Newsletter for October, 2019
From Our Minister:
Thank You for the Warm Welcome!

Beloved Community,
Thank you for the warm welcome to this beloved community. I have been blessed to meet so many members of the community, who are deeply committed to the mission of this congregation. If we haven’t yet had the chance to meet, I hope to meet you soon! My first few months with you will be a time of listening and orienting to this community, to get a sense of your hopes and dreams for the future. Your Board of Directors, congregational leaders, staff, and others have already begun to lay the foundation for some of the developmental ministry work that we will engage with this year. It is an exciting time to experiment with new ideas, programs, and initiatives. We’ve been heart/brainstorming around worship, pastoral care, religious education, anti-racism/anti-oppression, stewardship, financial health, membership, communications, and outreach—to name a few—in these initial weeks together.
We are living in a critical time and the demands for justice in our society are loud and reverberating in the hearts and minds of so many. I have been so moved by the young people who are leading the Climate Strike and dispelling the ignorance and climate denial of so many. I’m heartbroken by the ways in which those in power are persecuting the most vulnerable among us. I am grateful that my liberal religious faith provides me with the values, companions, spiritual grounding, and fortitude to resist the dominant paradigms, and to live more mindfully and compassionately in our world. I am also aware that at UUSM we need to be as effective as possible in responding to the calls of love, community, and justice in the world. We need to model a welcoming, beloved community that is an alternative to a world with too much heartlessness, alienation, and injustice.
We are beginning to explore what it might mean for UUSM to move towards a model of sustainability and regenerativity in congregational life. Everyone has been working really hard the past two years and it is now time to rest, reflect, and integrate the learnings from the first period of developmental ministry. It is very easy for church leaders and others to burnout if there isn’t enough spaciousness in the life of the church. Are we making time to just enjoy being with each other? Is there time for rest and laughter and play—even in official church meetings? Are we sharing our emotional lives with others? Are we slowing down some to increase our mindfulness? Are we taking care of our bodies? Are we being attentive to how we celebrate accomplishments? Are we remembering those who came before us? Are we making time to appreciate art and beauty? As we taking time just to be still and breathe?
Let’s explore these important questions and many more together as the new church year begins to blossom.
With love and gratitude,
Jeremiah
Jeremiah
Rev. Jeremiah Kalendae
Developmental Minister
Featured Articles:
Endless Summer? Single Service at 10:00 am Continues
HELP SPREAD THE WORD
At its September board meeting, the UUSM Board of Directors voted to continue with a single service on Sundays at 10:00 am, at least through October 2019. Attendance over the summer and at the Rev. Jeremiah Kalendae’s first service in the pulpit showed that a single service with high attendance can be comfortably accommodated in our Sanctuary. Indeed, increased numbers at a single service only heightens our connection to beloved community.
“Anyone who attended Rev. Jeremiah’s inaugural service felt the buzz in the room. It was exciting and so positive. Why would we want to split that in two if we didn’t have to?” wrote UUSM Board of Directors President Jacki Weber. “When we attend the same service, we literally share a common experience. It feels good. Our kids and families bond, and visitors in a full sanctuary feel that same transformative energy.”

Please touch base with your fellow congregants and frequent visitors, as you are able, to ensure that they are aware of our “endless sWorship services at 10:00ummer,” particularly for the elderly and disabled who find attending services more difficult and may not get the news as easily.
See you there… at 10:00 am.
Phishing Alert! Scammer Targeting UUSM Members – Again!

[Originally published on July 29, 2019. Updated and republished due to recent renewed malicious emails representing themselves as from Rev. Jeremiah.]
A few months ago, a scammer who is not associated with the church began sending out e-mails from a google.com address – minister.uusm@gmail.com – that looked like it belonged to our minister but was not associated with him in any way. The e-mail asked for financial assistance and encouraged people to send money to the person who sent the original note.
(More specifically, the notes read: “Thanks for getting back to me. I need to get a steam wallet gift card for a cancer patient I promised her as a birthday gift but I can’t do that now, I would have called you but I’m in a meeting and I’m going to be here for a while. Can you get it for me from any store around, I’ll pay you back. God bless you.”)
In July, the scam popped up again, this time using the addresses president.uusm@gmail.com, oos.uusm@gmail.com and admin.uusm@gmail.com. Please note that NONE OF THESE ADDRESSES BELONG TO UUSM.
All official UUSM correspondence these days comes from addresses ending in @uusm.org, NOT from anything at gmail.com
If you receive one of the scam e-mails, please do NOT click on anything in it, do NOT reply to the e-mail, and do NOT send any money to the person who sent the e-mail.
Here’s more from Jacki:
Dear UUSM congregants:If you have received an email from president.uusm@gmail.com, minister.uusm@gmail.com, or another unusual gmail address, it is a scam by someone who would love to relieve you of some of your cash. Refrain from responding by email or from clicking on attachments sent from unknown email addresses.Official church emails come only from uusm.org email addresses not gmail addresses. Personal emails from members may come from any email address.Always, if the content of any email sounds a little uncharacteristic of sender, it’s probably phishing.May you have a phish-free day,Jacki
If you use GMail and have received an email from any of the addresses listed above, or from any other address in the form of xxxx.uusm@gmail.com, please report it to Google by following these steps:
- Open your Gmail inbox and click to open the phishing message.
- Click or tap the three-dot “More” menu next to the Reply button.
- Click or tap “Report phishing” to open the pop-up window, then click “Report phishing.” The message is forwarded to the Gmail Team.
Also, users of any email program can report the emails to the federal government by forwarding the messages to the Anti-Phishing Working Group at reportphishing@apwg.org and to the FTC at ftc.gov/complaint.
Finally, for more on phishing scams and how you can recognize them, see https://phishingquiz.withgoogle.com/
October UUSM Generous Congregation Supports the UU Service Committee’s Hurricane Dorian Relief
TO GIVE RIGHT NOW TEXT $10 GCC TO 844-982-0209

Our practice here at UUSM is to dedicate 40% of our non-pledge Sunday offerings to organizations doing work in the world that advances our Unitarian Universalist principles; 60% of the offering is used to support the life of our church. This month, 40% of our Sunday offerings will go to the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee (UUSC) to support their Hurricane Dorian Relief fund.
UUSC has spent 80 years providing help to those who have struggled against unjust power structures, governments, and systems. They’ve devoted their resources to assisting those who are rendered powerless due to xenophobia, racism, and bigotry.
Hurricane Dorian has brought to light incredible underlying inequities on Great Abaco Island in the Bahamas. Thousands of Haitian migrants live in large shantytowns. Working low-wage jobs, they live in poverty and are often mistreated and exploited due to language barriers and their undocumented status.
UUSC will partner with local groups to assess the greatest threats survivors face and put together an emergency crisis response. They’ll focus especially on the Haitian migrant community on Abaco Island and other groups most likely to fall through the cracks of traditional rescue and relief efforts. As in any emergency response, UUSC also works to plan for long-term relief and equitable recovery—part of their ongoing work with those displaced by the climate crisis. For more information, visit the UUSC website.
UUSM’s Generous Congregation supports our church community. And together, we uplift the reach and impact of vital organizations doing work we could not do on our own.
Please consider supporting the mission of our church, and the UU Service Committee’s efforts to aid vulnerable communities affected by Hurricane Dorian. To give right now, text “$10 GCC” to 844-982-0209. (One-time-only credit card registration required.)

Notes on Camp 2019

Worship in the PinesWhen our Santa Monica church community began arriving at Camp De Benneville Pines on Friday, September 13, there were people who had not missed a camp in years, people who had never been to camp, and many more who enjoyed camp as often as they could. So many of us being there together made for a great time.
We have a unique advantage in that our church is one of the many members of the Pacific Southwest District that owns De Benneville. The mid-September weekend that has been our private slice of time has continued to flourish as a moment for people to slow down and spend some time together in the woods.
what to do at campCamp was filled with workshops and activities for all ages. The stalwart tie-dye station for creating unique clothing was a popular spot for making DIY souvenirs, and go-karts could be seen rolling down the campus roads. There was music on the deck, at the fire circle, and often in Homet Lodge all weekend.
There were crafts — friendship bracelets and duct-tape wallets. There were hikes — to Jenks Lake, to the Fairy Forest, and an enigmatic short stroll to a meditative walk through the labyrinth.
There were meals. A always, the kitchen at Camp De Benneville fed us like beloved family, and we feasted.
We were also fortunate to have both our new minister, Rev. Jeremiah Kalendae, and our new Director of Religious Exploration, Cleo Anderson, join us to add to the mix and spend time relaxing together.
Camp Dean Amy Brunell did an exceptional job of organizing the camp committee. Dedicated volunteers Linda van Lighten, Karl Lisovsky, Sunni Pavlovic, Chela Metzger, Joyce Holmen, and Judith Martin-Straw all made their best efforts to make sure everyone had a good time.
The committee offered big thanks and gratitude to Camp Director, Janet James, and Camp Development Director, Jackie Weber, for keeping the lights on in all the most important ways. There were thanks to all the campers who made the weekend so family-flavored, so low-key leisurely, and so religiously relaxing.
We will have to do it again, and again. Join us (again) next year.
-- Judith Martin Straw
[For more images of this year's camp weekend, see http://news.uusm.org/notes-on-camp-2019/ ]
Faith in Action News:
Voting Solutions for All People in LA County
NEW VOTING SYSTEM TO DEBUT IN 2020

On Monday, October 7, from 7 to 8:30 pm in the UUSM Sanctuary, a speaker from the Los Angeles County Registrar’s Office will present information on the new countywide voting system, Voting Solutions for All People. This is a pilot program for Los Angeles County for the 2020 March primary and November general elections. Voters will be able to mark and cast their ballot at any vote center throughout the county, so voters will no longer be limited to voting at an assigned polling place. And voting will be available for an extended election period of 11 days, so voters will also no longer be limited to voting on one particular day. If you are in the area, we hope you can attend. Street parking only and please READ THE SIGNS. For more information on the event, contact Cathy Gentile…or go to https://vsap.lavote.net for more about the new voting system.
UUSM Youth and Adults Clean Up Day 2019 at Ballona Creek

UUSM youth and adults joined Heal The Bay’s Coastal Clean Up Day 2019 on Sunday, September 21. It was one of many events strategically planned around the Global Climate Strike. Our site was the Ballona Creek Bike Path behind Syd Kronenthal Park. This vital waterway feeds into the Ballona Wetlands Ecological Reserve and empties into Santa Monica Bay. We found some trash and lots of fun along the way—ensuring that our youth are activated and empowered to care for our beautiful planet.
UUSM Strikes for Climate Justice

Youth-led Climate strikeMembers of UUSM’s Faith In Action and Green Living committees walked along with UUSM youth in the September 20 Youth Climate Strike in Downtown Los Angeles. Traveling by Metro, bicycle, and hybrid car, UUSM marchers joined friends from Climate Action Santa Monica and UU of SCV at the rendezvous. We then joined a sea of young climate strikers, along with millions of activists around the world. Signs included: “Time is running out,” “Sea levels are rising and so are we,” “You will die of old age, your children will die of climate change.” Two favorites: “Global warming is sooo uncool” and “Save the only planet with pizza!”
After marching uphill and down in a seemingly random path possibly designed to completely disrupt downtown traffic, marchers converged at the shady southern lawn of City Hall. It was a sea of bodies and signs joined in a single voice for climate justice.
Alison Kendall
Chair, Green Living Committee
[For more images from this event, see http://news.uusm.org/uusm-strikes-for-climate-justice/ ]
Green Living Committee:
Exploring Healthy Food in South LA

The Green Living Committee and children in the Religious Exploration program took an August 18 field trip to the Paul Robeson Community Wellness Center in South LA. The group of 13 adults and five children explored the brightly painted building, which includes a produce market, catering kitchen, and community center. Offices for Community Services Unlimited and From the Ground Up (their youth internship program) are also located here. We also toured the Veggie Bus, a school bus which now houses a classroom and seed library. UUSM volunteers helped recycle the bus a few years ago. Kids and adults enjoyed helping to harvest fragrant fennel seeds for the Seed Library and Market. We then enjoyed an excellent lunch of Beyond Organic food from CSU’s Expo Park Urban Farm, which included portobello mushroom burgers, quinoa salad, hummus, almond cookies, and strawberry watermelon lemonade. This was a great chance to learn about the history of CSU, their work on healthy food and wellness, and their outreach and internship programs.
(For more photos from the trip, see http://news.uusm.org/exploring-healthy-food-in-south-la/ )
RE News:

Personal and Spiritual Exploration for Adults, October 2019
Learning and exploration are about the transformation of the individual, our community, and the larger society. Participation helps us grow in wisdom, compassion, and ethical living. See our upcoming activities, programs, and workshops for adults.
To contact the facilitator in regards to any offering, you may email AdultRE@UUSM.org with the title of the group in the subject line. Your email will be forwarded.
Continued Offering:
Preparing Your Own Advance Directive for Healthcare Saturday, October 5
Your Advance Directive is a legal document that can speak for you when you cannot speak for yourself. It empowers an agent that you select to make medical decisions for you and act as your advocate in difficult times. In this workshop we’ll explore materials that can help you make the choices to mark on your directive. Bring your questions, maybe a previous directive or “living will” document, and join us for homemade muffins Saturday morning, from 9:30 am to noon in the Warren Mathews Conference Room. This is the second of two workshops. All are welcome, including all who couldn’t make it to the first offering. Contact: Joyce Holmen. One time materials cost: $5.00.
Community Building Through Personal Development:
Gentle Yoga Mondays
We will explore traditional yoga poses in a safe, compassionate, non-competitive environment that is welcoming to all who are able to get up and down from a yoga mat. We will be working on traditional yoga poses with a focus on creating a safe, effective, compassionate, non-competitive environment that is welcoming to all. We will work on strength, flexibility, restorative poses, and deep relaxation. Some equipment is required, including a yoga mat, two blankets, and a strap, and several other suggestions. The instructor Mary Lee Olsen has a 500 hour certificate as a yoga teacher. The group meets from 6-7 pm in Forbes Hall.
Collage Group with Stan Bemis Saturday, October 12
Do you wish to express yourself creatively in art, and yet may feel inadequate or untrained? Do you yearn to make an artistic statement, yet not sure how? Do you have too many catalogs, magazines, and advertisements, and haven’t a clue what to do with them? We welcome you to create your own collages with Stan Bemis! Stan works to bring joy and peace into people’s lives through creating art. He has taught many who didn’t realize they had creative talent, from all across the world – from California to Palestine/Israel. He welcomes any age, from youths to older adults. The goal of this group is to help foster personal worth and empowerment, entering that holy place within and having sacred fun. The objectives are: 1. to create works of art; and 2. to possibly create cards for events or celebrations. We encourage you to bring your old magazines to work with as well. We will meet from 10 am-12 noon in the NE Cottage. Contacts: Stan Bemis or Sarah Robson.
International Folk Dancing with Instructors Saturday, October 19
We are back! They say that dancing is combining fun with exercise and friends. Learn international folk dancing with instructors Sandy Helperin and Teri Hoffman. Folk dancing is for anyone who loves to move to traditional music. New dancers are welcome – there are no partners required. Donations accepted. We are meeting from 7-8:30 pm in Forbes. Enter through the Arizona entrance. Contact: Ellen Levy.
Exploration of Ideas:
Science Non-Fiction Book Discussion Tuesday, October 15
We will discuss “How I Killed Pluto and Why It Had It Coming,” by Mike Brown. In 2005, astronomer Mike Brown discovered a 10th planet, Eris. More discoveries followed. How many planets could we have? All are welcome. We meet at 7:30-9 pm in Forbes Hall. Contact: Rebecca Crawford.
AAHS Freethinker Forum Sunday, October 27
AAHS (Atheists, Agnostics, Humanists, and Secularists) is an open group that meets for lively and engaging discussion on topics of politics, science, religion, and philosophy. We also host occasional guest speakers, films, and outings. We are a home base for non-believers and questioners, but everyone is welcome. For many, atheism/agnosticism is a first step; Humanism is the thousand steps that come after. We’ll meet a half hour after the service in the Warren Mathews Conference Room. Contact: James Witker.
Interest Groups:
Discussion and Support for Persons with Disabilities Sunday, October 27
The Disability Support Group will be promoting a dialogue on a selected topic at each of its meetings throughout this church year. This month’s topic is “Personal Boundaries.” All church members interested in the topic are invited to attend. We meet on the fourth Sunday of each month a half hour after the service in the NE Cottage. Contact: Michael Young.
UU Men’s Group Thursdays, October 3, 17
This group offers a special opportunity to the men of the congregation and other like-minded men to join our welcoming group in provocative and stimulating discussion and to get to know others with UU perspectives in a more meaningful way. The topic for Oct. 3 continues from our last meeting when only two guys could describe: What has been your biggest life blunder, if you had one, or something close, and how did it turn out? The topic for Oct. 17 is a huge problem in LA and Santa Monica: What do you believe is necessary to turn around the homeless problem in LA County? We meet the first and third Thursdays of the month from 7:30-9 pm in the NE room of the Cottage. For more information contact Richard Mathias.
Meditations:
An Enjoyable Dive into Who and What We Are
Cancelled through October
Open Meditation Mondays, October 14, 28
We gather twice a month to sit together quietly for 20 minutes, to walk with gentle awareness for seven minutes, and to explore the integration of meditation with ordinary life through reading and sharing. Anyone who senses they would benefit from 20 minutes of silent, non-guided sitting is welcome to join us. We have found that this time of quiet meditation and shared exploration can be deeply nourishing – a time of simply “being” amidst all the “doing” of our lives. We meet on the second, fourth, and fifth Mondays from 7:30-9:15 pm in Forbes. Contacts: Bev Shoenberger or Carol Ring.
Highlights of additional interest groups meeting in October
Knitters and Friends
NOTE: on hiatus until further notice. If interested, contact: Linda Van Ligten.
NOTE: on hiatus until further notice. If interested, contact: Linda Van Ligten.
Body-Mind Tune Up for Seniors This group is for seniors, superseniors, and people with physical difficulties. Now on a new day of the week! Each Saturday from 11:45 am-12:45 pm in Forbes Hall. Contact: Bruno Lacombe. Note: Free for church members, $10 suggested donation for nonmembers.