Newsletter for February, 2016

Month: 
Feb 2016
From Our Minister: 

Speak Up About Our Church’s Finances and Future

Step up to the microphone this month to bring alive our 5th principle, which affirms the use of the democratic process within our congregations. It’s time to use our power and voice to shape the decisions that affect our spiritual home!

This month we will gather on February 14 after the second service for a special Congregational Meeting on our church finances. At this meeting, your Board of Directors and Committee on Money will present a series of congregational resolutions on our finances to ensure the best care for our spiritual home today and for generations to come. I hope you will come and help your leaders conclude this collaborative, multi-year effort with your voice and your vote.

One week later, from February 20 to February 22, we will gather again, this time in small groups of 8 to 10, for Congregational Conversations. Your Committee on Ministry and Board of Directors have invited our UUA District Staff to convene a series of special focus groups to better understand the passions and interests that inspire elders, adults, young adults, and youth in our congregation, and to better hear and begin to heal our disappointments and wounds as well. Come connect with new friends or say hello to familiar faces. You can sign up at church or by email to committeeonministry@ uusm.org for your hour-long conversation in sessions held at the church from 9 am to 12:30 pm and 1:15 to 3:30 pm on Saturday, February 20; 1 pm to 4:30 pm on Sunday, February 21; or 5 pm to 7:15 pm on Monday, February 22. Please bring your children, who are invited to spend the session in special activities with our caring childcare staff. For the Conversations to be as helpful as possible, we hope to hear from as many members and friends of our congregation as we can. If you are very active in leadership in our church, we need you. If you are less active or new to our congregation, we need you. Your voice is vital to the success of our Congregational Conversations and will significantly shape our future together.

The Committee on Ministry has set a goal of filling all 200 spots in our focus groups and we’d be glad to add more! If you know that you will not be able to attend any group in the times available, please contact committeeonministry@uusm.org and we will set up a one-on-one conversation with our trained UUA facilitators.

Tell your neighbors, tell your friends: at 18th and Arizona, it’s time to step up to the microphone and participate in the decisions that affect our spiritual home. It’s time to lift every voice — and let our community SING!

Much heart,
Rev. Rebecca

 

From Our President: 

Participate in the Business Meeting February 14 and Focus Groups February 20 to 22

Let us hear your voice at the Sunday, February14, business meeting to vote on the recommendations regarding our financial future. This vote will be the culmination of the hard work of the Committee on Money (Co$) that began in November 2014. It is gratifying that these are now joint recommendations of the Co$ and the Board, and we now welcome the support of the congregation. February 14 was not chosen because it is Valentine’s Day (alternate was Super Bowl Sunday!), but “Love is the doctrine of this church” and as Unitarian Universalists we “Stand on the side of love.”

And let us hear your voice during the weekend of February 20 to 22 when the UUA Western Region will conduct Congregational Conversations at UU Santa Monica. We hope for participation from 200 members. Whichever way you may feel comfortable expressing your voice can be accommodated. Visit the table in Forbes Hall or contact Tom Peters or Sue Stoyanoff, co-chairs of the Committee on Ministry, with your request. The UUA will issue a report within 30 days with their recommendations to help us heal and chart our future.

But please do not let it stop there. Help us create a “container” in which we might find hopefulness by asking how you might contribute to the health and sustainability of our church and take that vision out into the world. We share a oneness but not a sameness; let us meet in that container.

Patricia Wright

 

News & Announcements: 

Congregational Business Meeting

February 14, 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary
Purpose: To vote on the Resolutions of the Committee on Money (CO$)

Camp de Benneville Pines

Join us between services on February 28 for a celebration of Camp de Benneville Pines, our own Unitarian Universalist piece of heaven in the San Bernardino mountains. Learn about upcoming camps for all ages and interests.  If you'd like to attend camp this year, please fill out our 2016 Camp Registration Form.

Coming Soon! Our Whole Lives (O.W.L.) for Young Adults and Adults

From the Adult OWL Training Manual:

“Lifelong, fulfi lling sexual and romantic partnerships are the hope of countless people, the achievement of a happy minority, and the shattered dream of many others.”

“Is spiritual intimacy related to sexual intimacy?”

O.W.L. for Adults and Young Adults is swooping in for its 8th season at UU Santa Monica. Explore relationships, sexuality, communication, values, and spirituality as they relate to one another and to our passages through adulthood (19 to 109).

Previous Adult O.W.L. participants have said, “O.W.L. helped me explore my beliefs about what relationships are and aren’t.” “Talking about these issues with people who have different perspectives on love and sexuality was refreshing and interesting.” “The combination of theory and discussion led me to more textured ideas about communication and relationships.”

This program will take place on five Saturdays, in April through early June, with more to be arranged in the fall. Sign up in Forbes Hall after both services or by calling Beth Rendeiro, OWL coordinator at (310) 391-5909. Enrollment is limited to 18 people. Childcare will be provided with advance reservations. 

2016 Dining for Dollars

Sign up for events on February 21 and 28 Forbes Hall, 10 to 11 am and 12 to 1 pm. Dining for Dollars is our annual silent auction; it raises income that is essential to meeting our budget goals. It is a beloved part of our UU Santa Monica social life. Members and friends can bid on dinners, baked goods, gift certifi cates, concerts, and other experiences offered by other members and friends. Everyone is encouraged to participate. Look over the Events List on page 7. There's still time to add one of your own. We love new events and new ideas.

2016 Dining for Dollars Roster of Events (Note: Preliminary Data — Please check bid sheets for final details.)

Sat March 19 5:00 PM Scrabble and Chili Roberta Frye & Sheila Cummins
Sat March 19 7:00 PM Glorious Granada: Menu of Golden Age of Moorish Spain Barbara & Denny Kernochan Sun March 20 7:00 PM Dinner with a Persian Accent Faz & Lucy Elahi
Sat March 26 5:00 PM Movie Night: Mary Poppins Singalong Patrick Meighan & Amy Thiel

Sat April 2 6:30 PM Tapas & Beer Tasting Karl Lisovsky & Alan Brunell
Sat April 9 2:00 PM Beads and Bonbons Bettye Barclay
Sat April 16 2:00 PM Upcycling Art Party for Kids Jonathan Bijur
Sat April 16 5:00 PM Vegetarian Chopped: Cooking Demo and Tastings Beth Brownlie & Bryan Oakes
Sat April 16 5:00 PM Thin Man Cocktail Party with Professional Bartender Abby Arnold
Sat April 23 3:00 PM Bon Appétit! A French Crêpe Party Lucy Hahn & Barbara Powers
Sun April 24 1:30 PM Downtown Santa Monica Historic Walking Tour John Zinner
Sat April 30 12:00 N Picnic and Wildflower Walk Dorothy Steinicke
Sat April 30 7:00 PM Seven-course Celebration of Spring Kikanza Nuri-Robins & Abby Arnold

Sat May 1 1:00 PM Technology for Beginners Tom Peters
Sat May 7 11:00 AM French Picnic + Beach Bike Ride Francois Bar & Alison Kendall
Sat May 14 4:30 PM Lorenzo’s Famous Louisiana Crawfish Boil Jacki Weber & Lorenzo Pelayo
Sat May 14 6:30 PM Gourmet Pizza & Beatles Music Karl & Janet Lisovsky
Sat May 21 6:00 PM An Evening of Astronomy and Chili (meat & vegan) Edward & Patricia Wright
Sun May 22 4:00 PM “Mother.-Father.” Dance-Theater Premiere & Reception Christine Suarez

Sat June 4 6:00 PM Casual Barbecue Vicky Foxworth & Jeff Pressman
Sun June 5 5:30 PM Ladies Night at the Heated Pool, 20th Anniversary Julie Nyquist
Sat June 11 10:45 AM Santa Monica Pier Secrets and Penthouse Lunch Kay Ward & Natalie Kahn
Sat June 11 7:00 PM Raising the Standards (Jazz) DeReau Farrar & UUCCSM Choir
Sun June 12 2:00 PM Kids Yoga Charley & Eala Duckamn
Sat June 25 4:00 PM Middle Eastern Feast & Canal Walk Haygo Salibian & Bill Blake

Sat July 16 12:30 PM Jonathan Beach Club 4-course Champagne Brunch Marjorie & Bill Anderson
Sat July 16 7:00 PM Delightful Japanese Dinner on the Patio Resa Foreman
Sun July 17 2:00 PM Dinner and Movie at the Arclight Theatre in Hollywood Bonnie Brae

Sat Sept 3 12:00 N Pig Roast Mike Monte
Sat Sept 10 6:30 PM Gourmet Greek/Mediterranean - With Food Chemistry Rebecca Crawford
Sun Sept 11 5:00 PM 12th Annual Scrabble Tournament & Alphabet Soup Liz Fuller & Daniel Kegel
Sat Sept 17 3:33 PM Low Tide “Supper on the Beach” Dorothy Steinicke
Sat Sept 17 5:30 PM Zapotec Cooking Class & Fiesta Cynthia Cottam & Tom Early
Sun Sept 25 5:00 PM Charades & Supper Steven DePaul & Beth Rendeiro

Sun Oct 1 2:00 PM Accessibility Software for Everyone Tom Peters
Sat Oct 1 7:00 PM 2 Hot Tamales! Haute Cuisine of Mexico & Latin America Beth Brownlie & Bryan Oakes Sat

Oct 8 6:30 PM Vegan Feast with Wonderful Palate of Spices Kenneth & Crystal Alexander
Sat Oct 29 7:00 PM Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) Beverly Alison & Linda Van Lighten

Very Special Goods & Services

One pair hand knit socks Helen Brown
Two $100 DeBenneville Pines gift certificates Janet James
Green Remodel Consultation Alison Kendall
Hand-knit item of your choice Karen Patch
Quick bread Bi-monthly During 2016 Sylvia Young & Peggy Rhoads
Computer consulting for Windows Mark Warkentin
Local/Organic Vermicompost & Red wiggler worms Jack Webber

THE FINE PRINT: This is a preliminary list only. Please check final dates and descriptions for events as printed on the bid sheets in Forbes Hall February 21 and 28 after both services. Bidding will close at 1:00 P.M. on Sunday February 28. Children pay at adult rates except where noted. Child’s name is to be placed on separate line on bid sheet. Money donated (paid) for winning bids is non refundable. No email or mailed-in bids will be accepted. Questions may be directed to D4$ Chair, Farrokh Allen . 

 

Faith in Action News: 

Justice for Brendon Glenn: A Step Closer?

LAPD Chief Charlie Beck recommended January 11 that criminal charges be filed against Clifford Proctor, the cop who killed Brendon Glenn in Venice last May. During the summer, UU Santa Monica’s Peace & Social Justice Committee took the lead in organizing three marches on Venice’s Ocean Front Walk. One of our demands was that Proctor be indicted for shooting Glenn, an un-housed Black man who was unarmed. We also raised that demand November 29 at a march in Koreatown with anti-racists from First UU Church of L.A., who had marched with us in Venice.

Only the DA or a grand jury can carry out Beck’s recommendation. As of January 15, Beck had not done what is within his power: initiate disciplinary proceedings against Proctor, who has been on paid leave since he killed Glenn.

Beck said that a video from a store security camera shows that Glenn was shot in the back while prone on the ground. Another demand of our marches — and of hundreds of angry Venice residents at a town hall meeting two days after the May 5 shooting — was that the video be released to the public. According to their attorney, Glenn’s family will demand release of the video.

UU Santa Monica’s theme for January was “The Quest for Truth.” When black people were shot by police in Ferguson, Staten Island, Chicago, Cleveland, and elsewhere, the media described the killers as white police officers, facts which support the narrative that the problem is individual racist cops. But when the shooter is Latino or Black, like Proctor or the cop who shot “Africa” on LA’s Skid Row, the media tend to identify the shooter only as “a police officer.”

According to the Los Angeles Times on January 12, “Los Angeles County prosecutors have not charged a law enforcement officer in an on-duty shooting in 15 years.” Even if Proctor is charged, history has shown that cops tend to be acquitted or, less often, found guilty of relatively low-level crimes with light sentences. One of the chants of our marches was, “No justice, no peace…no racist police!” We still have a long struggle ahead of us to achieve justice. We continue to work with the Committee for Racial Justice (a co-sponsor of the Venice marches) against racist profiling and brutality by the Santa Monica PD, and with a new countywide UU social justice coalition. Please sign up for the Peace & Social Justice email list at the Faith in Action table in Forbes Hall to be notified of events in this ongoing struggle.

Peggy Rhoads

 

Splinters from the Board: 

On January 12 the Board welcomed back the Rev. Rebecca Benefiel Bijur after her sabbatical leave. We heard a brief check-in, and we will all hear more of her stories in the months to come.

The Board passed the consent agenda. We have one new member, Elaine Roark, which brings our total membership to 333.

At the last Board meeting, the Board decided to devote this January meeting to a full consideration and vote on the resolutions put forth by the Committee on Money. The Board made a few changes in wording for the purposes of clarification, including details about which funds are appropriate for short- or long-term investments. These minor changes were accepted as being in keeping with the intention of the Committee on Money, which was represented at the board meeting by Steve White and David Olson. One set of resolutions, supported by both the Board and the Committee on Money, will go before the congregation for a vote at the Congregational Business Meeting to be held Sunday, February 14, following the second service at 12:30 pm. The full text of the resolutions will have been discussed at the Town Hall meeting held on January 17, and any questions answered. The full text will be sent to the congregation prior to the February meeting.

The Board then turned to the subject of bricks for the Garden of Eternity. The Board passed a motion to extend indefinitely the minimum donation of $500 for a basic engraved brick.

The Board affirmed the nomination of Vilma Ortiz and Steven DePaul to the Finance Committee.

The date for the Annual Meeting is now set for May 22 at 12:30 pm, following the second service. 

Cynthia Cottam

 

RE News: 

From Our Director of Religious Education: Please State Your Vocation

Congregations and organizations often create mission statements. The mission articulated by our congregation's Board is to: Love Generously, Seek Truth, and Serve the World. There it is, a single sentence that is intended to sum up our church’s purpose, and all that we do at UU Santa Monica is meant to align with that mission. So we have a collective mission in our community of faith, but I wonder what a personal mission statement might look like. If you had to craft one sentence to sum up what you feel called to do or be in the world, what would it be? Or looking at it another way, if there were a bumper sticker that described the core purpose of your life, what would it say?

If you are used to thinking of this month’s ministry theme — vocation — as referring only to one’s profession, it may seem like an odd choice for a month’s reflection. But the Latin root of vocation means “a call” or “a summons,” and so I wonder: what is it that the still, small voice of your own deepest self tells you about how you are called to live in this world? What do you cherish so deeply that you must align your life with it or risk leading an inauthentic life?

I was challenged once to write a haiku summing up my life that was neither flip nor pretentious. My most successful attempt was:

Aiming to meet this
Hard world with steadfast kindness,
Sometimes she managed.

I’ve done more work on my statement since writing the haiku version, and I’ve whittled it down to two words: Choose Love. In every moment of my day, I am faced with choices to make. Even when things happen around or to me that are beyond my control, my own response is always something I can choose. And in every instance I can think of, I will be living with the deepest authenticity and faith and meaning if the choice I make is a loving choice. Choose love – love for the person I’m interacting with, love for myself, love for the world, love for the values I claim to hold dear.

I’d like to invite you to take some time this month to write a statement of vocation for yourself: it could be a mission statement, a haiku, a bumper sticker, or even just a word or two. Any way you choose to do it, the idea is to make a succinct statement that gets to the heart of how you mean to live, every single day.

May we all learn to hear within ourselves that still, small voice which is our own life’s deepest call to living authentically, meaningfully, vocationally.

Catherine Farmer Loya

RE Field Trip

On January 2, an interfaith meeting hosted at King Fahad Mosque posed the question: What do Jesus and Mother Mary mean to you personally?

The Director of Interfaith and Public Relations Mahomed Khan greeted us, and everyone who chose to participate in the meeting was warmly welcomed to sit in the main hall of the mosque. The meeting consisted of relatively short spiritual and introspective talks on this subject. Roughly 200 people attended, with a significant number of people from The Church in Ocean Park. We were treated to the amazing vocal skill of world renowned chanter Qari Tariq Fattani. In addition we enjoyed a prayer in Aramaic, the language of Jesus. A most memorable story came from the Rev. Janet McKeithen of The Church in Ocean Park, who traced her spiritual journey into the embrace of an all-accepting Jesus, an awakening which happened in a Native American sweat lodge. The point was also made that the head scarf and modest dress that Muslim women don is a way of honoring and emulating the piety of Mother Mary. We were then given a brief tour of the mosque. Overall, the warm invitation, hospitality, and meaningful dialog created a lovely experience. It is expected that this will be an annual event, not to be missed next year.

Sarah Robson

Winter 2015-2016 Groups from the Adult RE Subcommittee

Groups continuing through February

Waking Up to “Who and What We Are”
January 11 to February 29, Mondays, 7 to 8:30 pm, in Room 3

Our “who” is our mind-body expressiveness, caused by parental and cultural influences. Our “what” is our Essence and has the names Consciousness, Awareness, and “what sees out our eyes.” It’s always available and vibrantly marvelous. Our “what” can be termed, “Be-Here-Now.” Each class begins with a review of the previous week’s meditation homework, continues with the same or new meditation, and then a discussion of what happened during this meditation. Classes are learner-centered and experiential. Facilitator: Bill Blake. 

Groups starting in February

Building Your Own Theology
February 3 to March 9, Wednesdays, 7 to 9 pm, in Forbes Hall

Inspired by the fourth principle, a free and responsible search for truth and meaning, this class allows you explore what UUs believe and help you “build a theology” of your own. We will explore our spiritual odysseys, examine the varieties of liberal religious experience, discuss the nature of ultimate reality, and learn how to make meaning in our lives. At the end of the class participants will have the opportunity to write a personal credo of their own theology. Facilitated by Catherine Farmer Loya and Dan Patterson. Contact: Dan Patterson

Thursday Night Meditations
February 4, 11, 18, and 28, from 7 to 8:30 pm, in Cottage SE.

Each week we will do Centering Meditation and a guided Mindfulness meditation. There will be a brief time of comments, sharing, and questions. Experience the benefits of meditation and see which meditation invites you to develop your own regular practice at home. Sign up at the Adult RE table. Questions? Contact and Facilitator: Bettye Barclay. 

UU Foundational Texts Series: Emerson’s Address to the Harvard Divinity School February
Date and Time pending.

Ralph Waldo Emerson’s Divinity School Address, delivered to the graduating class of Harvard Divinity School in 1838, was so shocking for its time that Emerson was not invited back to Harvard for another 30 years. What was so controversial? The “sage of Concord” implored the students to cast aside nearly all they had been taught about Christianity. He inveighed against “stationary” theology and urged them to live, learn and speak from their own life experiences -- to show that “God speaketh, not spake.” Like other radicals in their own time, Emerson’s ideas would have a profound influence on the future of Unitarianism. Facilitator: James Witker