Mar-05
By now most of you have received our new church directory. It is mailed toeveryone who participates in our church community. If you look at each entry,you will see that everyone has a "status code": member, partner of member, non-member,friend, guest religious education parent. There is a lot of variety.
Our community welcomes all levels of participation. We recognize that peopleaffiliate with the church in different ways. We encourage people to take theirtime before joining. People report that they feel a deeper level of commitmentto the church after taking that step.
Sometimes people don't know whether they are members or not. Some folks havebeen attending the church for years, raising their children in the religiouseducation program, giving financial support, and they assume that all this makesthem members. Other people move here from other Unitarian Universalist congregationsand assume that their membership travels with them. But these assumptions aremistaken.
We don't make any assumptions about your level of commitment - we are gratefulfor your participation, whatever it is. But only you can decide to be a memberof our church. You might take a moment to check your directory listing and seeif your "status code" is what you think it is. If you're not listed as a member,I invite you to become one. Just speak to the volunteer at the membership centerin Forbes Hall on Sunday morning, come to our Newcomer Orientation gatheringthe first Sunday of the month, or speak to any member of our church staff tostart the process.
When you become a member of our church, you deepen your commitment to our faithtradition and the people who share it. That's a positive benefit for you andyour family. But there are other benefits as well. We need you. Our UnitarianUniversalist community needs the strength that comes from people who will standup and be counted. The world needs more Unitarian Universalists. It needs peoplewho are willing to be known by our faith. It needs each and every one of you.If you haven't already done so, I invite you to join us.
-- Judith Meyer
We need your help. Once in a lifetime, the opportunity presents itself to participatein something that makes the world a better place. A better place for now. Abetter place for the future.
Our capital campaign is in the beginning stage.
We are on our way to completing the funding to have a larger sanctuary, safeand adequate room for our kids, a lovely building and grounds.
UUs are renowned for their service to the community. Now is the time to providethat well-known service to our own community.
In the course of the capital campaign, more than 100 people will provide volunteerservice to make the campaign a success.
The campaign will need luncheon organizers, writers, stuffers, canvassers,designers, music makers, teachers, talkers, givers of time and money and hardworkers who share a desire to complete our building program.
Volunteer. It's what we do.
-- Ron Crane, Capital Campaign chair
New Telephone Outreach Program Will Connect Members One on One
If you don't have a lot of extra time, but would like to make a differencein someone's life, we have a new program you'll want to hear about. Can youspare half an hour each week?
Starting now, UUCCSM is recruiting members of our congregation to do telephoneoutreach to other UUs in our congregation who would welcome and benefit fromyour calls. The calls can be made on a day and time you reach by mutual agreement.The goal of the program is to enhance connection to the church community forour members who live alone, or are socially isolated or frail.
Soon there will be an initial two-hour training session for callers, and monthlyfollow-up sessions will monitor the program's progress.To learn more about becominga volunteer, please call Anita Brenner. We look forward to hearing from you.
An Invitation to Everyone from Small Group Ministry
A warm welcome to explore our Small Group Ministry is extended to each long-timemember, newcomer, and visitor. In the Small Group Ministry, souls are fed throughpersonal connections. An empty chair in the circle symbolizes a place for othersto join. Personal sharing is the process. Members of these small groups practicethe art of being present: breathing, listening, and just witnessing withoutjudgment. Being present provides the opportunity to understand oneself and othersby willingly working through conflicts and building relationships.
In this circle members who struggle to articulate their truth in their ownexperience and to trust an environment of acceptance, often have powerful insights.In the words of Robert M. Pirsig, "The place to improve the world is first inone's own heart and head and hands."
The current groups are growing roots; there is strong bonding, a high levelof member participation, and deeper exploration in the fifth month of meetings.
The Small Group Ministry is growing. Our minister will lead training in Marchfor eight facilitators, which will add at least two new groups in April andthen again in September, if all goes as planned. The Covenant Group ImplementationTeam is planning material to add to the actively-visited church website, consideringa permanent place in Forbes Hall for a display of photos and informational brochures,and polishing the resource guide and policy manual for future planners.
Valuable learning continues for everyone. There is pride, excitement, and hopeabout Small Group Ministry and what it can mean for individuals and the largerchurch community. This is an inclusive program where everyone is invited toshare in the expansion of our lives and what it means to be human.
Please visit the information table after Sunday services, during coffee hour.
- Carol-jean Teuffel
At the Newsletter Meeting, a Passion for Punctuation
What do your newsletter volunteers discuss when they get together for theirsemi-annual face-to-face meeting? They eat, introduce new volunteers, and reviewworkflow. But would you believe that the largest part of the February meetingwas taken up talking about punctuation - that these were not just intellectualconversations, but volunteers passionately taking sides of arguments?
Would you think that an em-dash - dash the length of an "m" setting off a parentheticalremark in a sentence, versus en-dash - used for numbers (3-5) but also createdautomatically when doing a space dash space in Microsoft Word - discussion wouldbring on equally vigorous loyalty from a majority of the writers, editors, anddesigners in the group? There was a clear split between those whose backgroundwas academia and those who worked in publishing. The decision was tabled fornow.
And it didn't stop with a dash. Other topics of passionate discussion includedwhether the hour of the day should be written 7 a.m., 7 am, 7 A.M., or 7 AM.One person opted for 7:00 a.m. And should our surrounding city be written asLA, which everybody says, but is also the abbreviation for Louisiana, or L.A.,which is an easily defensible standard? A corollary to the arguments was thatremoving the periods would make the line cleaner and free up valuable line space.The periods stayed in.
One of the designers was a passionate advocate for the academic style versusthe newspaper style. She brought down the house when she offered to trade AMfor an em-dash without spaces.
There was also a line drawn, and sides taken, on how to identify titles ofbooks, movies, etc. The book world italicizes books and movies; the newspaperworld uses quotes, always. There was one unanimous agreement though - no underlining(it's so typewriter). Final verdict: you will see quotes around titles fromnow on.
The nice part of this discussion was that it was full of laughter, becauseeveryone knew that though these things ARE important, they are not world- orchurchchanging. Carol Agate, the newsletter coordinator, commented that laughterwas not as large a part of other meetings she attends.
Whether you, the reader, know it or not, there is a payoff for you, too. Writers,editors and designers want the general reader to read an article and not bedistracted by word and punctuation confusions and inconsistencies. There isserious interest in making sure you can focus on content.
So twice a year you'll find the writers, editors, and designers laughing atthe serious job of making your reading of the newsletter easier. The other 363days the conversation continues electronically across the Internet.
- Nels Hanson
March Work Party is Cancelled
The March work party has been canceled to accommodate the Focus Group meetingon March 19. Please see the announcement elsewhere in the newsletter. And, markyour calendar to attend the April 16 church work party. Call Marie at at thechurch office to RSVP.
Appreciations
Paula Bernstein, for writing feature articles about our membersfor this newsletter; Jim Cadwell, Bob Dietz,and Karen Patch, for serving as chaperones for our Coming ofAge and YRUU groups' field trip to Rockreation; Gerrie Lambsonfor organizing another successful "Undie Sunday" this year; Diana Spears,for creating the holiday arts sale, which benefited the church and showcasedmany of our artist members.
- Judith Meyer
Betty McDonald Appreciation
On Sunday, January 23, Betty MacDonald was honored for her work with the UnitarianUniversalist Service Committee (UUSC). UUSC President Charlie Clements is picturedhere (on the right) with Betty and her family.
At March 6 Congregational Meeting We'll Vote on Stefanie's Ordination
The church's board of directors has called a congregational meeting forSunday,March 6, at 10:30 a.m. for the purpose of voting on an ordination ofStefanie Etzbach-Dale in June. Please make every effort to attend the meeting,no matter which service you attend. Here is a message from Stefanie:
In the nine months following September 2003, the Unitarian Universalist Churchof Santa Monica, under the leadership of the Rev. Judith Meyer, embraced meas minister intern. During that time I was challenged to explore various aspectsof congregational life and church leadership in response to my own call to ministry.Since leaving, I have taken more classes, met with the Ministerial FellowshipCommittee, and set myself on the path of completing requirements for preliminaryfellowship and for graduation from Meadville Lombard Theological School thisJune. It has been a remarkable process, every step of the way, for which I feelincredibly grateful and indebted to so many wonderful people.
What strikes me most from this vantage point of nearing the end of my formaleducation and the entrance to active ministry is that my relationship with thiscongregation feels as vibrant as it ever did. Even as I have abided by the requirementto keep a professional distance, in my heart I continue to be 'in conversation'with this congregation. The relationship that began two years ago continuesto inform my growth in ministry, as I imagine it always will.
It is for this reason that I hope the members of this congregation will considerattending the special congregational meeting called on my behalf for March 6.During that meeting UUCCSM will have an opportunity to enter into the 350-year-oldUnitarian tradition of having individual congregations ordain ministers forliberal religious ministry. It is my hope that you will attend and participate,enhancing faith and service through the power of this convenanted community.
- In gratitude and with best wishes, Stefanie Etzbach-Dale
Our Building Project Application is Submitted to Santa Monica
By the time you read this, the Building Committee will have submitted our applicationto the City of Santa Monica for a conditional use permit to remodel and expandour classroom and office uses onto the adjacent lot at 1248 18th Street. Theuse permit will include permission to move the existing house about 14 feetcloser to 18th Street, and about five feet further from the side property line.A variance is also needed to allow most of the parking for the church expansionto be provided off site, including continuing use of the nearby parking garageduring Sunday services.
The city's review of the application will have comments by building, fire,transportation, and other staff; an analysis of potential impacts on historicresources from the project; preparation of a staff report, and scheduling ofreview by the Planning Commission, probably in late spring.
We will be holding a community meeting in March to explain the project to areaneighbors and to discuss any questions or concerns they have. Please contactAlison Kendall if you live in the neighborhood or want to help with this importantmeeting. The Capital Campaign Committee and Building Committee have begun towork to make sure we can raise the remaining money needed to undertake thisimportant project. Together, the two groups will be maintaining the "BuildingOur Dream" bulletin board in Forbes Hall to help people stay informed aboutour progress. Please stop by after Sunday services to look at the bulletin board.There is generally a member of one or both committees there to answer your questions.
With our architect, Ralph Mechur, we are beginning to prepare more detailedplans for the building project and to develop plans for structural, plumbing,and electrical systems. There are also several urgent repair projects to thesanctuary roof, electrical system, and front doors, which are likely to needattention before the building project begins. Rod Lane and Steve Paddock, BuildingCommittee members with extensive construction management experience, are workingwith Marie Kashmer-Stiebing, Church Administrator, to make sure these repairsare coordinated with the larger building project.
The committee has been working hard this month on ideas for the central courtyardand other open spaces, and on ways to unify our church campus and its varietyof architectural styles. Come check out the bulletin board and give us yourfeedback.
- Alison Kendall, Building Committee Chair
Peace Prevails at Our Town Hall Meeting
In addition to our annual issues election each September, Faith in Action (FIA)sponsors a town hall meeting each winter to review witness and advocacy materialsprovided on the web site of the Commissionon Social Witness of the Unitarian Universalist Association ). We also considerpossible mid-church-year corrections of our own social action priorities. Thisyear's town hall meeting was held February 13, with 25 people attending.
We briefly reviewed thedraft of the upcoming UUA Statement of Conscience on Criminal Justice and PenalReform. Next we discussed the 2004-2006 Study/Action Issue entitled Global Warming.We then reviewed five Actions of Immediate Witness that are available from theUUA:
1. The Alien Tort Claims Act and Accountability for Multinational Corporations
2. Electronic Voting
3. Iraq: Sovereignty, the UN, and Human Rights
4. Oppose Federal Marriage Amendment
5. Renew the Assault Weapons Ban
The meeting concluded with a straw vote to prioritize a list of "Big Issues"for FIA in the coming months. The number one issue related to peace and warin Iraq, with 64% of participants choosing this as one of their two most importantconcerns. This choice builds on our church's Statement of Conscience of November2002, as well as two of the current Actions of Immediate Witness (AIW#1 andAIW#3), and plans being developed by the UU Service Committee to highlight ourcountry's use of torture at Abu Ghraib and Guantanamo Bay. Based on this vote,the Peace Committee will resume meeting in March to develop a new peace agendafor our church.
Health care access reform was a close second to war in Iraq in this straw vote,with 56% of participants naming this as one of their top two issues. We planto use study and action materials on this topic from the UU Legislative MinistryCalifornia. Cathie Gentile will serve as our liaison to the UULM-Californiaand will be our local leader on this issue. An upcoming issue of the FIA Bulletinwill feature essays on health care reform written by members of our congregation.
- Charles Haskell Chair, Faith in Action Commission
As chair of the Bylaws and Policies Committee, Charles Haskell presented proposedchanges in the bylaws. The board approved changes that affect the way it makesdecisions outside regular meetings, adding some sections and deleting others.The board approved a motion to recommend that the new draft of the bylaws bepresented for a congregational vote at the annual meeting in May.
Other issues under study by the Bylaws and Policies Committee include the board'srelationship to committees, participation by nonmembers in church governanceactivities, and the possibility of permitting proxy voting at church businessmeetings.
The Rev. Judith Meyer reported that she is working with Anita Brenner to organizea "Telephone Reassurance" program to recruit members to do telephone outreachto other members of the congregation who are socially isolated or frail. Judithand Anita are organizing program guidelines, training, and outreach to thosewho might participate in the program.
Catherine Farmer, director of religious education, reported that Principle3, acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations,will be the basis for all education and activities for the remainder of theRE school year. The Social Justice program has led to creation of 100 clay bowlsfor Souper Sunday, with the leadership of Margot Page, Ellen Levy, and JanetGoodwin.
Catherine also reported that the junior high Our Whole Lives (OWL) programis the largest this year, and the first offering of the senior high level isclose in numbers. There is also a junior high parent class. We are one of onlya few UU churches to offer all five programs from first through twelfth gradesand adult.
After tallying the number of members who have resigned or whose membershiphas lapsed, and the number of newcomers who have joined the church, AdministratorMarie Kashmer-Stiebing reported that the church membership is now 456. As ofthe end of January this year, we continued to operate with a deficit budget,but pledges are 97% collected to date.
Marie reported that there were leaks in the office after the last round ofstorms. It took the combined efforts of Jose Ruvalcaba, Alison Kendall, andStu Moore, working with Turk O'Conner, to solve the problem. Marie has askedthe Executive Committee and the Building Committee to suggest a strategy tosolve such problems more efficiently.
Steve Wight reported that the major musical events, except for Louis Durra'sjazz concert this month, are complete for this year, and the choir is workingon its Dining for Dollars event. Three new members joined the choir last month,and a professional guitarist, Pete Snell, will participate in the music program.
- Gerrie Lambson
Young People and Military Service are Topics for March 5 Workshop
A workshop for youth, young adults and their allies will explore the issuessurrounding military service on Saturday, March 5, 1:30-4:30 p.m.at the NeighborhoodUnitarian Universalist Church of Pasadena, 301 N. Orange Grove (corner ofWalnut), Room 23.
The meeting is sponsored by the Social Justice Advocacy Group and the ReligiousEducation Program of the UUAPacific Southwest District. The UUA's publication, "Informationon Military Service and Conscientious Objection" advises young people:
"Before you are required to register or enlist, take the time todevelop and thoroughly clarify your beliefs about war through reflection,study and conversation. You must reach your own conclusions based no yourmost central beliefs."
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March RE Star: Chris Brown
Chris Brown rocks! Haveyou seen his infamous rock star Halloween costume? Or perhaps been spooked byhim in the bloody tub in the Haunted House at the UNICEF carnival? This month'sRE shining star serves as one of the advisors of our highly successful YoungReligious Unitarian Universalist (YRUU) program.
RE parents marvel at the dedication of this non-parent, who does RE out ofa love for working with children and youth. Before settling in with YRUU, Christaught both pre-school and K