Sep-04
You will notice some changes in our Sunday services when we return for IngatheringSunday, September 12. The changes are intended to improve the quality of ourworship experience, but it takes time for a large group to adapt to change.I ask for your patience and your cooperation as we enter our new year together.
One change is in the sharing of joys and sorrows during our service. Few peopleare comfortable sharing personal news in front of a large group. People whoare shy or overwhelmed by a crisis find it difficult to speak. Many of us havetrouble hearing.
Our congregation is too large for individual sharing since time allows onlya few to speak. I have been asking myself for a long time how to make the sharingof joys and sorrows more accessible to everyone and have made a decision aboutwhat to do.
In the coming year, joys and sorrows will be shared with the congregation throughwritten announcements in the order of service and from the pulpit during thewelcome and the meditation. If you wish to have a joy or sorrow mentioned inthe Sunday service, please call me (or anyone on the church staff) with yournews. I will render the news into a written or spoken communication to be sharedwith everyone on Sunday.
This approach offers several advantages. Both the 9:00 and the 11:00 congregationswill hear the same news. I will have a chance to hear directly from you aboutwhat is going on in your lives. We will also free up time in the service fordeeper reflection in the meditation, reading, and sermon, which many of youhave requested.
Your participation in the service, through chalice lighting and pulpit messages,will increase. I'd like to hear a series of pulpit messages in which churchmembers share how their Unitarian Universalist faith has influenced the waythey live their lives - at work, at home, in relationships, and daily life.If you have a message you think others might like to hear, please let me know.
Another change is to heighten the contrast between the 9:00 and 11:00 services.The 9:00 service has always been quieter and more contemplative. This year wewill strengthen this quality by asking people to refrain from applause duringthe early service.
This change addresses the reality that our congregation is evenly divided aboutworship and applause. About half of you love to applaud and do so enthusiastically.The other half feels that applause undermines the worship experience and thesense of reverence you seek in church. Now you will be able to choose whichworship style you prefer. The 11:00 service will remain as expressive and livelyas always.
It will take time to become accustomed to these changes. If something doesn'twork, we can always change again. Our worship life reflects the message of ourfaith: that we grow and change throughout our lives. This year we will practicethat message together in many ways.
Thank you for your trust in me as your minister. I am excited to begin anotheryear with you. I look forward to seeing you at Ingathering Sunday, September12.
-- Judith Meyer
Would you like to make a gift of cash or securities to Unitarian Universalismwhile retaining needed income for yourself and your loved ones? The UnitarianUniversalist Association offers free gift planning services to all UUs and canhelp you make a "life-income" gift to support our congregation, the UUA, and/oranother UU organization.
The two primary types of life-income gifts are the Charitable Gift Annuityand the Pooled Income Fund. Life-income gifts are rewarding and simple to arrange.You make an irrevocable contribution of cash or securities and may claim a one-timecharitable deduction for part of your gift. In exchange, you'll receive quarterlypayments for life, guaranteed. One or two people - you and your partner, forexample - may be named as income recipients. Payments can be either fixed orvariable, depending on the type of gift you choose. When you die, your giftis distributed to the beneficiaries you've designated - our congregation, theUUA, another UU affiliate, or a combination. It's entirely up to you.
Life-income gifts are a great way to give highly appreciated securities becausepart or all of the capital gains tax may be excused, and the remainder distributedover a period determined by life expectancy. You may be able to generate a largerincome stream from lowyielding assets, and you'll create a wonderful legacyfor our congregation. To learn more about life-income gifts and the benefitsyou might enjoy, contact Ron Crane, the church office at (310)829-5436, or the UUA's Charitable Gift and Estate Planning Team, at (888) 792-5885.
- Ron Crane
We Need More Time to Think Before Selling 17th Street
We are scheduled to meet September 19 to decide on building plans. This needwas created by the unexpected acquisition of the property next door on 18thStreet, essentially throwing our building plans for 17th Street out the window.Such a change and delay can be very disturbing: somewhat akin to grieving. Wewant to reachieve our equilibrium and momentum.
In this present state we may make decisions we may later regret. The churchhas not yet had the equanimity to truly contemplate and dream about what thenew acquisition can mean for the long-term future of the church.
The original buyers of the corner lot on 18th Street had no chance to foreseewhat would happen to Santa Monica in 75 or 100 years. Further, when the 17thStreet property was originally purchased, it was right after the building ofForbes Hall and classrooms and many people could not see the future need forthat property. Now, in many regards we are at the same place: we have plansfor the new 18th Street acquisition and, again, cannot see the future need for17th Street. Part of the reason, I believe, for not currently being able tolook beyond our current needs is that we have not yet had the opportunity toexamine what our new property holdings could mean for our long term future.
The church board recently had its annual retreat, during which we discussedin broad strokes ways we could increase the level of commitment and responsibilityour members feel toward the vibrancy of the church. The consensus was that offeringprograms which engage our members creates a cycle of enthusiasm and involvementthat will lead to an increase in commitment. (Commitment, here, can mean eithertime or money.)
Up to this point, our church has mainly been a Sunday institution. The acquisitionof the new property allows us the opportunity to think beyond Sundays. But thechurch community has not had the opportunity to discuss these possibilities.We are scheduled to meet regarding building plans, which currently include thepossibility of selling the 17th Street property, without having had the opportunityto brainstorm and cogitate on our future. The church has been around for over75 years. What about the next 75 years? We have pressing needs now, particularlyregarding the church school, but if we meet those needs without thinking ofour further future, we may be dooming the church to little beyond what we currentlyare.
A vibrant church is a growing church. Many might say we don't want to be muchbigger than what we currently are. That may be a valid point, but the churchhas not had a chance to talk about it. Some want to reach out to the wider community,to help the disadvantaged. Some feel that a weekday nursery school offered bya liberal religion would be good. That may be a valid point, but we have nothad a chance to talk about it from our current property position. We need thatopportunity. The town hall meetings that have taken place to this point havenot offered that option.
We have carried out a capital campaign, which has not netted us as much aswe had hoped, and we have bursting classrooms. We want to DO something and havesomething to show for all of our efforts. This is also a valid point. Doingsomething related to building can help our fund-raising efforts. But we alsoneed to think about our longer-term goals and we cannot do that if selling the17th Street property is on the table beforehand.
The facilitator at our board retreat felt that the ideas generated would needsix months to be fleshed out. That was for the board - what about the wholecongregation? If the 17th Street property has already been sold, it will betoo late. September 19 is too soon and comes too quickly after summer for sucha permanent decision. We need time.
- Rebecca Deal Crawford
It's Time to Start Building; We Must Sell 17th Street
We have spent many years on our building plans. Through a series of visioningmeetings in 1997, facilitated by LuAnn Darling, the congregation named a newbuilding as our priority. We wanted more sanctuary space and better church schoolfacilities. In 1999 we engaged a capital campaign consultant and an architect.
I doubt that any of us realized what a long process it would be. It is noteasy to build in Santa Monica. We conducted a capital campaign. And the BuildingCommittee kept plugging away at plans for the city to approve.
Those plans were shelved the very week the city approved them. No one objectedto that delay because the new property is so clearly better for us than theoriginal. We all recognize new plans must be created and we must jump over whateverobstacles the city places in our way. I am working on both the capital campaignand the Building Committee, trying to make the delay as brief as possible.
The purchase of the new property depleted the construction funds. We have onlyabout $300,000 to begin a project that will cost at least $1.5 million, or muchmore if we build underground parking. This is far more than we can expect toraise from a capital campaign and loan; sale of the 17th Street lot could contributeup to $1 million and mean the difference between starting construction in 2005or not until years later.
Further delay to study alternatives to selling the 17th Street property isuncalled for. There have been many opportunities to state our preferences. Inthe survey taken at the July 25 town hall meeting, 30 favored selling 17th Streetand five were opposed. At the de Benneville gathering, 23 favored selling itand two were opposed. We all have had an opportunity to speak pro and con, andto study alternative ideas. We have until September 19 to do further work onthem.
It is hard for me to understand why some people think this is not enough time.Yes, once property is gone, it is gone. But land across the alley was alwayssecond best. We are fortunate we made the purchase, because without it we wouldnever have had the capital campaign that enabled us to buy the property we havelong coveted. Without selling that land we have the coveted property withoutenough money to build on it.
Am I in a hurry to build on that property? Yes. There is the city to consider.With their approval of our plans fresh in the minds of the planning staff andcommission, I hope we can move faster to get approval of this new project. Propertyvalues are high now, and with interest rates rising, the value of land may drop.And we must consider our donors. They gave money for classrooms and improvedfacilities. Do we have the right to spend it in another way?
Keeping 17th Street, for whatever reason, leaves us without much-needed cash,which would mean we have three properties with mediocre facilities. Given thesize of the property, its location, and the significant development limitationsfor the site, the best use is to sell it so we can make something special contiguousto our church. Using 17th Street for parking or putting parking under our newproperty would mean a huge cost per space and not give us enough spaces to makea dent in our needs.
The town hall meetings gave us the opportunity to discuss alternative usesof the property. More talk is not what we need. It's time for action. Thosewho want to present facts and figures on alternatives to moving ahead now withour building plans can present those alternatives at the meeting.
Our existing facilities are inadequate, unsafe, and inaccessible. We reachedthat conclusion in 1997 and nothing has changed. Let's get moving and builda facility that we and the larger community can enjoy.
- Carol Agate
With our church season opening Sunday, September 12, a new roster of Sundaymorning greeters is needed to welcome visitors and regular members. Sunday morninggreeters are the first folk attendees meet, and we want to welcome them witha smile, sign them in if new to the church, and provide information. New teamsare being formed now.
The assignment is easy and enjoyable. Each greeter serves on a team rarelymore than once a month. Duty begins a half hour before each service. Your helpis needed for the 9:00 or 11 a.m. service. All members, young, middle aged,and senior, are eligible to serve. It helps to be outreaching and enthusiastic.The rewards are self-evident: you get to meet everyone, and lovely relationshipsmay be formed.
For further information of how you may play an easy but important role forour church please contact Arvid Knudsen.
Thanks to Julie Nyquist, Master Chef
Thanks to Julie Nyquist for her many years of Courtyard Connections, helpingnewcomers meet old-timers and making contributions to our gastronomic well-being.Under their veraious names -- Potatoes on the Patio, Pizza in the Parlor, Kebobson the Patio, Backyard Brunch, French Toast on the Terrace, among others --these meals have been a wonderful way to end Sunday morning and will be sorelymissed. The Cowboy Cookout on August 15 was a spectacular conclusion.
Vote on September 19!
What should we do with the house next door? Should we sell the 17th Streetlot? These and other questions will be discussed and voted on at a congregationalmeeting on Sunday, September 19. The purpose of the meeting is to (1) approvepreliminary building plans/direction for the new 18th Street property basedon a recommendation from the Building Committee, and (2) vote on whether ornot to sell the 17th Street property to help finance the approved building plans.(See full agenda and, if you're stillundecided, arguments for and againstthe sale.) Lunch will be available before the meeting. At least 79 members mustbe present for a quorum.
On September 26, we'll have our 4th Annual Faith in Action (FIA) issues election.This is when our congregation votes on our priorities for social action forthe coming year. This column is dedicated to a brief review of our expectedagenda for the election.
First, we'll review our ongoing programs. Of particular concern is our workon economic justice, peace, and civil liberties. In addition to reviewing ouraccomplishments to date, we'll discuss how to proceed with these issues duringthe coming year. Regretfully, S.J. Guidotti has resigned as chair of the Peaceand Civil Liberties Committee, so these topics will require particular attention.
Second, we'll review the proposed actions of immediate witness and the newStudy/Action Issue on Global Warming chosen at General Assembly in June of thisyear.
Third, we'll consider any proposals made earlier that day by our visiting minister,the Rev. Lindi Ramsden of the California UU Legislative Ministry. She will tellus about this program and review some of their work. This may well serve asa catalyst for new social action work.
Finally, we'll review and prioritize social action projects proposed by thecongregants present at the meeting. Faith in Action is dedicated to the democraticprocess and we are totally committed to pursuing those social action issuesof greatest interest to the congregation.
I'd like to take this opportunity to thank S. J. Guidotti for his two-yeartenure as chair of the Peace and Civil Liberties Committee. We will miss hispassion and energy in this important leadership position.
I'm excited by the prospect of reviewing our programs and recommitting ourselvesto our important work. Please place this date on your calendars.
- Charles Haskell Chair, Faith in Action Commission
It Took Several Tries to Find at Last the Right Piano for Our Sanctuary
In the spring of 1991 a rebuilt Steinway grand piano was delivered tothe UUCCSM sanctuary.We don't know anything about its original owner or itsroute to being restored, but Steinway has built the highest quality pianosfor over 150 years (since 1853) and we shouldn't take for granted the beautifulinstrument that graces our services every Sunday.
"George, we've got to send that piano back," I reluctantly announced It's abeautiful instrument, there's no question; but it's too large for our sanctuary.It's difficult to move and Rosalyn says she cannot play it softly enough sothat it doesn't dominate the choir."
"Who's she to judge that piano!" George retorted angrily. "She's no pianist!Let her learn to play it properly!"
"Look, George," I pleaded, "The Music Committee voted unanimously last eveningto return it. I'm sorry you weren't there to hear the discussion."
"What do they know about pianos? There's not one real musician on the committee!"George continued, his anger unabated. "It's obvious I'm in the wrong place aroundhere. I am seriously considering resigning from the church."
"George!" I pleaded again, "You are deeply appreciated. Your keen musical sense,the invaluable contribution you've made in bringing us the Mostly Mozart concerts,are recognized by everyone. This is not a vote against you personally. I knowwe can find the right piano."
When Myra Bauer, a loyal choir member for many years, died rather suddenly,her trust account provided a generous gift to the church. The Music Committeerecommended that we acquire a really fine piano in her memory, knowing she wouldhave thought this most appropriate. The Board approved and the Music Committeewas charged with the job of finding the instrument.
I was chair of the Search Committee, but George Bell was a very active andaggressive member. He knew best where to look and how to bargain for the lowestprice. For several months we visited piano shops, warehouses, private homes- anywhere we thought there was a likely candidate. Our accompanist, RosalynKalmar, tried them, and we occasionally enlisted the services of Tim Ehlens,a well-known pianist in the area, to help us evaluate the instruments. Finally,we found a Steinway concert grand that we liked, but stipulated that we hadto hear it in the church sanctuary before we would purchase it. We agreed topay the round-trip expense for moving if we decided against it.
When we got it placed properly in the sanctuary, and rounded up a few membersto listen to Tim play it, we were not really happy with it. The tone seemeddead and Tim had trouble with the action during some rapidly articulated passages.Of course, the piano shop told us they would fix it. But they had just tunedit. We voted to return the piano.
A little later George Bell announced that he had found the piano - absolutelythe best instrument in the LA. area. He was sure that everyone, even Roz Kalmar,would love it. He was so positive that he agreed to pay the shipping costs bothways if necessary, but he was convinced it would be a one-way trip. Indeed itwas a fine piano, a nine-foot Steinway grand of 1940s vintage. But, as you nowknow, we found it too brilliant, too overpowering, for our sanctuary. It belongedin a large concert hall, and I hope it eventually found a good home.
In a mood of mild desperation, I called Dee Stevens, who had been our musicdirector in the 1960s. Delores Stevens is now an internationally known concertpianist, both as a soloist and as a member of a chamber group. Surely she couldgive me a suggestion after all our missteps. "It's strange you called, Dean,"she said. "My piano technician has just completed restoration of a seven footparlor grand Steinway in his shop. Why don't you go over and see it."
The shop contained four or five pianos in various stages of disrepair, coveredwith dust. But at one end was this high gloss black piano with its lid up, revealinga newly refinished gold harp, shiny new strings and brand new action. I satdown and played a Chopin prelude. Now I'm not much of a pianist, but I do knowa fine piano when I see one. This one was unbelievable. The action was absolutelyeven, the response delicate and true, and the tone rich, full, mellow, withovertones creating a complex sound - magnificent to my ears. I couldn't waitto have Roz play it. She was equally enthusiastic. We persuaded Dee Stevensto play it for members of the Music Committee. The vote was unanimous. The pianomade a one-way trip to our sanctuary, where it has been featured in many concertsand musical events, and has greatly enriched the musical and aesthetic spiritof the church.
- Dean Voegtlen
Congregation to Vote on a Banner Policy
The church's Board of Directors meeting on July 13 started with a lengthy discussionof the banner resolution. It was decided that a general policy on displayingbanners will be presented to the congregation and voted on first. Then therewill be a vote on the resolution, tabled at the May congregational meeting,to authorize a banner supporting gay marriages.
On behalf of the Finance Committee, Warren Mathews announced the purchase offive new computers after it was learned that we had money left in the budget.Our outdated computers have been frequently breaking down, crippling operationsin the office.
The board approved the Personnel Committee's recommendation of a bonus forMarie Kashmer-Stiebing, church administrator. During most of the fiscal yearshe has been managing without the authorized office assistant. An example ofher spectacular devotion to the job happened after she had connected her homecomputer to the church's cameras and thereby caught a vandal in the act. Shecalled the police, and he was arrested.
The board endorsed the Bylaws and Policy Committee's proposed bylaw amendmentstating the purpose of the bylaws. It adopted the mandate that church boardand committee meetings be announced and open to all members, and a policy thatchurch activities have priority over non-church activities in scheduling useof the facilities. A proposal regarding the required minimum financial contributionto the church was tabled for further information.
The church's contract with the Rev. Judith Meyer was amended to conform tothe way she has actually been taking her sabbatical time - in short segmentsinstead of half-year periods.
The Building Committee's request for approval to spend another $15,000 wasdenied. No more expenditures will be made until the congregation approves aplan of action.
Treasurer Carol Agate reported that we ended the fiscal year with $4,381 morethan had been budgeted. The reasons on the income side of the ledger were substantialpledge payments in the last few months (probably due to the mailing of reminders),extra rental payments in June, and an extraordinarily successful Dining forDollars, which brought in $6,000 more than budgeted. On the expense side, wehad budgeted for a director of religious education starting in July, but CatherineFarmer was not able to start until October. Finally, the hiring of an officeassistant was delayed for almost the entire year.
Three members have joined the church since the last report, and two membershave died.
The board approved Gini Courter as a nominee for the office of moderator ofthe UUA.
-Carol Agate
From theDesk of the DRE
September already? Where does the time go? Yes, it's almost time to kick offa new year of RE, and here's what to expect from this year's program.
Two years ago UUCCSM adopted a program model called Way Cool Sunday School,an experiential RE format which incorporates regular worship, social justice,and arts Sundays as well as curriculum- based classroom Sundays, all groundedin a common focus on our Unitarian Universalist principles and values. At itsheart lies the conviction that children are best served when integrated intothe whole life of the church and that religious education includes engagingnot only the minds, but also the hearts and hands of our kids.
Religious education is at its best when all parts of the program are explicitlyrelated to one another; what happens in a 2nd grader's class relates to what'shappening with her 5th grade brother's class, and what they're working on intheir classrooms is linked with what they experience together in worship andsocial justice Sundays, and when experiential learning at church on Sunday morningsis linked with what happens at home, in conversation, and in practice. To thatend, we will not only be tying the elements of our program more closely togetherthis year, but we are also creating an "RE Bulletin" for families that willshare highlights of the program as well as ideas for activities and storiesto use at home to reinforce what's happening on Sunday mornings.
Last year we began a four-year cycle in our program with a year-long focuson the 1st UU Principle. For the first half of this year, we'll continue thecycle with a program-wide focus on the 2nd UU Principle: justice, equity, andcompassion in human relations, or, in more kid-friendly terms, all people shouldbe treated fairly and kindly.
Kindergarten to 5th graders will meet together on the 1st Sunday of every monthfor principle-based worship. On the 2nd and 3rd Sundays they'll be in agespecificclassrooms for curriculum-based learning. On the 4th Sundays, they'll meet togetherfor a principlefocused social justice experience. On months with a 5th Sunday,they'll explore the 2nd principle through art. Preschoolers meet weekly forprinciple-based play and exploration. For 6th and 7th graders we're offeringa comparative religions curriculum, Neighboring Faiths, which includes monthlytrips to religious services of other faith traditions. Coming of Age, a programthat engages 8th graders in articulating their own beliefs within the contextof our UU faith, is offered at 9 a.m. Our YRUU program for high school youthwill meet each Sunday at 11.
We have an exciting year ahead of us, and I look forward to kicking off theyear with you at our ingathering on September 12.
- Catherine Farmer