Newsletter for August, 2012
Dear friends,
The summer months are often a time of rest, renewal, and re-creation — taking time out from work or school to connect with family, friends, and nature. Because I have just returned from my family leave, I’m turning this notion a bit on its head this year, and diving back into church life during our slower season. Though, to look at it, you might not realize it’s a slow season. Here are a few highlights:
• The roof project is moving forward, thanks to your generosity, and we’ll start to see results as early as this fall.
• From a regular Sunday morning to Christmas Eve, from traditional choral repertoire to folk and jazz, and contemporary music, from trained professionals to regular folk who just love to sing and play, music in all its forms is vital to the ministry of this congregation. Over the past few months and weeks, your Music Director search committee has been hard at work narrowing our focus to a handful of top candidates who will help us continue
to provide the ministry of music in our community. More about music from Cynthia Cottam, Board President, and from Rob Briner, Chair of the Search Committee, elswhere in this month's newsletter.
• Also in the works: a rekindling of Small Group Ministry (Covenant Groups), to debut in 2013; a Board retreat to focus on your leaders’ goals for the year; and a new approach to the contemplative evening Vespers service, to
begin in September. Sunday mornings are crowded, coffee hour is humming, and your leaders are trying to
pace themselves in tackling each of these exciting projects in turn. It is a good time to be at 18th and Arizona.
See you at church,
Rev. Rebecca
As I think about our music town hall meeting, which was attended by 52 people, I am most impressed by the wide range of opinions represented there. No one who was paying attention could have left that meeting feeling as if everyone agreed. For every person who prefers one genre of music, there is a person who prefers another. For every person who wants more music, there is a person who would prefer less. For every person who wishes things were the way they used to be, there is a person who feels excited about the music we have now and is dismayed to witness the discontent among us. It is a sobering and also liberating realization. None of us will be able to get exactly what we want, unless we open ourselves to wanting a broader range of possible experiences.
Newness is often difficult. The LA Times from July 12 quotes Andy Babiuk writing about the moment 47 years ago when Bob Dylan plugged in an electric guitar at the Newport Folk Festival: “You think about it now — seeing him play ‘Like a Rolling Stone’ in 1965 — wouldn’t that be the best thing ever? But at the moment it’s devastating: People are booing him; Pete Seeger says ‘Unplug him.’ The fact of him electrifying it makes it so important. He was telling the world, ‘No, this is how I’m doing it now.’” I had a similar experience in college when a friend took me to see a John Coltrane concert. I had never heard of John Coltrane, nor had I any experience with his music. I found the concert absolutely electrifying; I still remember the amazing feeling that my reality momentarily shifted and opened up. I can report, however, that at least 25% of the audience got up and walked out while the musicians were playing.
Neither of these players may represent the kind of music that you enjoy, but I’m sure these reactions have occurred to groundbreaking performers in every genre. Our assessment of newness is simply not very accurate. I was certain I didn’t want a microwave; you can probably guess how that turned out.
Within the next few weeks, we will hire a new music director. We have received a large number of applications, and a committee comprising representatives from the Board, the choir and the personnel committee has read them and discussed them and chosen a small number for further consideration.
I served on the personnel committee for a year before accepting the presidency. I learned a great deal doing this difficult and important job. We are very fortunate to have Denise Helton as our chair. She is a Human Resources professional at UCLA, and brings a wealth of experience and expertise to this task. She also brings dedication, wisdom, and integrity. I feel proud of the process we employ in the hiring of our staff, and I feel confident that
this process will yield a result that will provide us with a qualified person who will bring a unique set of talents and provide us with a new and unique set of experiences and opportunities.
When I think back on my Unitarian upbringing, which I often do these days, I realize that the one thing I remember most clearly is the singing of what we used to call “Old Hundredth” — the four line song [Doxology] printed in your order of service — that begins “From all that dwell below the skies.” I was amazed and comforted to discover, when I came to Santa Monica, that we sing that song too, though the words may be a little different. It turns
out that most UU congregations sing this song. Most UU congregations these days also express a commitment
to increasing diversity in our congregations. It occurs to me that music is an arena in which we already have a great deal of diversity among us. As we prepare ourselves to accept more cultural and economic diversity, music seems the perfect place to begin practicing tolerance and acceptance of the needs and desires of people different from ourselves.
The song from my childhood congregation goes “Let beauty, truth and good be sung, / through every land, by every tongue.” Let’s sing beauty, truth and good within our own congregation. See you in church.
— Cynthia Cottam
UUCCSM Sends 13 Members to the Justice General Assembly in Phoenix
On August 26, our young people Maddy Gordon, Ian Postel, Angela Lisovsky, and Clelia Davis Del Piccolo will describe their amazement at seeing 3700 Unitarian Universalists at General Assembly in Phoenix, AZ. They, along with Linda Van Ligten, Alyssa Wood, Rick Rhoads, and Dan and Karen Hsu Patterson, will relate their excitement at being with 2000 others Standing On the Side of Love shouting, “Tear it Down! Tear It Down!” to Sheriff Joe Arpaio and his deputies at the Tent City Jail, where hundreds of detained immigrants await trial in suffocating Arizona heat.
The teenagers were impressed by the youth caucus and workworkshops and by all the “good people” they met in the four days of plenary sessions, workshops, singing, and just hanging out. Our seasoned members, including Beth Brownlie and Bryan Oakes, were also excited and inspired. Joyce Holmen was at the parallel demonstration at the Convention Center Saturday night, keeping up the spirits of those who could not make the trip to Tent City.
Linda, Alyssa, Karen, and Peggy Rhoads vocally supported the Reproductive Justice Congregational Study/Action Issue passed by the Assembly to act on reversing the critical backsliding of the federal and state governments in protecting the rights of women to control their reproductive lives.
Rick was a panelist in the workshop “Partnering Congregations and Community Organizations,” where he related UUCCSM’s support of grocery workers and with C.L.U.E. in organizing Carwash Workers (most of them Latino and other minorities) in the Los Angeles area. You can see videos of this and other workshops and plenary sessions on line at www.uua.org At a meeting on Saturday, July 7, about fifty UUers in the L.A. and Orange County area met and agreed to move forward in fighting for social justice in our congregations. Dan reported on a plan to show The Minister’s War, a documentary about a UU couple’s rescue of Jews and other populations targeted during World War II, as a fund raiser for bonding out detainees at the Mira Loma immigration detention center. To hear more, come to church Sunday morning, 10 a.m., August 26.
— Peggy Rhoads
Another delicious fundraiser: Our annual Interweave/Women’ s Alliance all-church picnic raised over $600 to support Common Ground
Photos by Diana Spears






UUCCSM Hospitality
We are looking for those of you who may be interested in forming a team responsible for creating and implementing celebrations and recognitions appropriate to our congregation and community. This Hospitality Committee would meet as needed to plan special events and/or receptions, perhaps several times each year. If you consider yourself a good, hospitable prospect, please let me know.
— Barbara Gibbs
Board Vice President
Dignity Bags for Sale
“Dignity Bags” are fair trade tote bags made by the Dougla Prieta Women’s Sewing Cooperative in Agua
Prieta, Sonora, Mexico. The bags are sewn by the women in support of the Kino Border Initiative’s (KBI) work in
Nogales, Sonora. The KBI donates the hand-made bags to the Missionary Sisters of the Eucharist who in turn
distribute the bags to migrants who have been deported back to Mexico with nothing but the clothes they are wearing and maybe some meager belongings in a plastic bag.
Purchase a bag for your own use for $20 and two bags will be donated to the Kino Border Initiative. “Dignity Bags” are part of a collaboration among a number of like-minded groups: No More Deaths, Dougla Prieta, Women’s Sewing Cooperative, Gloo Factory Union Print Shop, Green Valley, Arizona/ Sahuarita Samaritans, Tuscon Samaritans, and the UU church of Green Valley, AZ.
Stop by the Faith In Action table in Forbes to see a “Dignity Bag.” For more information contact the Gloo Factory at (520) 740-0810 or info@gloofactoryink.com or nomoredeaths.org
— Cathie Gentile
Dessert and Dialogue with the Rev. Lindi Ramsden, Executive Director of the UU Legislative Ministry
Saturday, August 11, 7 p.m. in Forbes Hall
Come join the Rev. Lindi Ramsden in a discussion of the legislative calendar this year in California. It is packed with many ballot initiatives, including SAFE — ending the death penalty, and other legislative battles, including AB1801 (Ammiano) TRUST Act, restricting the scope of ICE in our communities.
In her July president’s report, Cynthia Cottam expressed thanks to volunteers and ministers the Revs. Rebecca Benefiel Bijur, Erika Hewitt, and Ernie Pipes as the congregation memorialized Gaye Deal and Maggie Pipes, two women who gave such long and important service to the church.
The new UUSM web site is now usable and “beautiful,” said Cynthia, and members and friends should check it out. The site is strong as well; users who Google “UUSM” now find the new web site link at the top of results.
Church Administrator Nurit Gordon pointed out features of the new site. Now in a “trial-and-error stage,” she said, the site is moving quickly toward the “final product.” An especially useful website feature is the “Donate” button, which makes it easy for members, visitors, and other non-members to give to the church and its programs. Members can set up their own accounts and passwords in order to manage pledges, make one-time contributions, and respond to specific fundraising. People with questions about donations through the website should contact a web manager, Elizabeth Fuller or Pam Teplitz, or Nurit herself. So far, website contributions have increased 25%.
Automatic transactions by credit card now cost the church 45¢ per transaction (rather than the previous
percentage of a donation). At about $12 to $17 per month, this charge seems to be “well worth the cost,”
said Board member Vilma Ortiz. The Board discussed the possibility of generating on-line reminders rather
than paper letters when there is a noticeable hiatus in a member’s pledge payments.
Also through the new site, a facilities calendar allows members to see which church facilities are available for use and to reserve rooms on line. But for now, on-line room reservations are not “fixed” until confirmed via telephone or in person by church office personnel.
New members Julie LaRue and Adam Walderman and returning member Louise Rothman bring our membership roster to 377, Nurit reported. After reviewing her attendance report for September 2011 to January 2012, it was suggested that persons who watch the services remotely from Forbes Hall also be counted in future attendance figures.
The June Generous Congregation contribution to Pico Youth and Family Center was $783.53. Church rental income has risen as a 12-step program group is using the Cottage.
Reviewing the church’s financial earnings and expenses for June, Treasurer Kit Shaw reminded the board that an annual financial oversight committee did not meet, as it usually does, during the first few months of 2012 in preparation for the annual meeting. As a best-practices remedy, a make-up meeting will be constituted soon, and then as usual, such a committee will meet in early 2013 as the next annual financial report is being prepared.
Campus and building news came from Nurit and from Bryan Oakes, chair of the roof committee. Irrigation will improve the sustainable garden around the tent structure north of Forbes Hall, plantings outside Forbes’ Arizona doors, and parking lot-area trees. Hardware for inner doors to Forbes conforms to city fire ordinances. At the same time, outside doors with keypad entrance codes allow security and appropriate access.
Bryan reviewed progress on the roof restoration. A general contractor was to be chosen in mid-July from among three very promising bids by three companies well known to Bryan. The process is proceeding with a Santa Monica city review of our plans, our review of the city’s response, and the city’s final decision. The city requires structural engineers’ calculations in order to select subcontractors for our project. When construction begins, impact on members should be minimal: staging areas and wall construction areas will be fenced off for safety, and contractors are experienced in temporary protection in case of rain. Once installed, said Bryan, the tile roofing will be both practical and attractive.
Reviewing the Acting Minister’s Final Report from Rev. Erika, the board noted her observation that we “are committed to living our UU values and caring for others” and discussed her encouragement to UUCCSM to deepen our work to strengthen the feeling of a caring and compassionate community within our congregation. This activity, Rev. Erika suggests, might take a number of forms: reinforcing CareNet and the “’Shrooms, Plumes, and Zooms” program described by interim minister the Rev. Stephen Furrer; establishing a Pastoral Care Associate team trained in compassionate listening; congregation-wide work on what she calls “the language around covenant.” Her report offers much for UUCCSM to think about.
Board member Rob Briner reported on the Director of Music search, which follows the established congregational
process. Committee members Denise Helton, Alice Jankowiak, Bronwen Jones, and Rob conducted a thorough search and then reviewed more than a score of applications, choosing eight for a more thorough audition and interview process. Prospective directors will learn the changes of Seth Houston’s tenure: more work with children, more activity over the summer months, and development of the repertoire (Seth was active, for example, in the selection of the supplemental “teal”-colored hymnal). The new Director should meet the choir in August and be ready for In-gathering Sunday in September. The committee and the Board see a “bright future” for the music program and music’s place in the life of our congregation.
— Jennifer Westbay
Ministerial Theme for August: Compassion
Our ministerial theme for August is compassion. Bettye Barclay has provided this list of daily thoughts about compassion for the month of August.
AUGUST 1. For me, forgiveness and compassion are always linked: how do we hold people accountable for wrongdoing and yet at the same time remain in touch with their humanity enough to believe in their capacity to be transformed? Bell Hooks
AUGUST 2. As great scientists have said and as all children know, it is above all by the imagination that we achieve perception, and compassion, and hope. Ursula K. Le Guin
AUGUST 3. My experience is that people who have been through painful, difficult times are filled with
compassion. Amy Grant
AUGUST 4. Compassion brings us to a stop, and for a moment we rise above ourselves. Mason Cooley
AUGUST 5. Few things are so deadly as a misguided sense of compassion. Charles Colson
AUGUST 6. For me music is a vehicle to bring our pain to the surface, getting it back to that humble and
tender spot where, with luck, it can lose its anger and become compassion again. Paula Cole
AUGUST 7. A love for humanity came over me, and watered and fertilized the fields of my inner world which had been lying fallow, and this love of humanity vented itself in a vast compassion. Georg Brandes
AUGUST 8. Compassion is the keen awareness of the interdependence of all things. Thomas Merton
AUGUST 9. Some people think only intellect counts: knowing how to solve problems, knowing how to get by, knowing how to identify an advantage and seize it. But the functions of intellect are insufficient without
courage, love, friendship, compassion and empathy. Dean Koontz
AUGUST 10. I believe that man will not merely endure; he will prevail. He is immortal, not because he alone among the creatures has an inexhaustible voice, but because he has a soul, a spirit capable of kindness
and compassion. William Falconer
AUGUST 11. I can do no other than be reverent before everything that is called life. I can do no other than to
have compassion for all that is called life. That is the beginning and the foundation of all ethics. Albert
Schweitzer
AUGUST 12. I have just three things to teach: simplicity, patience, compassion. These three are your greatest
treasures. Lao Tzu
AUGUST 13. If you want others to be happy, practice compassion. If you want to be happy, practice compassion.
Dalai Lama
AUGUST 14. It is not until you become a mother that your judgment slowly turns to compassion and understanding. Erma Bombeck
AUGUST 15. Love and compassion are necessities, not luxuries. Without them humanity cannot survive.
Dalai Lama
AUGUST 16. No, you're not allowed to be bossy when you're married. You have to learn compromise, and
compassion and patience. Star Jones
AUGUST 17. One's life has value so long as one attributes value to the life of others, by means of love,
friendship, indignation and compassion. Simone de Beauvoir
AUGUST 18. Our task must be to free ourselves by widening our circle of compassion to embrace all living
creatures and the whole of nature and its beauty. Albert Einstein
AUGUST 19. Some people are filled by compassion and a desire to do good, and some simply don't think
anything's going to make a difference. Meryl Streep
AUGUST 20. The dew of compassion is a tear. Lord Byron
AUGUST 21. Compassion for myself is the most powerful healer of them all. Theodore Isaac Rubin
AUGUST 22. Make no judgments where you have no compassion. Anne McCaffrey
AUGUST 23. The individual is capable of both great compassion and great indifference. He has it within
his means to nourish the former and outgrow the latter. Norman Cousins
AUGUST 24. Until he extends his circle of compassion to include all living things, man will not himself find
peace. Albert Schweitzer
AUGUST 25. Whether one believes in a religion or not, and whether one believes in rebirth or not, there isn't
anyone who doesn't appreciate kindness and compassion. Dalai Lama
AUGUST 26. Compassion teaches me that my brother and I are one. Thomas Merton
AUGUST 27. Compassion is not a popular virtue. Karen Armstrong
AUGUST 28. Wisdom, compassion, and courage are the three universally recognized moral qualities of
men. Confucius
AUGUST 29. Compassion is the basis of morality. Arthur Schopenhauer
AUGUST 30. Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. Plato
AUGUST 31. Give children at least as many chances to be compassionate as they have to be competitive.
Erica Layman

Patio Chat
Monthly UUCCSM theme Discussion with Leon henderson-MacLennan @ 11 a.m. on the Patio
August 26 — Compassion
Report from Music Director Search Committee
After Seth Houston, our 2011-12 Director of Music, announced that he would be moving out of state after completing his contract in mid-June, I was asked to chair the search committee for a Director of Music, who will begin next fall. I said I would, after happily singing in our choir for the first time last fall, but only if a committee was established before the Rev. Rebecca Benefiel Bijur's then upcoming family leave in April, May, and June. We recruited Bronwen Jones, a former music committee chair and president; Denise Helton, chair of our personnel committee; and current choir member Alice Jankowiak. A job description was posted on the UU Musician's Network and forwarded to other sites and individuals, and a month later we had received 25 applications from a nearly equal number of men and women. The applicants ranged from 20-something to 60-something, with musical interests and backgrounds from classical to folk to gospel. Prior church experience was UU, Baptist, Jewish, Lutheran, and other denominations. Applicants’ education varied from no college degree to a Ph.D. In June members of the search committee met, agreed on a list of eight finalists, and began to check references.
As of the writing of this update it's been more than a week since the July 8 town hall meeting on the music program, and some additional discussions have occurred with interested members of the congregation and with Rev. Bijur. I'm honored to be a part of this process, and appreciate being introduced to some long-term options for how music at UUCCSM could be expanded — even within the same budget. There are different models that I had never thought of, and I look forward to further congregational consensus building. Rev. Bijur will conduct telephone interviews of all eight finalists, call in four to six for face-to-face interviews with the entire search committee, and continue to seek input from everyone interested in the music program — including past and present choir members — before making a decision.
This process is another example of "Everything is a moving target, and everything is constantly evolving." My feeling is that music at UUCCSM is the third leg of a three-legged stool (ministry and religious education being the others). We should be able to hire someone extraordinary, and I can't wait to meet that person at the first choir rehearsal in late August. The congregation as a whole will meet him or her at In-gathering Sunday, on September 9.
— Rob Briner