May-06

Month: 
May 2006
From Our Minister: 

Some of you may have noticed that there are some small changes in our serviceSunday mornings. We now hear announcements and introductions after the childrenleave. Choral introits sometimes are choral closings instead. These changesare an attempt to shorten the amount of time the children stay in the sanctuaryuntil they leave for religious exploration.

I hope these small changes will help children who are too young or too restlessto be able to sit still for very long. They cannot enjoy the sanctuary experienceif they are uncomfortable. Shortening the length of time in the sanctuary willalso allow teachers to have more time with their classes.

At the same time, I want to keep the simple rituals we practice together: ringingthe bowl, music and hymns, opening words, greetings, chalice lighting, and storyfor all ages - not to mention the very important offering of food for the WestsideFood Bank, a big favorite for the children. Appreciating community and the ritualswe share are part of what I want our children to learn when they are at church.I value the time they are with us in the service and hope that they will, too.Paying attention to their needs is one way of showing how much we value thepresence of our children.

Now - what can we do to encourage more people of all ages to attend our earlyservice?

- Judith Meyer

News & Announcements: 

Annual Mother's Day Picnic is May 14 After Second Service

Whether you are a mom or just play one occasionally to your friends and lovedones, you are invited to celebrate the nurturer in each of us and sample deliciousvictuals made by your friends in the pews. Please join us for the second annualMother's Day potluck picnic in the blue bungalow yard on Sunday, May 14, afterthe second service.

We'll have a picnic - with balls, bubbles, and more for the little ones - andnice conversation with tables and chairs for the over 10 set. Everyone's invited.No need to RSVP. Just show up and bring something to share (or I'm sure we'llhave plenty in case you forget). We'll have plates, silverware and drinks forall.

If you would you like to help make this a memorable afternoon, please contactJacki Weber to volunteer to be a photographer, help with setupor clean up, bring juice boxes, waters or sodas, or be on the welcoming committee.Happy Mother's Day!

 

Appreciations

Shirlee Frank is moving to Atlanta after 40 years of membershipin our community. We say goodbye reluctantly, but with great appreciation forall that Shirlee has done. From 1966, when Shirlee was the program chair forSingletarians and arranged popular weekly speakers drawing more than 100 people,to providing workshops at de Benneville Pines, Shirlee has always found a wayto make a contribution. She dedicated herself to draft counseling during theVietnam War. She coordinated the exhibits on the Art Wall with the church office,wrote out hundreds of invitations and envelopes in her inimitable artistic handwriting,and was a founding member of the Poetry Group. Shirlee has also been activewith various fundraisers over the years, most recently with Dining for Dollars,for which she was, according to Helen Burns, "the best solicitor we ever had."

Frank Dorrel, veteran, activist, and member of our congregation,has made a full-time commitment to working for peace. As publisher of the book"Addicted to War," Frank has poured his heart and soul into the task of educatingand exhorting the public to the cause of peace.

 

Camp de Benneville Pines Offers Free Food and Lodging

Come join other UUs for a work party May 12 to 14 at Camp de Benneville Pines.There will be free lodging, food, and spa for participants. Please call JerryMoore to confirm your attendance and plan car pools.

 

Join in Honoring Ernie & Maggie at the June 11 Gay Pride Parade

On Sunday, June 11, Interweave will again march in the annual Gay Pride Paradein West Hollywood. We invite our friends and allies to join us.

As a special recognition to Rev. Ernie Pipes and Maggie Pipes, they will beour unit's Honored Supporters of Marriage Equality. They will ride in an openconvertible. We will march before, beside, and behind them wearing our distinctiveUUCCSM T-shirts. Join us so that our contingent honoring the first ministerin the area to perform gay marriages will impress the masses of parade and televisionviewers.

Contact the church office,Judy Federick or Ron Cranefor more information.

 

Thanks for Buying Cookies

During four Sundays in February and March our congregation purchased 212 boxesof Girl Scout cookies from four of our congregation's Girl Scouts. AngelicaJue, Rachel Moore, Rachael Dodd, and Rosy DePaul appreciate your support. Yourorders resulted in 21 boxes being donated to our church coffee hour supply.We all thank you for that.

Westside Food Bank received 17 boxes, Step Up on Second got 12. We hope yourfamily and friends enjoyed the rest. Your purchases from the tables set up bythe girls allowed them to sell cooperatively, rather than competitively. Theinteractions between sellers and buyers nurtured an important bond of communitybetween the girls who are growing up in our church with the adults and familieswho bought the cookies.

Thank you for being supportive of Girl Scouting, these young people and that"ol' sugar jones" that kicks in on Sunday mornings right after each service.We'll see you next year.

- Beth Rendeiro

 

Help Restart the Christian Fellowship

The UU Christian Fellowship in Santa Monica is no longer meeting. If you wouldlike to help them get started again, call Iris Jue.

Splinters from the Board: 

Alison Kendall reported that the city has issued a statement of official action,which makes it possible for us to apply for building permits for phase one,moving the blue bungalow. We are required to continue the good neighbor policyand we already have a variance that allows us to provide off-site parking.

The board approved allocation of $34,800 for architectural services for phaseone. Alison estimated the cost of phase one between $350,000 and $400,000. Theboard approved making the chancel wheelchair accessible, and authorized proceedingwith the design of a ramp for that purpose.

Melinda Ewen, Church Administrator, reported that with ten new members andtwo deaths, church membership is now 460.

Charles Haskell reported that for the first time the Bylaws and Policies Committeehas no changes to present at the annual meeting, largely because of the manychanges last year.

Warren Mathews reported that Dining for Dollars earned over $25,000, $3,000over budget, and "$o much to do" earned over $5,000 and an additional $2,000from the donated art sale. Warren forecasts the yearend surplus will be over$40,000, primarily because of the successful pledge drive and higher interestrates on our investments.

Warren presented, and the board approved, the budget produced by the FinanceCommittee for presentation to the congregation at the annual congregationalmeeting.

For the nominating committee, Kathy Cook announced the slate of candidatesfor next year's board and nominating committee to be voted on at the congregationalmeeting on May 21. (See story on page 1.)

The Rev. Judith Meyer reported that the UUA Mid-Size Congregation workshopin Phoenix presented many useful ideas, especially information that can be usedby the Membership and Leadership Committee. Judith also reported that the LifespanRE Committee is developing a mission statement and beginning to explore possibleprograms.

Catherine Farmer, Director of Religious Education, reported that the Wednesdaynight Covenant Group will help plan and direct one or two activities each weekduring the May Art Intensive Month as their church service project. Judy Schonebaumwill be creating a music track for the second activity each week. Catherinealso reported that the Lifetime RE Children's Program visioning meetings providedbetter understanding of what works and many insights for new directions.

Steve Wight, Music Director, reported that the choir continues to grow, thoughthere still are too few men. Preparations continue for the Dining for Dollarsevent "Songs of Social Conscience" to be presented May 6. Peter van den Beemtis arranging the next Church Talent Sunday for June 6.

- Gerrie Lambson

Other UU News & Events: 

The UUSC Human Rights Forum to Meet in Costa Mesa May 6

On Saturday, May 6, the OrangeCoast UU Church will host a UnitarianUniversalist Service Committee (UUSC) forum on "Human Rights Today: LaborRights, Water Rights, and Civil Liberties." Speakers will be:

Steve Rohde, attorney, past president ACLU: "Human Rightsand Presidential Powers"
Richard Gillock,Orange County ACLU, Coyotl Tezcalipoca,TonantzinCollective: "Labor Policies and Immigration"
Panel on Water Justice: Bill Lakin, BoardMember, UUSC, Southern California Unit; Chris Hill, civilengineer; Dorothy Green,Water Impact Network
Round Table on Women's Issues: Lucia Munoz,MIA (Mujeres Iniciando); Pat McCully, Circulo de Amigas

The Orange Coast UU Church is located at 1259 Victoria Street, Costa Mesa.The conference runs from 10 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. Attendance is $25 at the door,students $10, which includes lunch.

RE News: 

From OurDRE

Spring is here, and summer is right around the bend. Is it just me or has thisyear gone by incredibly quickly? How can it be May already? This is always thebusiest time of year for the RE program, when we're simultaneously wrappingup the year in our classrooms, putting together our Coming of Age and RE Sundayservices, recognizing the graduating high school seniors in a special BridgingCeremony, and planning and recruiting for our summer RE programs, as well ascreating the structure and vision for next year's RE program to be kicked offin September. Whew! That's a lot to have going on all at once, but I love beingpart of a church community that is so vibrant, so very active.

This month, though, in our children's RE program, we're taking a break fromall the busyness and will spend the full month doing our first-ever "Arts Intensive"program. Children will be invited to explore their spirituality through thearts in a variety of different ways with lots of options to choose from eachweek.

From May 7 to 21 kids in our elementary classes will come together in the bluebungalow to make wonderful art together with the help of UUCCSM's Wednesdaynight Covenant Group I and Judy Schonebaum, our children's choir director. Kidswill be invited to work with clay, create a canvas banner, make a wonderfulcollage, explore painting, or make a joyful noise together through song andrhythm. Choose one and stick with it for the month, or sample them all; themonth promises to be fun for everyone!

Then, on May 28th, we'll all work together on a very special surprise projectto be unveiled at our RE Sunday service in June. What will it be? The only wayto find out is to come on the 28th and take part!

A schedule for the month will be included in the Order of Service each weekduring the month, and will be mailed to all families with children in RE. We'realso looking for a few more people to sign up to assist for one Sunday eachduring the month. For more information or to volunteer, please contact me atCatherinedre@yahoo.com.

- Catherine Farmer,
Director of Religious Education

 

YRUU Service in April

On April 2, the members of the church high school group provided their annualservice.

 

Course Will Help People 21 to 35 Express What theyBelieve as UUs

What do you do once you say you're a UU? Talking about a non-creedal liberalreligion can be difficult, but it's worth the effort.

A four-week class will help you deepen your understanding of our faith andsharpen your ability to describe it to others. The focus of this curriculumis on practicing how and what to say in various settings when you might be calledupon to declare yourself religiously or illuminate some angle on this liberalreligious movement that has touched and changed so many lives for the better.Such moments are precious opportunities to shed light on your path and perhapsgrow a happy awareness in someone else about the rich "living tradition" weshare.

Too often in response to the question, "What do UUs believe?" we reply withthe negative: "We don't believe this. We don't believe that." There is muchwe do affirm and we need to be clear in espousing those affirmations. Many ofus struggle to adequately describe our religion to others.

This course provides inspiration and resources, plus the opportunity for meaningfulconnection to fellow young adult UUs. We will meet for four Sunday afternoonsat 4:30 p.m., from May 7 to June 4. (We will not meet on May 28.) CatherineFarmer will be facilitating. Please call her at the church office to sign up.Don't delay - the group is limited to the first 12 who sign up.

 

RE Star for May: Robert Simon

This month, we honor Robert Simon as our RE star. If you have attended thewinter pageant in the last several years, you have witnessed the processionof the three tiny wise men on their well-appointed camels. Now an annual attraction,the very first group of camels included Robert, in full camel regalia, gentlycarrying a young child "wise man" - not yet his own - on his shoulders. At thatsame pageant, he also read Langston Hughes' poem about the black Wise Man.

Several years ago Robert was approached about volunteering as an OWL teacher.(OWL is the Our Whole Lives sexuality education curriculum.) He said "yes" rightaway and traveled to Portland, OR, for the training. Since then, Robert hastaught OWL to at least eight different groups of children at all levels - kindergarten/1stgrade, 5th/6th grade, and 8th/9th grade. In 2003 Robert also served as an advisorin our 8th grade Coming of Age class, helping them to craft their credos anddiscover their identity as UUs.

In all that he does, Robert has been an incredibly warm and nurturing presencein our children's lives. His kind and gentle ways, his generous spirit, andhis love of children have endeared him to all who know him. Congratulations,Robert.