of Michigan, followedby serendipitous success at the Hughes Company and elsewhere.
Dean's analytical knowledge in the fields of statistical quality control andvalue engineering has been much valued in business and industry. And we allknow Dean's musical abilities. There is so much more-the sum reaches RenaissanceMan status. Dean's reaction to the evening: "I had a lot of fun, and I hopeothers did so too." The audience's reaction: "Dean, you're the best."
-Rob Briner
If you have looked at our mural room in Forbes Hall you know it starts wheremodern UUism starts, with Frances David in Transylvania.
Transylvania is a geographic region of Romania directly east of Hungary. Underthe Ottoman Turkish occupation of Hungary during the 16th and 17th centuries,Transylvania was a semi-independent principality ruled by Hungarian princes,who were able to maintain a precarious independence from the Ottoman Empire.The country of Romania was formed relatively recently, in 1861, with the unificationof the principalities of Wallachia and Moldavia.
It is ironic that Transylvania, which today is a hotbed of ethnic discord,was a model of enlightenment and religious tolerance during the 16th century,when most of Europe was embroiled in religious wars. In 1568, Prince John Sigismundpromulgated the Edict of Religious Toleration at the Diet of Torda (an assemblyof nobles and landed gentry), which enabled the Unitarian religion to prosperamong competing faiths.
The Unitarian faith is a product of the Reformation and was introduced intoTransylvania by Francis David (D
Reality Programming, UUCCSM Style
Once again this year, we approved a budget entailing a modest deficit. I thinkall of us are pleased with the quality and vibrancy of our church communityand its programs; we just somehow aren't quite bringing ourselves to pay forit in full.
Like any family, our church has a host of expenses. And over a number of recentyears, those expenses have tended to increase by around 5% each year due toinflation, modest salary increases, and growth in the scope and depth of ourprogramming.
Again, like most families, the overwhelming source of our income is that providedby our own members and friends (primarily in the form of pledges), and eachof us is fully welcome regardless of how much of that income he or she contributesdirectly.
The question then is, in fairness, how much of the church support should eachmember or participating friend contribute? The answer to that question dependson two primary factors: (1) the ability to contribute (depends on income, sometimesoffset by unusual expenses), and (2) the degree of interest in the church relativeto other factors in one's life.
We have recognized the ability-to-contribute factor by adopting fair sharepledging guidelines that are a progressive percent of one's income, but no setguideline can quantify the degree-of-interest factor. And we do sincerely appreciatethe donations of those whose interest is limited, for whatever reason, but stillwant to make some contribution to a community and institution that they considerworthwhile.
A result is that each of us who does have a continuing active interest in thechurch needs to contribute a bit more than would be considered his or her fairshare based simply on the total membership number. We also need to be mindfulof the continuous, though relatively modest, growth in the church's expenses,and be prepared to increase our pledges each year correspondingly.
Wouldn't it be nice if our annual budget could be an expression of what wewant to do, instead of a striving to almost pay for what we're already doing?
-Warren Mathews, for your Stewardship and Finance Committees
The Rewards of Virtue: Fundraising Must Start with a Generous Spirit
One of the core purposes of a religious community is the cultivation of virtuein its members. That seems like an old-fashioned way of talking about what wedo here at our church, but I think it is worth looking at our annual canvasscampaign as a way of helping each of us to cultivate virtue, in this case, thevirtue of generosity.
We cannot fairly expect generosity from our members unless the church practicesthat same virtue. As you know, we have begun giving a portion of every Sundayoffering to an organization that shares our ideals of a more just and compassionateworld. I'm happy to put extra dollars over and above my pledge into the collectionbecause I want our church to be known as a religious community that liberally(and literally) shares its bounty with the larger world.
Likewise, our approach to fundraising starts with a spirit of generosity; wedo not specify a certain level of giving as a test of membership or set a numericstandard of generosity. Instead, we put our faith in the good will and conscienceof members to make a pledge that meets their own definition of generosity.
Giving to our church is the best way to cultivate the virtue of generosity.Starting from the standpoint of virtue puts aside questions of how much it "costs"to run the church. Instead, we ask how our giving to the church embodies thequality of heart and spirit that we want to see at work in the world. Thereare guidelines, formulas and devices to answer the question of "How much shouldI give?" but thinking in terms of generosity moves the inner dialogue to thelevel of conscience. That means more work for each of us, but I think that suchstruggles are the way we deepen our faith.
What is that faith? Simply stated, a confidence that the good emerges whenpeople act on their conscience after deep and careful reflection.
My faith is that if we respond to the invitation from the Stewardship Committeewith generosity, our church will be financially healthy, and we'll have plentyof money to do all the good things our collective imagination can come up with.
-Rev. Silvio Nardoni, Affiliate Minister
Come Join, Share and Enjoy Pilgrims' Feast on Nov. 20
Our church's annual Pilgrims Feast will be held on Saturday, November 20, at6:30 p.m. in Forbes Hall. Make reservations for this pot-luck event right awayby contacting Lyn Armondo or on Sunday morning during coffee hour. Hurry, thisevent sells out early. Donations are welcome, and a portion of funds go to StepUp on Second.
The original draft of this service was written by Rev. John F. Hayward withthe help of his family, and first used publicly on November 18, 1965, at a communitymeal at First Unitarian Church of Chicago. Since then, it has undergone extensiverevision in Chicago by the Rev. Jack Mendelsohn; in Albuquerque by Elaine Lehmannand Sherry Lincoln; and in Muncie, IN, by the Rev. Drew Kennedy (1980), theRev. Bruce Lakin and Mary Johnson Robey (1992), the Rev. Angie Theisen (1998)and the Rev. Thomas Perchlik (2000).
Introduction: Those who have participated in Passover serviceswill recognize the pattern of this Harvest Feast. Like Passover, which celebratesthe escape from slavery and the building of a new life and culture in a promisedland, our American Thanksgiving celebrates "exodus" from tyranny in which pilgrimsaccepted the risks of the sea and all the dangers of an unfamiliar continent.For generations Americans have celebrated the event with a festive meal. OurUnitarian Universalist Harvest Feast celebrates the various and diverse experiencesof escape from bondage and emergence into new hope. Voices of adults and childrenwill bring us the prepared text.
The Symbols: The meaning of the salt water, bitter herbsand maize on your table will be made clear in the service that follows. Glassesof wine or juice will be sipped together after the words of blessing are spokentogether. After the initial blessing, each person may sip at will, though itis not necessary to empty the glass between each refilling.
The Spirit of the Service: This service, which deals withserious matters, is essentially a festival of rejoicing and the giving of thanks.It works best when seasoned with laughter and lightheartedness.
-Melinda Ewen
Ride, Ricky, Ride!
Hoyt Raises $5,700 for AIDS Programs
The Rev. Ricky Hoyt hadn't been on a bicycle for 20 years and didn't even owna bike when he registered last November for AIDS/LifeCycle3, a 600-mile sevenday,bicycle ride from San Francisco to Los Angeles to raise money for AIDS programs.When he completed the ride this June, he had raised AIDS awareness among UnitarianUniversalists and over $5,700 for AIDS programs in Los Angeles.
Before he entered seminary, Ricky had been a member of UUCCSM and worked forAIDS Project Los Angeles. After entering the ministry his focus shifted butAIDS continued to have a large hold on his emotions and on the lives of hisfriends. Ricky saw the bicycle ride as a way to get back into the AIDS fightand as a way to integrate AIDS work with his ministry.
To that end Ricky looked for ways to involve other Unitarian Universalists.He wrote an article for the Camp de Benneville Pines newsletter and the campdonated $100. He took his idea to the District Ministers Association and inspiredthem to create a fund to support social justice projects among the ministers.They made Ricky the first recipient, with a $250 donation. Individual ministersalso made personal contributions, as did many UUs from congregations where Rickyhad preached and talked about the ride. Most inspiring for Ricky was the responsefrom his own Santa Clarita congregation. A month before the ride, the churchorganized a mini-bike-a-thon of its own and raised over $1,000. News items linkingthe principles of the UU church to Ricky's involvement in the ride appearedin Santa Clarita papers, and he was interviewed on local radio.
In June, over 1,200 cyclists raised over $5 million for AIDS programs in SanFrancisco and Los Angeles. Ricky had such a great experience he has alreadyregistered to do the ride again next June. He's confident that Unitarian Universalistchurches will again show their generosity by supporting his ride. To donateonline go to aidslifecycle.org,click on "home pages," and type in "Ricky Hoyt."
Our Policy is Openness of Church Management
In the spirit of openness, the UUCCSM Board of Directors, at its July meeting,adopted the following policy regarding the conduct of all board and committeemeetings:
Unitarian Universalist Community Church of Santa Monica
OPENNESS OF CHURCH MANAGEMENT OPERATIONS
(Approved by the Board of Directors, July 13, 2004 )All church boards, commissions, committees and task forces shall makemeeting dates available in the newsletter. Draft minutes shall be made availableto church members within a week of the time they are given to committee members.All meetings shall be open to observers, except when sensitive matters suchas personnel actions or litigation are discussed. Church members who wishto address a church board, commission, committee or task force shall contactthe chair to be placed on the agenda. Before any vote is taken, members inattendance shall be given an opportunity to address the issue. Board of Directorstentative agenda shall be posted in advance of the meeting.
This new policy is effective immediately. Please direct any questions regardingthe policy to Carol Kerr, Board President, or Charles Haskell, Chair of theBylaws and Policies Committee.