May-06
Some of you may have noticed that there are some small changes in our serviceSunday mornings. We now hear announcements and introductions after the childrenleave. Choral introits sometimes are choral closings instead. These changesare an attempt to shorten the amount of time the children stay in the sanctuaryuntil they leave for religious exploration.
I hope these small changes will help children who are too young or too restlessto be able to sit still for very long. They cannot enjoy the sanctuary experienceif they are uncomfortable. Shortening the length of time in the sanctuary willalso allow teachers to have more time with their classes.
At the same time, I want to keep the simple rituals we practice together: ringingthe bowl, music and hymns, opening words, greetings, chalice lighting, and storyfor all ages - not to mention the very important offering of food for the WestsideFood Bank, a big favorite for the children. Appreciating community and the ritualswe share are part of what I want our children to learn when they are at church.I value the time they are with us in the service and hope that they will, too.Paying attention to their needs is one way of showing how much we value thepresence of our children.
Now - what can we do to encourage more people of all ages to attend our earlyservice?
- Judith Meyer
Hear from New President and Building Chair at the May 21 Annual CongregationalMeeting
It's that time again - time to elect our new board, which will include a newpresident; Carol Kerr has reached the maximum of three terms. The board candidatesare: Charles Haskell, president; Ron Crane, first vice-president; Peter vanden Beemt, second vice-president; Dayla McDonald, secretary; Warren Mathews,treasurer; Rebecca Crawford, Bronwen Jones, and Pat Parkerton, members-at-large;Phyllis Kory, member-at-large for a one-year term; Edna Bonacich and Anne Gustafson,nominating committee.
Carol Kerr will automatically fill the position of immediate past president,and Patricia Wright and Marv Pulliam will remain on the board serving the secondyear of their terms as members-at-large. Remaining members of the nominatingcommittee are John Fels, S.J. Guidotti, Linda van Ligten, and Victor Paddock.
Most reports are in the packet everyone who attends will receive. MinisterJudith Meyer and President Carol Kerr will give oral reports in addition tothe ones in the packet. After the officers are sworn in the new president willoffer some thoughts about where we might be heading.
Warren Mathews will present the treasurer's report as well as the budget report.(For good news on the budget, see "Splinters from the Board" on page 5.) Thecongregation will have an opportunity to discuss the planned budget and votewhether to accept, reject, or amend it.
Ron Crane will describe the status of the capital campaign, and Alison Kendall,Building Committee chair, will give us the up-to-date news on where we standwith our construction plans for phase one of the building program and our designplans for phase two.
As usual, lunch will be available for sale in Forbes Hall.
- Carol Agate
Stewardship -- What a Difference a Plan Makes
Who am I? Why am I here?" Those memorable and humorous words were uttered by1992 vice presidential candidate James Stockdale. Last month's guest speakerPeter Henrickson spoke them again, in all seriousness, as his opening remarksfor a sermon he delivered after spending the weekend exploring the importanceof these questions with leaders of our congregation.
The author of "Financial Management in the Church" said that these questions,among others, reveal the heart of why we're in community with each other. Hesaid that when we - you, me, our leadership - create a community, we start byfiguring out what we want to be and what we need to become it. When we articulateour desires, we can plan and turn them into reality.
I'll tell you a story that exemplifies my own desires for this congregation.I was having a conversation about our community with a dear friend who's cometo this church longer than I, when this person said, "I come to church on Sundays;I like it here. But if you ask me, 'Am I connected to this community?' I thinkthe answer is 'Not really.' "
In my heart I want this person's answer to the question to be a resounding"yes." I think we, as a congregation, have a long way to go to enable that.But here's where the vision thing comes in.
Imagine adding someone with professional experience in creating a caring andcompassionate community on our team at UUCCSM. This person could day-in andday-out focus on helping us help each other. He or she could help us figureout what gifts we have that support other people and how we can use them forour own development and others' too.
Imagine a staff person, not a congregant with a day job who has good intentionsyet struggles to find time to focus or has to drop out periodically, to workon a big project that will always take priority over volunteer work: a staffperson who comes to work and has eight hours a day to focus on supporting ourgreat volunteers who do social justice work, membership and leadership development,communication and more.
Might we have a stronger community after three years? Might some of the peoplewho walk through our doors and "join" our church only to leave a year or twolater, stick around instead? Might we have an even healthier RE program, Faithin Action program, and music program? I'd love to find out. Wouldn't you?
I've told you my dream. Will you tell me yours? Then, how about if we figureout how much it will cost and see if we can make it happen? Let's make a communitythat supports our personal transformation and has a demonstrable impact on theworld at large.
- In faith,
Jacki K.Weber
Lucia Cargill is a Public Health Specialist Who Provides Aid for the World'sPoorest
Afew hours after the tsunamidevastated Indonesia on December 28, 2004, church member Lucia Cargill got anurgent e-mail message from a physician friend there. Eleven young Indonesiandoctors, all members of an adventure club, were heading for the rural west coastarea of Aceh. They needed help. Right away. They were carrying only backpacks.
"The message said they were going directly to the coast nearest the epicenterof the quake to assist the survivors, but had no money, no equipment, and noidea how they were going to pull it off," recalls Lucia, a new member of ourchurch and case manager for Vitas Hospice's West Region.
Lucia, a registered nurse with a Ph.D., medical anthropologist, and publichealth specialist, is president/executive director of the non-profit AmericanOverseas Medical Aid Association (aomaa.org). Organized in 1962 in Chicago,now based in L.A., the association provides direct aid, materials, and servicesto people in need, technical advice to local non-profit groups, and advocacyfor local professionals working to alleviate poverty and suffering in ruralareas in the U.S. and abroad.
In two days, Lucia and her board of directors raised $1,000, sent it to Indonesia,and then developed a network of organizations contributing small grants. Togetherwith Indonesian professionals, they organized a local non-profit, called IBU4Aceh."("Ibu" means "mother" so the name translates as "the mother who cares for Aceh.")
Cutting the road through to Meulaboh with the military, the medical team startedwork in an abandoned vocational school. "The 11 doctors and 39 other volunteershandled the dead and stitched up the living," says Lucia. They soon recruited120 more volunteers, including psychologists and teachers, to work with thechildren in six camps.
During 2005 the team saw nearly 25,000 medical patients and over 45,000 adultsand children for psychosocial services, health worker training, mother and childhealth fairs, and community events - all on less than $150,000.
So far in 2006, $144,000 has been raised. More money is needed to continuethese programs and to build a maternal and child health center.
Lucia grew up in Alabama, Texas, California, Okinawa, and the Philippines.Her father taught flying. He was one of the first Air Force fighter pilots tofly F-100s over the Pacific Rim after WWII. "Part of my history and commitmentto social justice comes from exposure to these social environments and diversepeople," she believes.
"I have a three-track career: clinical nursing, public health research andnon-profit work, and academic research and teaching." She is Adjunct Professorof Anthropology at Cal State University Fresno, where she presented the DistinguishedLecture for 2006 on April 27, speaking about local responses to emergenciesand disasters, and to the grassroots partnerships that may enable people indeveloping countries and rural areas to help themselves.
A divorced mother of four grown children, two sons and two daughters, Luciamoved here in 2002 and is now looking for a research position at UCLA or Rand,"hoping to settle down, and slowly working on my nurse practitioner license."She is artistic, a metalsmith and jeweler working as technical advisor on themovie, "Nefertiti." She is working on a book on healthcare and aging in America,and loves to garden.
"$o Much to Do, $o Little Time" Silent Auction Raises $5,000
In the spring of2005 we were facing a budgetary crisis. During a town hall meeting about ourbudget, Leslie Reuter proposed launching an entirely new fund-raising effortwith the goal of adding $5,000 to the funds for our church's 2005-2006 operationsbudget.
After the summer Leslie started recruiting volunteers and considering how theauction should be organized. Ideas were drawn from the following UU churches:UU Fellowship of San Dieguito (in Solana Beach), Orange Coast UU Church, UnitarianSociety of Santa Barbara, and the UU Church of Studio City.
From November through March, Leslie and cochair Kathy Cook solicited donationsfor sale, developed ideas for the fundraising event, solicited donations ofgoods and services, planned the auction, arranged the items for sale, createdthe many gift baskets, prepared the bid sheets, and worked to recruit a largegroup of people to help with the actual auction.
The auction was held the last weekend of March, with a clearance of leftoveritems the following two weeks. The auction was a great success. Over 57 memberswere successful bidders, with many more participating by donating gift items,services, and gift certificates, as well as by buying the fair trade coffee,tea, and cocoa, the UU impulse items, craft items, snacks and lunches, and posters.We received 26 donated services and enough gift items to create 97 gift baskets.The church office donated a table, an entertainment center, and a TV. Sevenart works were donated and two craftspeople shared the proceeds from their wares- Jacki Paddock offered jewelry and Myra Wald offered crocheted hats. Therewere a total of 136 auction items resulting in a net sale just over $5,100.
More than 40 volunteers helped Leslie with this fundraising effort. They are(in no particular order): Kathy Cook (a special thanks to Kathy for being thecochair), Charles Haskell, Christine Haskell, Katie Malich, Lisa Fischer, DianeBrooks Ludowitz, Keith Ludowitz, Sandra Trutt, Karen Patch, Rich Cook, MarvPulliam, Myra Wald, Jacki Paddock, Julie Gilliam, Margot Page, Melinda Ewen,Sherry Handa, Rhonda Turner, Bayard Storey, Nels Hansen, Amy Lacombe, Lucy Lacombe,Katie Gross, Carey Gross, Clayton Coleman, Greg Coleman, Ron Crane, John Fels,Gerrie Lambson, Audrey Lyness, Marge Zifferblatt and her daughter Ellen Stuart,Rob Briner, Helen Burns, Joanie Wilk, Jerry and Sue Moore (thanks for the pens),Betty Grant, Carol-jean Teuffel, Carol Kerr, Ofelia Lachtman, Marie Kashmer-Stiebing, and Jim Cadwell. Leslie extends her apologies to anyone whose nameshe may have inadvertently omitted.
Leslie hoped the fundraiser would involve the church as a community, and shewas gratified to see so many members contributing in so many ways. Thanks toeveryone.
- Charles Haskell and Leslie Reuter
General Assembly will Wrestle with Pacifism vs. Pragmatism
Condemnation of the war in Iraq is not particularly controversial among UUs.But how about our attack on Afghanistan?
It seems that the plenary session debate this June at the UUA General Assemblyin St. Louis may be between the pacifists and the pragmatists. These are thelabels being attached in the lively e-mail discussions taking place prior toGA.
This is the first year there have been serious online discussions before GA,maybe because it's an issue on which there is disagreement. It used to be thata few congregations would have meetings to discuss the GA resolutions, but mostdidn't. Now interested individuals don't have to search for people in theirown church who want to talk about the issues; they just go on line and joinone of the many discussion groups.
GA resolutions don't generally stir much controversy beyond the wordsmithingthat goes into drafting resolutions. After all, most UUs advocate stem cellresearch, prison reform, and support for farm workers, and are concerned aboutglobal warming. But, although we have found no controversy in advocating peace,we do differ on whether there is such a thing as a just war.
This year's proposed study issue is: "Should the Unitarian Universalist Associationreject the use of any and all kinds of violence and war to resolve disputesbetween peoples and nations and adopt a principle of seeking just peace throughnonviolent means?"
This study item asks us to go beyond simply supporting good things as mostpast items have. It is proposing we seek answers to questions like these: Shouldwe adopt a specific and detailed "just war" policy to guide our witness, advocacy,and social justice efforts? Should we reject violence in any form?
To see all the proposed questions, go to page 4 at http://www.uua.org/ga/ga06/TentativeAgenda.pdf.If you would like to provide input, your delegates are Bonnie Brae, Judith Meyer,David Denton, Karen Patch, Amelia Harati, Jacki Paddock, Haley Paddock, MarvPulliam, and Carol Agate. Catherine Farmer will also be attending.
- Carol Agate
Annual Mother's Day Picnic is May 14 After Second Service
Whether you are a mom or just play one occasionally to your friends and lovedones, you are invited to celebrate the nurturer in each of us and sample deliciousvictuals made by your friends in the pews. Please join us for the second annualMother's Day potluck picnic in the blue bungalow yard on Sunday, May 14, afterthe second service.
We'll have a picnic - with balls, bubbles, and more for the little ones - andnice conversation with tables and chairs for the over 10 set. Everyone's invited.No need to RSVP. Just show up and bring something to share (or I'm sure we'llhave plenty in case you forget). We'll have plates, silverware and drinks forall.
If you would you like to help make this a memorable afternoon, please contactJacki Weber to volunteer to be a photographer, help with setupor clean up, bring juice boxes, waters or sodas, or be on the welcoming committee.Happy Mother's Day!
Appreciations
Shirlee Frank is moving to Atlanta after 40 years of membershipin our community. We say goodbye reluctantly, but with great appreciation forall that Shirlee has done. From 1966, when Shirlee was the program chair forSingletarians and arranged popular weekly speakers drawing more than 100 people,to providing workshops at de Benneville Pines, Shirlee has always found a wayto make a contribution. She dedicated herself to draft counseling during theVietnam War. She coordinated the exhibits on the Art Wall with the church office,wrote out hundreds of invitations and envelopes in her inimitable artistic handwriting,and was a founding member of the Poetry Group. Shirlee has also been activewith various fundraisers over the years, most recently with Dining for Dollars,for which she was, according to Helen Burns, "the best solicitor we ever had."
Frank Dorrel, veteran, activist, and member of our congregation,has made a full-time commitment to working for peace. As publisher of the book"Addicted to War," Frank has poured his heart and soul into the task of educatingand exhorting the public to the cause of peace.
Camp de Benneville Pines Offers Free Food and Lodging
Come join other UUs for a work party May 12 to 14 at Camp de Benneville Pines.There will be free lodging, food, and spa for participants. Please call JerryMoore to confirm your attendance and plan car pools.
Join in Honoring Ernie & Maggie at the June 11 Gay Pride Parade
On Sunday, June 11, Interweave will again march in the annual Gay Pride Paradein West Hollywood. We invite our friends and allies to join us.
As a special recognition to Rev. Ernie Pipes and Maggie Pipes, they will beour unit's Honored Supporters of Marriage Equality. They will ride in an openconvertible. We will march before, beside, and behind them wearing our distinctiveUUCCSM T-shirts. Join us so that our contingent honoring the first ministerin the area to perform gay marriages will impress the masses of parade and televisionviewers.
Contact the church office,Judy Federick or Ron Cranefor more information.
Thanks for Buying Cookies
During four Sundays in February and March our congregation purchased 212 boxesof Girl Scout cookies from four of our congregation's Girl Scouts. AngelicaJue, Rachel Moore, Rachael Dodd, and Rosy DePaul appreciate your support. Yourorders resulted in 21 boxes being donated to our church coffee hour supply.We all thank you for that.
Westside Food Bank received 17 boxes, Step Up on Second got 12. We hope yourfamily and friends enjoyed the rest. Your purchases from the tables set up bythe girls allowed them to sell cooperatively, rather than competitively. Theinteractions between sellers and buyers nurtured an important bond of communitybetween the girls who are growing up in our church with the adults and familieswho bought the cookies.
Thank you for being supportive of Girl Scouting, these young people and that"ol' sugar jones" that kicks in on Sunday mornings right after each service.We'll see you next year.
- Beth Rendeiro
Help Restart the Christian Fellowship
The UU Christian Fellowship in Santa Monica is no longer meeting. If you wouldlike to help them get started again, call Iris Jue.
Alison Kendall reported that the city has issued a statement of official action,which makes it possible for us to apply for building permits for phase one,moving the blue bungalow. We are required to continue the good neighbor policyand we already have a variance that allows us to provide off-site parking.
The board approved allocation of $34,800 for architectural services for phaseone. Alison estimated the cost of phase one between $350,000 and $400,000. Theboard approved making the chancel wheelchair accessible, and authorized proceedingwith the design of a ramp for that purpose.
Melinda Ewen, Church Administrator, reported that with ten new members andtwo deaths, church membership is now 460.
Charles Haskell reported that for the first time the Bylaws and Policies Committeehas no changes to present at the annual meeting, largely because of the manychanges last year.
Warren Mathews reported that Dining for Dollars earned over $25,000, $3,000over budget, and "$o much to do" earned over $5,000 and an additional $2,000from the donated art sale. Warren forecasts the yearend surplus will be over$40,000, primarily because of the successful pledge drive and higher interestrates on our investments.
Warren presented, and the board approved, the budget produced by the FinanceCommittee for presentation to the congregation at the annual congregationalmeeting.
For the nominating committee, Kathy Cook announced the slate of candidatesfor next year's board and nominating committee to be voted on at the congregationalmeeting on May 21. (See story on page 1.)
The Rev. Judith Meyer reported that the UUA Mid-Size Congregation workshopin Phoenix presented many useful ideas, especially information that can be usedby the Membership and Leadership Committee. Judith also reported that the LifespanRE Committee is developing a mission statement and beginning to explore possibleprograms.
Catherine Farmer, Director of Religious Education, reported that the Wednesdaynight Covenant Group will help plan and direct one or two activities each weekduring the May Art Intensive Month as their church service project. Judy Schonebaumwill be creating a music track for the second activity each week. Catherinealso reported that the Lifetime RE Children's Program visioning meetings providedbetter understanding of what works and many insights for new directions.
Steve Wight, Music Director, reported that the choir continues to grow, thoughthere still are too few men. Preparations continue for the Dining for Dollarsevent "Songs of Social Conscience" to be presented May 6. Peter van den Beemtis arranging the next Church Talent Sunday for June 6.
- Gerrie Lambson
The UUSC Human Rights Forum to Meet in Costa Mesa May 6
On Saturday, May 6, the OrangeCoast UU Church will host a UnitarianUniversalist Service Committee (UUSC) forum on "Human Rights Today: LaborRights, Water Rights, and Civil Liberties." Speakers will be:
Steve Rohde, attorney, past president ACLU: "Human Rightsand Presidential Powers"
Richard Gillock,Orange County ACLU, Coyotl Tezcalipoca,TonantzinCollective: "Labor Policies and Immigration"
Panel on Water Justice: Bill Lakin, BoardMember, UUSC, Southern California Unit; Chris Hill, civilengineer; Dorothy Green,Water Impact Network
Round Table on Women's Issues: Lucia Munoz,MIA (Mujeres Iniciando); Pat McCully, Circulo de Amigas
The Orange Coast UU Church is located at 1259 Victoria Street, Costa Mesa.The conference runs from 10 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. Attendance is $25 at the door,students $10, which includes lunch.
From OurDRE
Spring is here, and summer is right around the bend. Is it just me or has thisyear gone by incredibly quickly? How can it be May already? This is always thebusiest time of year for the RE program, when we're simultaneously wrappingup the year in our classrooms, putting together our Coming of Age and RE Sundayservices, recognizing the graduating high school seniors in a special BridgingCeremony, and planning and recruiting for our summer RE programs, as well ascreating the structure and vision for next year's RE program to be kicked offin September. Whew! That's a lot to have going on all at once, but I love beingpart of a church community that is so vibrant, so very active.
This month, though, in our children's RE program, we're taking a break fromall the busyness and will spend the full month doing our first-ever "Arts Intensive"program. Children will be invited to explore their spirituality through thearts in a variety of different ways with lots of options to choose from eachweek.
From May 7 to 21 kids in our elementary classes will come together in the bluebungalow to make wonderful art together with the help of UUCCSM's Wednesdaynight Covenant Group I and Judy Schonebaum, our children's choir director. Kidswill be invited to work with clay, create a canvas banner, make a wonderfulcollage, explore painting, or make a joyful noise together through song andrhythm. Choose one and stick with it for the month, or sample them all; themonth promises to be fun for everyone!
Then, on May 28th, we'll all work together on a very special surprise projectto be unveiled at our RE Sunday service in June. What will it be? The only wayto find out is to come on the 28th and take part!
A schedule for the month will be included in the Order of Service each weekduring the month, and will be mailed to all families with children in RE. We'realso looking for a few more people to sign up to assist for one Sunday eachduring the month. For more information or to volunteer, please contact me atCatherinedre@yahoo.com.
- Catherine Farmer,
Director of Religious Education
YRUU Service in April
On April 2, the members of the church high school group provided their annualservice.
Course Will Help People 21 to 35 Express What theyBelieve as UUs
What do you do once you say you're a UU? Talking about a non-creedal liberalreligion can be difficult, but it's worth the effort.
A four-week class will help you deepen your understanding of our faith andsharpen your ability to describe it to others. The focus of this curriculumis on practicing how and what to say in various settings when you might be calledupon to declare yourself religiously or illuminate some angle on this liberalreligious movement that has touched and changed so many lives for the better.Such moments are precious opportunities to shed light on your path and perhapsgrow a happy awareness in someone else about the rich "living tradition" weshare.
Too often in response to the question, "What do UUs believe?" we reply withthe negative: "We don't believe this. We don't believe that." There is muchwe do affirm and we need to be clear in espousing those affirmations. Many ofus struggle to adequately describe our religion to others.
This course provides inspiration and resources, plus the opportunity for meaningfulconnection to fellow young adult UUs. We will meet for four Sunday afternoonsat 4:30 p.m., from May 7 to June 4. (We will not meet on May 28.) CatherineFarmer will be facilitating. Please call her at the church office to sign up.Don't delay - the group is limited to the first 12 who sign up.
RE Star for May: Robert Simon
This month, we honor Robert Simon as our RE star. If you have attended thewinter pageant in the last several years, you have witnessed the processionof the three tiny wise men on their well-appointed camels. Now an annual attraction,the very first group of camels included Robert, in full camel regalia, gentlycarrying a young child "wise man" - not yet his own - on his shoulders. At thatsame pageant, he also read Langston Hughes' poem about the black Wise Man.
Several years ago Robert was approached about volunteering as an OWL teacher.(OWL is the Our Whole Lives sexuality education curriculum.) He said "yes" rightaway and traveled to Portland, OR, for the training. Since then, Robert hastaught OWL to at least eight different groups of children at all levels - kindergarten/1stgrade, 5th/6th grade, and 8th/9th grade. In 2003 Robert also served as an advisorin our 8th grade Coming of Age class, helping them to craft their credos anddiscover their identity as UUs.
In all that he does, Robert has been an incredibly warm and nurturing presencein our children's lives. His kind and gentle ways, his generous spirit, andhis love of children have endeared him to all who know him. Congratulations,Robert.