Newsletter for February, 2016
Speak Up About Our Church’s Finances and Future
Step up to the microphone this month to bring alive our 5th principle, which affirms the use of the democratic process within our congregations. It’s time to use our power and voice to shape the decisions that affect our spiritual home!
This month we will gather on February 14 after the second service for a special Congregational Meeting on our church finances. At this meeting, your Board of Directors and Committee on Money will present a series of congregational resolutions on our finances to ensure the best care for our spiritual home today and for generations to come. I hope you will come and help your leaders conclude this collaborative, multi-year effort with your voice and your vote.
One week later, from February 20 to February 22, we will gather again, this time in small groups of 8 to 10, for Congregational Conversations. Your Committee on Ministry and Board of Directors have invited our UUA District Staff to convene a series of special focus groups to better understand the passions and interests that inspire elders, adults, young adults, and youth in our congregation, and to better hear and begin to heal our disappointments and wounds as well. Come connect with new friends or say hello to familiar faces. You can sign up at church or by email to committeeonministry@ uusm.org for your hour-long conversation in sessions held at the church from 9 am to 12:30 pm and 1:15 to 3:30 pm on Saturday, February 20; 1 pm to 4:30 pm on Sunday, February 21; or 5 pm to 7:15 pm on Monday, February 22. Please bring your children, who are invited to spend the session in special activities with our caring childcare staff. For the Conversations to be as helpful as possible, we hope to hear from as many members and friends of our congregation as we can. If you are very active in leadership in our church, we need you. If you are less active or new to our congregation, we need you. Your voice is vital to the success of our Congregational Conversations and will significantly shape our future together.
The Committee on Ministry has set a goal of filling all 200 spots in our focus groups and we’d be glad to add more! If you know that you will not be able to attend any group in the times available, please contact committeeonministry@uusm.org and we will set up a one-on-one conversation with our trained UUA facilitators.
Tell your neighbors, tell your friends: at 18th and Arizona, it’s time to step up to the microphone and participate in the decisions that affect our spiritual home. It’s time to lift every voice — and let our community SING!
Much heart,
Rev. Rebecca
Participate in the Business Meeting February 14 and Focus Groups February 20 to 22
Let us hear your voice at the Sunday, February14, business meeting to vote on the recommendations regarding our financial future. This vote will be the culmination of the hard work of the Committee on Money (Co$) that began in November 2014. It is gratifying that these are now joint recommendations of the Co$ and the Board, and we now welcome the support of the congregation. February 14 was not chosen because it is Valentine’s Day (alternate was Super Bowl Sunday!), but “Love is the doctrine of this church” and as Unitarian Universalists we “Stand on the side of love.”
And let us hear your voice during the weekend of February 20 to 22 when the UUA Western Region will conduct Congregational Conversations at UU Santa Monica. We hope for participation from 200 members. Whichever way you may feel comfortable expressing your voice can be accommodated. Visit the table in Forbes Hall or contact Tom Peters or Sue Stoyanoff, co-chairs of the Committee on Ministry, with your request. The UUA will issue a report within 30 days with their recommendations to help us heal and chart our future.
But please do not let it stop there. Help us create a “container” in which we might find hopefulness by asking how you might contribute to the health and sustainability of our church and take that vision out into the world. We share a oneness but not a sameness; let us meet in that container.
— Patricia Wright
From the Committee on Ministry
Join us for Congregational Conversations Our Congregational Conversations are just a few weeks away. We are delighted by the enthusiastic response to this effort. If you haven’t signed up yet, there is still room, and we are hopeful that you will join us. It is vital that all of us are part of this important conversation. The focus groups are scheduled for Saturday, February 20; Sunday afternoon, February 21; and Monday evening, February 22 and will take place here at church.
You may recall that during the fall of 2014 the Committee on Ministry conducted a survey — something we thought of as a continuing conversation with our congregation. Though the response was small, we learned some of us are happy with our church and some of us were disappointed and unhappy. And we were reminded that all of us, regardless of the level of happiness or the issue at hand, love this church of ours.
In an effort to continue this conversation and better understand our concerns, we are working with UUA Regional Congregational Life Staff to convene a series of Congregational Conversations — one-hour focus groups designed to help us evaluate these concerns. These Congregational Conversations are part of UUA-endorsed steps toward bringing our community to more open communication, compassion, and healing and toward better understanding our joys and concerns.
The Congregational Conversations will consist of focus groups of 8 to 10 people, led in conversation by Regional Staff who are experienced and skilled in facilitating groups. These focus groups will not be led by members of our congregation. Focus group questions will be open-ended, designed to provide members the opportunity to communicate their concerns. Ground rules will provide guidance for fair, respectful communications. After the focus groups have been convened and completed, UUA Regional Staff will prepare a written report reflecting what we said during the focus groups, and will provide recommendations for our next steps. The report will be made available first to the Committee on Ministry and the Board and will then be shared with the congregation.
Please stop by the Committee on Ministry table in Forbes Hall after services for additional information and sign up.
If you know that you will not be able to attend any group in the times available, please contact committeeonministry@uusm.org and we will set up a one-on-one conversation for you with our trained UUA facilitators. Please bring your children; childcare will be provided.
Let us come together to honor one another in this beloved community of ours. As Rev. Rebecca said, your voice is vital to the success of our Congregational Conversations and will significantly shape our future together.
— Committee on Ministry
Money Resolutions Endorsed by the Board
The Board of Directors and the Committee on Money have come to unanimous agreement on the wording and substance of the proposed congregational resolutions to implement the recommendations of the Committee on Money. All members of the Board voted in favor of endorsing the resolutions. These resolutions are now jointly recommended by the Board and the Committee on Money.
Agreement followed weeks of meetings of the Committee on Money with the president, the treasurer, and others. A final hour of discussion and collaboration at the January 12 Board meeting with representatives of the Committee on Money provided clearer wording of the resolutions that achieved agreement.
Clarity was needed that only the congregation, at a Business Meeting (annual or special) held according to the bylaws, may authorize changes to the purposes established for each reserve fund by congregational resolutions, as reflected in any use, transfer, or withdrawal of funds from these reserves.
The authority of the Board to use the funds of any (congregational) reserve account for their defined purposes was affirmed. Also, Resolution IV provides that other (Board) Reserve Accounts may be established and managed by the Board to provide for other contingencies as well as for clear reporting of other approved or anticipated expenses of $5,000 or more.
— Steve White
From Our Pledge Team: 59 Raise Their Pledges; More Needed to Balance Budget
The 2016 Pledge Campaign kicked off in October with 9 house parties graciously hosted by members of our congregation. The purpose of these parties was several fold: (1) to get to know each other better and build community, (2) to talk about what nurtures us in the church and what we can do better, and (3) to talk about how our financial contribution or pledge supports our congregation. These house parties were attended by approximately 60 members and friends. Although each party was slightly different based on the number of people attending (from 4 to 12) and how the host led the meeting, the feedback that we received was overwhelmingly positive. People enjoyed the opportunity to be together (with food and drink, of course!) and to share their feelings about what they loved about our congregation. If you weren’t able to attend one of these parties, you may be able to experience this kind of gathering in the future — the Pledge Team is considering having them again next year.
The Pledge Campaign this year also included a drive to donate the entire Pledge Team’s operating budget ($2,000) to the Westside Food Bank. We donated $5 for every pledge card turned in, and, $10, $15, or $20 for every pledge increase of 3%, 5%, or ≥10%, respectively. Because of the congregation’s generosity (including 59 members/friends who increased their pledge), at the end of the campaign, we had collected $1,425 for the Westside Food Bank and $280,804 in pledge commitments! At the end of the year, we also “roll-over” the pledge of any member in good standing who did not turn in a pledge card (this practice is church policy). This year, 52% of members pledged and the remaining 48% were considered roll-overs. When we include these roll-overs, our pledge commitments are approximately $396,000. However, if we are conservative with the numbers, and consider that 15% of actual pledges will not be collected (in a typical non-profit, the fulfillment rate is 85 to 90%), our “dependable” pledges are actually $336,600, which will fund more than 50% of our typical budget. Way to go, congregation, and thank you for participating in our pledge drive this year!
— Your Pledge Team: Barbara Gibbs, Gretchen Goetz, Kit Shaw, Kim Miller, Beth Brownlie, Jacki Weber, Abby Arnold, and Rev. Rebecca Benefiel-Bijur
Thank You to All 2016 Pledgers:
Eve and Bill Ahlers, Kenneth Alexander, Beverly Alison, Farrokh and Garland Allen, Abby Arnold, Jeremy Arnold, Kirk Attebury, Bettye Barclay, Francois Bar and Alison Kendall, Susan Bickford and Daniel Nannini, Jonathan and Rebecca Bijur, Harvey and Sheila Bjornlie, Edna and Phillip Bonacich, Teri Bond, Bonnie Brae, Leslie Beauvais and Ed Brand, June Bray, Anita and George Brenner, Christopher Brown, Helen Brown, Beth Brownlie and Bryan Oakes, Alan and Amy Brunell, Patrick Burrows and Nancy Shinno, Leonard Cachola, Karen Canady, Teresa Castelli, Jessica Clay, Kathy Cook, Cynthia Cottam and Tom Early, Rebecca Crawford, Dorothy and Phillip Curtis, Steven DePaul and Beth Rendeiro, Janine Venable deZarn, Bob Dietz and Ellen Levy, James and Emily Duckman, Melinda Ewen, Sanna Egan, Sarah Edgington, Joe Engleman, Michael Eselun, Jan and Bruce Ferguson, Olga Felton, Dwight Flowers, Resa Foreman, Roberta Frye, Vicky Foxworth and Jeff Pressman, Clayton Fosset, Norbert Gallery and Rima Snyder, Steve Garboski, Catherine Gentile, Barbara Gibbs, Wendi Gladstone, David and Gretchen Goetz, Marion Goldenfeld, Melissa Goodnight, Patricia Gomez, Raymond Goodman, Janet Goodwin and Karl Lisovsky, Elaine Gordon, Rayma Greenberg, Lucy Hahn, Alice Hall, John and Sharon Hart, Sarah Mae and Hugo Harper, Nora Hamilton, Charles and Christine Haskell, Denise Helton, Leon and Nicole Henderson-MacLennan, Emily Hero, Gerry Hurst, Carl Hoppe and Diane Fletcher-Hoppe, Larry Howard, Nancy and Glen Howell, Mark Huberman, Jay Johnson and Rachel Sene, Cynthia Kelly, Barbara Kernochan, Margaret and Yacoub Kharraz, Phyllis and Robert Kory, Geralyn Lambson, Kris Langabeer and Debbie Menzies, Carl and Ann Levken, Anne MacQueen, Katie Malich, Eileen and Michael McCormak, Joyce and Warren Matthews, Laura Matthews, Richard and Patricia Mathias, Patrick McGuire, Patrick Meighan and Amy Thiel, Ralph Meyer, Kim Miller, Liam Mina, Diane Monteith, Jerry and Sue Moore, Francine and Stuart Moore, Helene and James Morison, Toshi Nakajima and Wendy Snyder, Susana Nierlich, Bryan and Beth Oakes, David and Kitsy Olson, Christine Ong, Vilma Ortiz, Tony Patel, Dan and Karen Hsu Patterson, Rhonda Peacock, John Penney, Jo An and Tom Peters , Ernest Pipes, Allen and Ruth Potts, Barbara Powers, Joan Reitzel, Leslie Reuter, Rick and Peggy Rhoads, Norman Richey and Beverly Shoenberger, Carol Ring, Elaine Roark, Scott Roewe, Anne Saldo, Kit Shaw, Andrea Steffan, Temitope Sonuyi, Marguerite Spears, Diana Spears, Dorothy Steinicke, Isabel and Bayard Storey, Susan Stoyanoff and Steve White, Ellen Stuart, John Sussman, Christine and Mark Rizzo Suarez, Jila Tayefehnowrooz and Mansour Ariomandi, Pamela and Rick Teplitz, Erika and Steven Valore, Linda Van Ligten and Greg Woods, Kay Ward, Jacki Weber, Jennifer Westbay, Jesamine Winston, Joanna Woods-Marsden, Edward and Patricia Wright, Stephen and Sylvia Young, Michael Young, Joan Zierler, John Zinner
Quotes About Vocation:
Bettye Barclay has provided this list of quotes about our ministerial theme for February. Daily quotes also appear in the weekly electronic announcements.
Week 1. I think it would be well, and proper, and obedient, and pure, to grasp your one necessity and not let it go, dangle from it limp wherever it takes you. —Annie Dillard
Week 2. If you find what you do each day seems to have no link to any higher purpose, you probably want to rethink what you are doing. —Ronald A. Heifetz
Week 3. It is not more vacation we need — it is more vocation. —Eleanor Roosevelt
Week 4. The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it. And, like any great relationship, it just gets better and better as the years roll on. So keep looking until you find it. Don’t settle. —Steve Jobs
Week 5. Choose a job you love and you will never have to work a day in your life. —Confucius
Congregational Business Meeting
February 14, 12:30 pm in the Sanctuary
Purpose: To vote on the Resolutions of the Committee on Money (CO$)
Camp de Benneville Pines
Join us between services on February 28 for a celebration of Camp de Benneville Pines, our own Unitarian Universalist piece of heaven in the San Bernardino mountains. Learn about upcoming camps for all ages and interests. If you'd like to attend camp this year, please fill out our 2016 Camp Registration Form.
Coming Soon! Our Whole Lives (O.W.L.) for Young Adults and Adults
From the Adult OWL Training Manual:
“Lifelong, fulfi lling sexual and romantic partnerships are the hope of countless people, the achievement of a happy minority, and the shattered dream of many others.”
“Is spiritual intimacy related to sexual intimacy?”
O.W.L. for Adults and Young Adults is swooping in for its 8th season at UU Santa Monica. Explore relationships, sexuality, communication, values, and spirituality as they relate to one another and to our passages through adulthood (19 to 109).
Previous Adult O.W.L. participants have said, “O.W.L. helped me explore my beliefs about what relationships are and aren’t.” “Talking about these issues with people who have different perspectives on love and sexuality was refreshing and interesting.” “The combination of theory and discussion led me to more textured ideas about communication and relationships.”
This program will take place on five Saturdays, in April through early June, with more to be arranged in the fall. Sign up in Forbes Hall after both services or by calling Beth Rendeiro, OWL coordinator at (310) 391-5909. Enrollment is limited to 18 people. Childcare will be provided with advance reservations.
2016 Dining for Dollars
Sign up for events on February 21 and 28 Forbes Hall, 10 to 11 am and 12 to 1 pm. Dining for Dollars is our annual silent auction; it raises income that is essential to meeting our budget goals. It is a beloved part of our UU Santa Monica social life. Members and friends can bid on dinners, baked goods, gift certifi cates, concerts, and other experiences offered by other members and friends. Everyone is encouraged to participate. Look over the Events List on page 7. There's still time to add one of your own. We love new events and new ideas.
2016 Dining for Dollars Roster of Events (Note: Preliminary Data — Please check bid sheets for final details.)
Sat March 19 5:00 PM Scrabble and Chili Roberta Frye & Sheila Cummins
Sat March 19 7:00 PM Glorious Granada: Menu of Golden Age of Moorish Spain Barbara & Denny Kernochan Sun March 20 7:00 PM Dinner with a Persian Accent Faz & Lucy Elahi
Sat March 26 5:00 PM Movie Night: Mary Poppins Singalong Patrick Meighan & Amy Thiel
Sat April 2 6:30 PM Tapas & Beer Tasting Karl Lisovsky & Alan Brunell
Sat April 9 2:00 PM Beads and Bonbons Bettye Barclay
Sat April 16 2:00 PM Upcycling Art Party for Kids Jonathan Bijur
Sat April 16 5:00 PM Vegetarian Chopped: Cooking Demo and Tastings Beth Brownlie & Bryan Oakes
Sat April 16 5:00 PM Thin Man Cocktail Party with Professional Bartender Abby Arnold
Sat April 23 3:00 PM Bon Appétit! A French Crêpe Party Lucy Hahn & Barbara Powers
Sun April 24 1:30 PM Downtown Santa Monica Historic Walking Tour John Zinner
Sat April 30 12:00 N Picnic and Wildflower Walk Dorothy Steinicke
Sat April 30 7:00 PM Seven-course Celebration of Spring Kikanza Nuri-Robins & Abby Arnold
Sat May 1 1:00 PM Technology for Beginners Tom Peters
Sat May 7 11:00 AM French Picnic + Beach Bike Ride Francois Bar & Alison Kendall
Sat May 14 4:30 PM Lorenzo’s Famous Louisiana Crawfish Boil Jacki Weber & Lorenzo Pelayo
Sat May 14 6:30 PM Gourmet Pizza & Beatles Music Karl & Janet Lisovsky
Sat May 21 6:00 PM An Evening of Astronomy and Chili (meat & vegan) Edward & Patricia Wright
Sun May 22 4:00 PM “Mother.-Father.” Dance-Theater Premiere & Reception Christine Suarez
Sat June 4 6:00 PM Casual Barbecue Vicky Foxworth & Jeff Pressman
Sun June 5 5:30 PM Ladies Night at the Heated Pool, 20th Anniversary Julie Nyquist
Sat June 11 10:45 AM Santa Monica Pier Secrets and Penthouse Lunch Kay Ward & Natalie Kahn
Sat June 11 7:00 PM Raising the Standards (Jazz) DeReau Farrar & UUCCSM Choir
Sun June 12 2:00 PM Kids Yoga Charley & Eala Duckamn
Sat June 25 4:00 PM Middle Eastern Feast & Canal Walk Haygo Salibian & Bill Blake
Sat July 16 12:30 PM Jonathan Beach Club 4-course Champagne Brunch Marjorie & Bill Anderson
Sat July 16 7:00 PM Delightful Japanese Dinner on the Patio Resa Foreman
Sun July 17 2:00 PM Dinner and Movie at the Arclight Theatre in Hollywood Bonnie Brae
Sat Sept 3 12:00 N Pig Roast Mike Monte
Sat Sept 10 6:30 PM Gourmet Greek/Mediterranean - With Food Chemistry Rebecca Crawford
Sun Sept 11 5:00 PM 12th Annual Scrabble Tournament & Alphabet Soup Liz Fuller & Daniel Kegel
Sat Sept 17 3:33 PM Low Tide “Supper on the Beach” Dorothy Steinicke
Sat Sept 17 5:30 PM Zapotec Cooking Class & Fiesta Cynthia Cottam & Tom Early
Sun Sept 25 5:00 PM Charades & Supper Steven DePaul & Beth Rendeiro
Sun Oct 1 2:00 PM Accessibility Software for Everyone Tom Peters
Sat Oct 1 7:00 PM 2 Hot Tamales! Haute Cuisine of Mexico & Latin America Beth Brownlie & Bryan Oakes Sat
Oct 8 6:30 PM Vegan Feast with Wonderful Palate of Spices Kenneth & Crystal Alexander
Sat Oct 29 7:00 PM Dia de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) Beverly Alison & Linda Van Lighten
Very Special Goods & Services
One pair hand knit socks Helen Brown
Two $100 DeBenneville Pines gift certificates Janet James
Green Remodel Consultation Alison Kendall
Hand-knit item of your choice Karen Patch
Quick bread Bi-monthly During 2016 Sylvia Young & Peggy Rhoads
Computer consulting for Windows Mark Warkentin
Local/Organic Vermicompost & Red wiggler worms Jack Webber
THE FINE PRINT: This is a preliminary list only. Please check final dates and descriptions for events as printed on the bid sheets in Forbes Hall February 21 and 28 after both services. Bidding will close at 1:00 P.M. on Sunday February 28. Children pay at adult rates except where noted. Child’s name is to be placed on separate line on bid sheet. Money donated (paid) for winning bids is non refundable. No email or mailed-in bids will be accepted. Questions may be directed to D4$ Chair, Farrokh Allen .
Justice for Brendon Glenn: A Step Closer?
LAPD Chief Charlie Beck recommended January 11 that criminal charges be filed against Clifford Proctor, the cop who killed Brendon Glenn in Venice last May. During the summer, UU Santa Monica’s Peace & Social Justice Committee took the lead in organizing three marches on Venice’s Ocean Front Walk. One of our demands was that Proctor be indicted for shooting Glenn, an un-housed Black man who was unarmed. We also raised that demand November 29 at a march in Koreatown with anti-racists from First UU Church of L.A., who had marched with us in Venice.
Only the DA or a grand jury can carry out Beck’s recommendation. As of January 15, Beck had not done what is within his power: initiate disciplinary proceedings against Proctor, who has been on paid leave since he killed Glenn.
Beck said that a video from a store security camera shows that Glenn was shot in the back while prone on the ground. Another demand of our marches — and of hundreds of angry Venice residents at a town hall meeting two days after the May 5 shooting — was that the video be released to the public. According to their attorney, Glenn’s family will demand release of the video.
UU Santa Monica’s theme for January was “The Quest for Truth.” When black people were shot by police in Ferguson, Staten Island, Chicago, Cleveland, and elsewhere, the media described the killers as white police officers, facts which support the narrative that the problem is individual racist cops. But when the shooter is Latino or Black, like Proctor or the cop who shot “Africa” on LA’s Skid Row, the media tend to identify the shooter only as “a police officer.”
According to the Los Angeles Times on January 12, “Los Angeles County prosecutors have not charged a law enforcement officer in an on-duty shooting in 15 years.” Even if Proctor is charged, history has shown that cops tend to be acquitted or, less often, found guilty of relatively low-level crimes with light sentences. One of the chants of our marches was, “No justice, no peace…no racist police!” We still have a long struggle ahead of us to achieve justice. We continue to work with the Committee for Racial Justice (a co-sponsor of the Venice marches) against racist profiling and brutality by the Santa Monica PD, and with a new countywide UU social justice coalition. Please sign up for the Peace & Social Justice email list at the Faith in Action table in Forbes Hall to be notified of events in this ongoing struggle.
— Peggy Rhoads
On January 12 the Board welcomed back the Rev. Rebecca Benefiel Bijur after her sabbatical leave. We heard a brief check-in, and we will all hear more of her stories in the months to come.
The Board passed the consent agenda. We have one new member, Elaine Roark, which brings our total membership to 333.
At the last Board meeting, the Board decided to devote this January meeting to a full consideration and vote on the resolutions put forth by the Committee on Money. The Board made a few changes in wording for the purposes of clarification, including details about which funds are appropriate for short- or long-term investments. These minor changes were accepted as being in keeping with the intention of the Committee on Money, which was represented at the board meeting by Steve White and David Olson. One set of resolutions, supported by both the Board and the Committee on Money, will go before the congregation for a vote at the Congregational Business Meeting to be held Sunday, February 14, following the second service at 12:30 pm. The full text of the resolutions will have been discussed at the Town Hall meeting held on January 17, and any questions answered. The full text will be sent to the congregation prior to the February meeting.
The Board then turned to the subject of bricks for the Garden of Eternity. The Board passed a motion to extend indefinitely the minimum donation of $500 for a basic engraved brick.
The Board affirmed the nomination of Vilma Ortiz and Steven DePaul to the Finance Committee.
The date for the Annual Meeting is now set for May 22 at 12:30 pm, following the second service.
— Cynthia Cottam
From Our Director of Religious Education: Please State Your Vocation
Congregations and organizations often create mission statements. The mission articulated by our congregation's Board is to: Love Generously, Seek Truth, and Serve the World. There it is, a single sentence that is intended to sum up our church’s purpose, and all that we do at UU Santa Monica is meant to align with that mission. So we have a collective mission in our community of faith, but I wonder what a personal mission statement might look like. If you had to craft one sentence to sum up what you feel called to do or be in the world, what would it be? Or looking at it another way, if there were a bumper sticker that described the core purpose of your life, what would it say?
If you are used to thinking of this month’s ministry theme — vocation — as referring only to one’s profession, it may seem like an odd choice for a month’s reflection. But the Latin root of vocation means “a call” or “a summons,” and so I wonder: what is it that the still, small voice of your own deepest self tells you about how you are called to live in this world? What do you cherish so deeply that you must align your life with it or risk leading an inauthentic life?
I was challenged once to write a haiku summing up my life that was neither flip nor pretentious. My most successful attempt was:
Aiming to meet this
Hard world with steadfast kindness,
Sometimes she managed.
I’ve done more work on my statement since writing the haiku version, and I’ve whittled it down to two words: Choose Love. In every moment of my day, I am faced with choices to make. Even when things happen around or to me that are beyond my control, my own response is always something I can choose. And in every instance I can think of, I will be living with the deepest authenticity and faith and meaning if the choice I make is a loving choice. Choose love – love for the person I’m interacting with, love for myself, love for the world, love for the values I claim to hold dear.
I’d like to invite you to take some time this month to write a statement of vocation for yourself: it could be a mission statement, a haiku, a bumper sticker, or even just a word or two. Any way you choose to do it, the idea is to make a succinct statement that gets to the heart of how you mean to live, every single day.
May we all learn to hear within ourselves that still, small voice which is our own life’s deepest call to living authentically, meaningfully, vocationally.
— Catherine Farmer Loya
RE Field Trip
On January 2, an interfaith meeting hosted at King Fahad Mosque posed the question: What do Jesus and Mother Mary mean to you personally?
The Director of Interfaith and Public Relations Mahomed Khan greeted us, and everyone who chose to participate in the meeting was warmly welcomed to sit in the main hall of the mosque. The meeting consisted of relatively short spiritual and introspective talks on this subject. Roughly 200 people attended, with a significant number of people from The Church in Ocean Park. We were treated to the amazing vocal skill of world renowned chanter Qari Tariq Fattani. In addition we enjoyed a prayer in Aramaic, the language of Jesus. A most memorable story came from the Rev. Janet McKeithen of The Church in Ocean Park, who traced her spiritual journey into the embrace of an all-accepting Jesus, an awakening which happened in a Native American sweat lodge. The point was also made that the head scarf and modest dress that Muslim women don is a way of honoring and emulating the piety of Mother Mary. We were then given a brief tour of the mosque. Overall, the warm invitation, hospitality, and meaningful dialog created a lovely experience. It is expected that this will be an annual event, not to be missed next year.
— Sarah Robson
Winter 2015-2016 Groups from the Adult RE Subcommittee
Groups continuing through February
Waking Up to “Who and What We Are”
January 11 to February 29, Mondays, 7 to 8:30 pm, in Room 3
Our “who” is our mind-body expressiveness, caused by parental and cultural influences. Our “what” is our Essence and has the names Consciousness, Awareness, and “what sees out our eyes.” It’s always available and vibrantly marvelous. Our “what” can be termed, “Be-Here-Now.” Each class begins with a review of the previous week’s meditation homework, continues with the same or new meditation, and then a discussion of what happened during this meditation. Classes are learner-centered and experiential. Facilitator: Bill Blake.
Groups starting in February
Building Your Own Theology
February 3 to March 9, Wednesdays, 7 to 9 pm, in Forbes Hall
Inspired by the fourth principle, a free and responsible search for truth and meaning, this class allows you explore what UUs believe and help you “build a theology” of your own. We will explore our spiritual odysseys, examine the varieties of liberal religious experience, discuss the nature of ultimate reality, and learn how to make meaning in our lives. At the end of the class participants will have the opportunity to write a personal credo of their own theology. Facilitated by Catherine Farmer Loya and Dan Patterson. Contact: Dan Patterson
Thursday Night Meditations
February 4, 11, 18, and 28, from 7 to 8:30 pm, in Cottage SE.
Each week we will do Centering Meditation and a guided Mindfulness meditation. There will be a brief time of comments, sharing, and questions. Experience the benefits of meditation and see which meditation invites you to develop your own regular practice at home. Sign up at the Adult RE table. Questions? Contact and Facilitator: Bettye Barclay.
UU Foundational Texts Series: Emerson’s Address to the Harvard Divinity School February
Date and Time pending.
Ralph Waldo Emerson’s Divinity School Address, delivered to the graduating class of Harvard Divinity School in 1838, was so shocking for its time that Emerson was not invited back to Harvard for another 30 years. What was so controversial? The “sage of Concord” implored the students to cast aside nearly all they had been taught about Christianity. He inveighed against “stationary” theology and urged them to live, learn and speak from their own life experiences -- to show that “God speaketh, not spake.” Like other radicals in their own time, Emerson’s ideas would have a profound influence on the future of Unitarianism. Facilitator: James Witker