Newsletter for June, 2014

Month: 
Jun 2014
From Our Minister: 
In the past year of ministry, I have joyfully celebrated the commitment ceremony for Carol- Jean Teuffel and Sam Carr Polk, who invited a barbershop quartet to serenade us during the service. And, with you, I have mourned the death of Marc Willet, son of Felicity Nussbaum and John Agnew, gone much too soon.
 
Since last year’s Report on Ministry went to press, we have opened the sanctuary as a space for reflection and comfort in response to the Boston Marathon bombings, gun violence in our city in which five people were killed, and for remembering Judy Federick on the first anniversary of her death.
 
During our fall “Care-a-thon,” the Committee on Ministry and CareNet reached out to reconnect with about 50 less active members in our community, to complement the church’s many other outreach efforts. We added a new family-friendly Christmas Eve service and were selected by the Unitarian Universalist Association to receive $7,500 in grant funding to become a Teaching Congregation.
 
Thanks to this funding, as well as the leadership commitment of our Board of Directors and newly convened Intern Committee, we will welcome an Intern Minister, Nica Eaton-Guinn, in August 2014.
 
In December, eleven leaders from our congregation joined me to tour OPCC (Ocean Park Community Center), a leading provider of social services for homeless and vulnerable people in Santa Monica.
 
From July 1 to April 30, we sent over $12,000 —50% of our non-pledge offering for every Sunday this year, and 100% of our Christmas Eve offering for three services — to the following organizations:
 
Step Up on Second
Camp De Benneville Pines
Clergy and Laity United for Economic Justice
(CLUE-LA)
Para Los Ninos
Our House Grief Support Center
Incarcerated Students Textbook Fund
(Coastline Community College)
The Trevor Project
Westside Food Bank
UU Service Committee (UUSC)
UUA-UUSC Philippines Typhoon Haiyan/Yolanda
Relief Fund
Simms-Mann/UCLA Oncology Center
OPCC (Ocean Park Community Center)
Turning Point
Homeboy Industries
The Chalice Oak Foundation
LA GOAL: Providing Services to Adults with
Developmental Disabilities
A New Way of Life Reentry Project
 
I am so proud of these gifts, and of our congregation’s leadership in choosing to give away more and more of our Sunday offering to organizations doing work we could not do on our own.
 
This year, we welcomed DRE Catherine Farmer Loya back from her family leave, and we bade farewell to organist Dr. Irene Gregorio-Stoup, and added Daniel Gledhill to our worship and music team as our Church Accompanist. Thank you to Rima Snyder for her years of assistance in the office; as of this writing we are still interviewing for a new staff member in this position.
 
A focus of leadership over the past year has been sharing our dreams and hopes for our church home through our visioning process, as well as continuing to develop our campus with much-needed office renovation and facility development projects.
 
It is with deep admiration that I particularly thank our outgoing President, Cynthia Cottam, for her partnership and faith in these projects and in our shared ministry.
 
With appreciation,
Rev. Rebecca
 

More From Our Minister

 
Your minister will be on summer leave from June 23 through August 5. During this time I will attend Ministry Days and the General Assembly of the Unitarian Universalist Association in Providence, RI, to continue my professional development and strengthen my connections with our larger movement; I will read, reflect, study, and write; and I will spend vacation time traveling with my family. While I am traveling, the Committee on Ministry (Kris Langabeer, Dan Patterson, and Alan Brunell) and Pastoral Care Team (Ron Crane, Michael Eselun, and Bronwen Jones) will be on call for ministry and pastoral care needs, and a variety of skilled summer worship leaders will be in the pulpit.
 
 
From Our President: 
These are notes from the May 18 Annual Meeting.
 
Today is May 19, and I am relieved that our business was accomplished. The day started when nine young people participated in the Coming of Age service. They had many guests attending — family and friends to wish them well. The service was absolutely inspiring. For me, there is no better way to focus on our true purposes here. We had cake, and also an excellent brunch, created and served by the Thursday morning Small Group Ministry participants. It was a lovely day to be on the patio.
 
The Annual Meeting was well attended, with 103 people present at the start. All candidates for office were elected. The balloting included 91 regular, 5 absentee and 19 proxy ballots. Rev. Rebecca Bijur gave her report and I gave mine. Then Kit Shaw gave the treasurer’s report, discussing reasons for the $71,000 projected deficit.
 
These include salary increases, the intern minister, web development, increases in dues to PSWD and an increase in the generous congregation percentage to 60%, and increased cleaning expenses due to increased rentals. There were many strong feelings about the budget, both positive and negative. Some felt more detailed information should have been sent out ahead of time. Some felt the budget should not be approved. Some argued this budget is acceptable: the Board had already approved it, it supports our current staff and programs, and we have more than adequate funds in the bank. An amendment was offered to create a Committee on Money to be chosen by the nominating committee. (The Board had already passed a motion in March to create a Committee on Money with the same mission, but it was to be appointed by the minister, the president and the incoming president). A point of order was raised, and the president and parliamentarian agreed that this amendment did not pertain to the motion on the floor (the budget) and would not be accepted. A little while later a second amendment was offered to allocate $1000 to a Committee on Money. This amendment was debated and ultimately passed by a vote of 50 to 34.
 
During the break that was created by the need to write out the amendment, Rev. Rebecca announced the sad news that Sylvia Berke had just died. The budget resolution passed 85 yes, 14 no, 3 abstentions. The Sanctuary Lighting resolution was discussed and also passed with 68 yes, 7 no. A more detailed discussion of the sanctuary lighting plans will be presented in a future newsletter.
 
It has been a rich experience to serve as your president. I have known Patricia Wright since our babies (now adults) were in the nursery, and I know she will do an excellent job going forward.
 
See you in church,
Cynthia Cottam
 
News & Announcements: 

New Board

 
 
 
 
 
Our 2014-2015 Board of Directors: Emily Hero, member-at-large; Kit Shaw, treasurer; Pat Gomez, member-at-large; Patricia Wright, president; Rebecca Crawford, member-at-large; Barbara Gibbs, vice president; Leonard Cachola, secretary; Cynthia Cottam, past president. Not present: Beth Brownlie, member-at-large. Photo by Carol Ring.

Generous Congregation Plans

 
 In June we will send 50% of the Sunday offering to Common Ground: The Westside HIV Center. Now housed within the Venice Family Clinic, Common Ground is the only HIV agency on the Westside of Los Angeles and is committed to helping everyone know their HIV status and making sure that people living with the virus find — and stay connected to — medical care.

UU Santa Monica Architectural History

 
The Santa Monica Conservancy is launching a celebration of the work of UU Santa Monica architect John Byers with a talk in our Sanctuary by USC professor Ken Breisch on Sunday, June 1, at 3:30 p.m. Tickets are $15 (or $10 for Conservancy members). A week later, on June 8, there will be a self-guided tour of other Santa Monica structures designed by Byers including his own home and the Miles Playhouse. More information can be found at http:// www.smconservancy.org/
 
Dwight Flowers & John Zinner

Summer Office Hours

 
Summer office schedule from June 15 through September 7:
— Mondays: 10 a.m. to 1 p.m.
— Tuesdays through Thursdays: 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.
— Fridays: offices closed
 

 

Faith in Action News: 

Catch a ride on the Pride Bus and March with us on Sunday, June 8th

 
This is going to be the 10th anniversary of our church’s participation in the Gay Pride Parade. About seven years ago, I was marching along with our Santa Monica UU group and I heard a voice yell out from the crowd:, “Hey, Janet!” I looked and I didn’t recognize the person running toward me in the beautiful dress, sunglasses and heels. “Janet, it’s me, Brent!” A few years before, Brent had been one of my very best students at UCLA. We hugged each other like long lost friends. And then, before I left to rejoin my rapidly disappearing fellow UUs, he did something I did not expect — he thanked me for marching. Actually, people all the way up and down the parade route thanked us. They saw that we were young and not so young, gay and straight, singles and families with kids. They read our banners: “Standing on the Side of Love” and “Unitarian Universalists Blessing Gay Marriages since 1959.” Why do I march? I march because I want the world to know that our church welcomes the LGBTQ community. I want everyone to be able to march with pride. I march with pride. You can too.
 
Janet Goodwin

FAQ: LA Pride Parade on Sunday, June 8

 
Q:  How can I get to the parade?
To make it easier and to promote participation, we are canceling the 11 a.m. service on June 8 and we are chartering a bus to take 55 people from UU Santa Monica to the parade and then bring them back after we march. We are asking $15 round trip, but we can arrange a family discount. The bus will leave UU Santa Monica after the 9 a.m. service (~10 a.m.) and return to UU Santa Monica around 2 to 2:30 p.m.
 
Q: What if I want to drive?
If you choose to drive (and some of you will HAVE to because we want way more than 55 people to march!), you’ll want to park near the END of the route near SM Blvd. & Robertson. There will be some street parking and during the parade ALL parking meters in West Hollywood are FREE, so the posted rules don’t apply (just for West Hollywood, though, not Hollywood, OK?). The Pacific Design Center has a parking structure as well, but it’s not free; it’s about a 15-minute walk to the head of the parade (see, it’s a REALLY short distance).
 
Q: What is the exact parade route?
The parade route begins at the intersection of Santa Monica and Crescent Heights and progresses along Santa Monica Blvd. to Robertson Blvd. Here is a link to the map: http://lapride.org/ parade.html The route is 1.2 miles and takes no more than an hour and a quarter at a leisurely “parade” pace. The staging area (where we meet to line up) consists of the 3 feeder streets: Crescent Heights (north and south of “step-off”) and Santa Monica (east of “step-off”). I will receive the information about where our group will line up when I attend the parade’s safety workshop (late May).
 
Q: What time do we meet?
By ~10:45 a.m. is good. If you park near the end of the parade (Santa Monica and Robertson), you need to factor in a 15-minute walk to the parade. Just call me that morning to get an update. Even though we won’t start till after 11 a.m., it’s still FUN to be together and to see the other marchers! If you’re late, just call us and try to join us en route.
 
Q: What time do we march?
I will get a “number” when I check us in Sunday morning, June 8. That number tells us how many  units/floats/groups are before us. The first group will start moving at 11 a.m. and although we won’t know until we check in on Sunday exactly what our start position will be, I hope that we’ll be in the first hour of marchers.
 
Q: What does our “unit” consist of?
This year we will rent either a pickup or a flatbed. If you come early enough, you can help us decorate it. It will be moving slowly — with us marching beside/behind it. We have also invited other UU marchers from the L.A. area to join us! We also have multiple banners — “UU Santa Monica standing on the side of love,” and another that Debbie Menzies made: “Unitarian Universalists Blessing Gay Marriages Since 1959.” The Sepulveda UU Society has typically brought the official Standing on the Side of Love banner too. Traditionally, we’ve used banners to define the beginning will probably be at the head of our group. We encourage every congregation to bring a congregational flag if they have one. Many of us also carry signs with a supportive message: “We teach love not hate.” “Service is our prayer.” “Love is love. No H8.” Feel free to make one and bring it!
 
Q: What should I wear?
Any colorful shirt is FINE. If you would like to order one, please order one immediately from the youth planning
to go to Mexico on a service trip. If you don’t need/want a shirt, just wear whatever you want. I try to bring a few extra in various sizes but any colorful shirt or tie-dyed shirt or UU shirt or “Standing on the Side of Love” shirt would be fantastic!
 
Q: What should I bring?
• A cell phone (if you have one). It might be a good idea to add our numbers to your contact list.
• Water bottle
• Sunscreen
• Hat
• A little rainbow flag if you have one
• Colorful leis, if you have them
• Sign with a supportive UU message!
 
Just to give you an idea of the pride experience, here’s a video made by a group of UU churches in Dallas: http://vimeo.com/49690449
 
Wouldn’t you like to be part of a similar group here in L.A.? Join us on Sunday, June 8, as we stand on the side of love, equality, and justice for all.
 
Janet Goodwin
 
 
Splinters from the Board: 
Cynthia Cottam provided wonderful food for the board that she had prepared in her own kitchen. Then she
lit the chalice to begin business and invited us all to share what is in our hearts. Attendees shared stories of the joy of retirement, Sunday Supper, gardens with blackberries, children moving to Ecuador, sick family members, knee injuries, and a happy surprise of attending a baseball game. Rev. Rebecca was unable to attend as she was graduating from the People’s Academy at the Santa Monica City Council Meeting and DRE Catherine Farmer Loya was unable to attend because she was hosting a one-year-old’s birthday party — her son’s!
 
The board then read the covenant together.
 
As of this May’s meeting the church has 377 members. Lois and Brad Hutchinson, Joanne Brownlie, and Eric Huang have joined us. During the month of April the UU Santa Monica Generous Congregation Contribution gave $1,227 to A New Way of Life Reentry.
 
Rev. Rebecca had submitted to the board her monthly report. She summarized her Annual Report on Ministry that is available now online and will be available at the Annual Congregational meeting. Definitely the highlight for our minister has been the Small Group Ministry. She also outlined her summer schedule. It includes attending General Assembly in Providence, RI.
 
DRE Catherine had submitted to the board her monthly report. She shared her enthusiasm for the Coming of Age service on May 18 and RE Sunday on June 1. The YRUU group has raised 50% of the money they needed for the Youth Service Trip to Mexico. Administrator Nurit Gordon reported that the staff has happily moved into their new and beautiful offices. We have raised $26,850 at the Dining for Dollars fundraising event this year.
 
We have two new covers for the shade structures in the courtyard. Bryan Oakes updated the board about current
building projects. He said that everything is being wrapped up and is now just a matter of sign-offs. Brad Hutchinson described the plans for upgrading the wiring, lighting, and audiovisual components in the sanctuary.
 
Acting Treasurer Alan Brunell led a discussion regarding the budget to be presented at the Annual  Congregational Meeting on May 18.
 
The next board meeting will be on June 10. The meeting was adjourned at 9:50 p.m.
 
This will be my last writing for “Splinters from the Board” as I will no longer be a board member and will not be attending future meetings. Thank you for the privilege to serve this community.
 
Bronwen Jones
 
RE News: 

From our DRE

It’s that time of year again — the Lifespan RE Committee and I are recruiting volunteers for the summer and 2014-15 RE program year, and I invite YOU to consider teaching this year! You may have questions about volunteering; potential volunteers often raise similar concerns, so here are answers to some of the most common questions that come our way about teaching RE.

Q: Why do teachers volunteer their time?
The best way to get an answer to that is to ask one of our teachers! Sharing the excitement of learning and exploring new ideas with children can be a very special experience. We learn as much, or more, from them as they do from us, and their fresh outlook helps us to keep our youthful perspective. The curriculum materials we provide allow you the opportunity to explore and clarify your own religious ideas and delve into the varied religious heritages that have influenced Unitarian Universalism.

Q: I’m still forming my own beliefs. How can I teach religion to children?
As UU’s, most of us spend our entire lives formulating our religious beliefs. It’s a part of what we’re all about! Since we have no creed, we don’t try to “teach” our children religion. Instead, we help them to question, to wonder, to grow their own spirituality. We teach them how to think about religion, not what to think about it. Our teachers don’t need theological certainty, just open minds and open hearts.

Q: But I don’t know how to teach!
That’s okay — we’ll help you! We’ll have a training workshop on a Saturday in September before classes begin so you’ll feel right at home with our RE program. The Lifespan RE Committee and I will provide support, both practical and emotional, at any time.

Q: But I can’t do it alone!
Of course you can’t, and we don’t expect you to. You’ll be a part of a teaching team of three or four teachers per class. When it’s your turn to teach, another member of your team or a class parent will be there to assist. The DRE and the Lifespan Religious Exploration (LRE) Committee will check in with you, offer suggestions when asked, and help provide the supplies and resources you need.

Q: But I’m not good at arts and crafts (music, drama or whatever).
You don’t have to be! Our curricula are designed to be easy to use and are so complete that all you need to do is follow the directions. Just add love and stir! Remember, the members of your teaching team will have complementary strengths. Our congregation is a wealth of talent, and we will help you find that guitarist-dancer-scientist who can add the touch of expertise you want.

Q: I don’t have kids (or my kids are grown up). Why should I get involved in RE?
Social responsibility begins at home, within our own church family. What better way to assure our future, as well as that of our denomination, than to work with children and youth, who are its heartbeat? It is very rewarding to share the joy of celebration and discovery. The children will benefit from your viewpoint - differing perspectives are invaluable to their growth.

Q: I enjoy the sermons too much to miss them.
Good News! We have two services each Sunday, at 9 and 11 a.m., so you may still participate in worship on weeks when you’re teaching. Many of our teachers, particularly those who don’t have young children currently in RE, volunteer at one service and attend worship at the other each week. Your commitment as a teacher is two Sundays per month (once as lead teacher and once as assistant), so you’ll also have two or three Sundays every month without classroom responsibilities when you can attend the service of your choosing.

Q: I have a crazy schedule, so I can’t teach. Is there another way I can help?
Yes! Our LRE program can use volunteers in countless ways. We need nursery and classroom helpers, teacher substitutes, snack providers and more. We need resource people in many fields. A “guest appearance” adds a dimension to a young person’s religious education. Perhaps you have a professional expertise that could be utilized to support our teaching staff. We also have plenty of opportunities for those who would like to plan or supervise parties or activities, intergenerational events or service projects, or help organize the RE library and supply closets. Choose what interests you!

To learn more about volunteer opportunities or to sign up, visit the LRE table during coffee hour, or contact me at Catherine@uusm.org or 310-829-5436 x105.

Catherine Farmer Loya

Date Night Event a Success for YRUU

 
On Saturday evening, May 3, YRUU and the LRE Youth Subcommittee hosted “Date Night,” an evening when children could be dropped off at church so that parents could enjoy a little “me” time. The event was a success, with a few UU Santa Monica families taking part. The evening included a pasta dinner, movies, games, crafts, and snacks for the kids. YRUU youth supervised the children and interacted with them by playing board games, leading craft projects, and screening family movies in Forbes Hall. Members of the LRE Youth Subcommittee as well as YRUU parents were also on hand to lend support and adult supervision of the entire event.
 
Monies raised that evening, which totaled $146, will be split between two funds: one for YRUU’s upcoming trip to Mexico to build homes for the needy through Esperanza International, and the other a scholarship fund for youth interested in attending camp at Camp de Benneville Pines.
 
In all, seven children attended the event, and parents were pleased to have this option available to them. I think this is the start of a great new fund-raiser. We had such a good, positive response from this event that we’re thinking of offering it a couple of times a year for a longer period of time. We’re also thinking of hosting a parents’ event at the same time, either on campus or at a nearby restaurant. At the prices we offered, it’s a really great deal for the parents, their kids get to interact with YRUU youth and to think of church as a fun place, and we get to raise much needed funds for our youth to put their UU values in action. It’s a win win all the way!
 
Liza Cranis

LRE Children’s Subcommittee

 
Summer’s on the horizon, believe it or not, and we’re looking forward to launching our summer RE programs on June 15. This year kids in elementary and middle school will take part in a program called “Principles for UU & Me,” exploring our seven UU Principles through tactile, hands-on projects that will engage young people of all ages who come to our summer sessions. In the preschool class, we’ll be reprising a favorite summer program last offered in 2012: Summer of Seuss! Each week we’ll read a different Dr. Seuss story together, and then will have special crafts and activities to help our younglings explore the themes of the stories. Members of the congregation are invited to sign up for one Sunday, to lead or to assist in either program, elementary/middle or preschool.
 
Please consider spending a morning with our kids! To volunteer, please visit the LRE table during coffee hour on Sundays this month, or contact Catherine Farmer Loya or a member of the LRE Committee. Hurry — summer is approaching fast!

Adult RE

 
Wednesday Night Writers:
A welcoming space for all writers, regardless of prior writing experience or expertise. Join us June 11 and June 25 (second and fourth Wednesdays), 7:00 p.m., Forbes Hall for writing, helpful critiques, and moral support. Unlock your creativity! No sign-ups required – just show up!
 
Long, Strange Trip: A UU History:
We continue our six-part video and discussion series about the history of Unitarian and Universalist thought from the beginning of the Christian era to what we know today as Unitarian Universalism.
 
Join us June 18 (third Wednesdays), 7:00 p.m., Forbes Hall for “Part IV: Universalism.” Learn about the development of Universalism from 1600 to1860 through the early German and English pietists such as Jakob Böhme and Jane Leade, and 18th century English ministers such as George Whitfield, James Relly, Georges de Benneville, and John Murray. Highlights of the hour-long video include:
 
• The emigration of George de Benneville and Murray to America and their roles in the formation of an organized Universalist religion;
• The story of the Thomas Potter incident and the role Judith Sargent Murray played in the movement;
• The theological development of Universalist movement through Murray, Elhanan Winchester, and Hosea Ballou;
• The unprecedented explosion of Universalist churches across America during the first half of the 19th century;
• Why the Universalist movement began its precipitous decline after the death of Hosea Ballou.
• The screening will be followed by guided discussion.
 
You are welcome to bring your own brown-bag supper for pre-workshop socializing at 6:00 p.m. before we get started. Childcare is available on request. Sign up in Forbes Hall at the LRE table after Sunday services.
 
Karen Hsu Patterson

Justice

 
Bettye Barclay has provided this list of weekly thoughts about our ministerial theme for June. Daily thoughts are published in the weekly email announcements.
 
Week 1. Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere. Martin Luther King, Jr.
 
Week 2. At his best, man is the noblest of all animals; separated from law and justice he is the worst. Aristotle
 
Week 3. Until Justice is blind to color, until education is unaware of race, until opportunity is unconcerned with the color of men’s skins, emancipation will be a proclamation but not a fact. Lyndon B. Johnson
 
Week 4. Exclusion is never the way forward on our shared paths to freedom and justice. Desmond Tutu
 
Week 5. At a time when efforts are being made to eradicate discrimination between the sexes in search for social equality and justice, the differences between the sexes are being rediscovered. Carol Gilligan