Jan-09
January may begin the calendaryear, but the churchyear began September 1with the beginning of the interimperiod. Each congregation has a unique experience ofinterim ministry. However, there are five specific goalsof the interim period that every congregation makes itsown. First, the congregation claims and honors itspast, and engages and acknowledges its griefs andconflicts. Second, the congregation recognizes itsunique identity and its strengths, needs, and challenges.Third, the congregation has a clear understandingof the appropriate leadership roles of minister,church staff, and lay leaders, and has successfully navigatedthe shifts in leadership that may accompanytimes of transition. Fourth, the congregation makesappropriate use of District, UUA, and other outsideresources. Fifth, the congregation is in proud possessionof a renewed vision and strong stewardship, preparedfor new growth and new professional leadership,ready to embrace the future with anticipation and zest.
An essential part of the interim period is the transitionteam. Our transition team was created by theboard of directors in the fall to help the congregation navigatethe two-year interim period so it will be wellprepared when your next settled minister is selected.The team's job is to make sure the tasks of the interimhappen, but not necessarily to be the ones makingthem happen. Transition team members are OfeliaLachtman, Robin Lowney-Lankton,Warren Mathews,Peter van den Beemt, and Linda van Ligten.
The transition team has noted the congregation ison a journey. History is part of your journey.Who youare depends so much upon where you have been as afaith community. I am hearing bits and pieces aboutthe legacies of your ministers emeriti. The naming of alegacy is part of your work during an interim time. Aspart of the first goal of honoring the past, I would liketo offer a session on January 25 after the 11 a.m. service.You will have the opportunity to set aside an hourto talk about the legacy of the Rev. Judith Meyer. Shehas been an important part of your religious journeyand naming a legacy now will help you as you begin tomove into the stage of asking what you want in yournext settled minister.
Blessings on our between time together,
- Roberta
A new year offers wondrousand auspicious time
It seems to me we've been in a bitof a malaise since about June of2008.While we've certainly beenworking hard, I don't think we'vebeen working very joyfully.
Yes, we've been grieving the loss of a long-settledminister; yes, we're facing an international economiccrisis; yes, yes, we've been in a bit of shock and trauma.
Now it is time to shift the momentum into addressingneed, caring, and action. In just the past threeweeks there is forward momentum in building a courtyard;budgeting and finance taking the current financialstate as something to be proactively addressed;becoming really welcoming to new and old members;fUUsion is a place to be; music is ever better and morediverse; a Caring Group is forming; Adult ReligiousEducation is back.We are awake and moving.
Sue Bickford summarized what has happened whenshe said: "We are the church"-not a building, not aminister-we are the church.
Religious Exploration is revisioning. The congregationneeds to begin revisioning-that's a single wordfor examining who we are, where we want to go, andhow we want to get there.
The process for searching for a settled ministerrequires that we evaluate what we are and what we arelooking for. Now is the time to begin. Rev. RobertaHaskin is experienced in this process. It is whatinterim ministers do. Let's get started.
As a small beginning on doing something different,the board is initiating "Second Sunday Supper" onSunday evening, January 11, at 6 p.m.We are all invitedto meet in Forbes. Remember, "We is us," as Pogo onceobserved.
Second Sunday Supper intends to bring us togethereach month to find community, give us opportunityfor cussing and discussing, become friends, and toconfirm, as always, that UUs do their best when well fed.
The board will provide a couple of main dishes. Youbring the rest: bread, vegetables, desserts, appetizers,vegan dishes, and a plastic covered bowl to take somehome if any remains.
Entertainment-maybe
Kids-oh yes
Conversation-endless
Laughter-required
Make Second Sunday Super a regular event on yourcalendar. Rumor has it that February will be turkeychili-and tofu, of course.
We have much to do.
For what we are and what we will become,
- Ron Crane
Wanted
WHO: You
WHAT: ComUUnity Greeter Program
WHEN: Each member/family volunteers to greet at oneSunday service a year
WHERE: The courtyard before church and the coffeehour after church
WHY: A friendly and welcoming community for ALL-visitors, newer members, and longtime members alike
HOW:
- 1. Sign up at the Greeters' Table beforeservices on Sunday or in the church officeanytime
- 2. Take written instructions and refrigeratorreminder of your time and date
- 3. Join Greeting Committee members atGreeters' Table before the service on yourassigned date and time
The CommUUnity Greeting Program resumes thisJanuary after a brief hiatus. The purpose of CommUUnityGreeting is to have each member/family/friendparticipate in our greeting program at least one Sundaya year. This investment of a mere hour or so a yearfrom each of us will help make this church truly welcomingand truly a community. The sign-up book willbe at the Greeters' table on Sunday mornings. You'llfind it in the church office after the 11 a.m. service andduring the weekRemember the first time you visited this church?
Remember the first person or persons who welcomedyou, who took the time to talk to you during the coffeehour, who told you about the church programs andactivities you joined and enjoyed? The CommUUnityGreeting Program gives you a chance to pay this welcomeforward to new visitors and friends. And, it hasthe extra bonus of weaving a stronger communitybetween all of us, longtime members and first-timevisitors alike.With our country and world poised withpromise and fraught with uncertainty, belonging to awelcoming, caring community is vitally important forall of us.
Our formal name is the Unitarian Universalist CommunityChurch of Santa Monica. The word communityhas 13 different definitions in my dictionary: a geographiccommunity, a voluntary group of individuals,a population sharing unifying characteristics or interests.The list goes on. But most of us are here forreasons that my dictionary did not list: A warm,welcoming, caring community. Meaningful servicesand sermons. A family place for children. A chance toparticipate in something special. A chance to give backto our church community and the community at large.Thus, the CommUUnity Greeting Program plays a vitalrole in strengthening our community.
Our consumer culture prompts us to look for"What's in it for me?" Twenty-first century life can beso stressful and harried that the thought of settingaside an hour to participate as a CommUUnity Greetermay seem daunting to overloaded multi-taskers. Anhour is actually just 1/8760 of a year. A small investmentof time. And a rich return on your investment.
If you're still wavering about signing up for oneSunday a year, perhaps UU science fiction writer KurtVonnegut, Jr., Stanford scholar Robert McAfee Brown,or the public radio program"Speaking of Faith" couldpersuade you.
"What should young people do with their livestoday? Many things, obviously. But the most daringthing is to create stable communities in which this terribledisease of loneliness can be cured," advised KurtVonnegut, Jr.
"How does one keep from 'growing old inside?'Surely only in community. The only way to makefriends with time is to stay friends with people. Takingcommunity seriously not only gives us the companionshipwe need, it also relieves us of the notion that weare indispensable," counseled Robert McAffee Brown.
"Religious institutions at their best," says KristaTippett, host of the public radio program Speaking ofFaith, are a "heart of community." Quaker authorParker Palmer, in his recent conversation with Tippett,spoke of "reweaving a knowing community of mutualaid, mutual knowing, mutual assistance which is initself the abundance [spiritual wealth] we seek.We arelooking for the type of abundance that comes fromknowing that we are willing to feed one another,knowing that we are in those generative relationshipsthat when you need my support I am able to offer it asbest as I can and when I need yours the same is trueof you."
- Katie Malich
Meet and Greet with Calvary Baptist Church
In an effort to reach out to other cultures, the Multi-Racial Development Committee arranged to meetfor dinner with four members of our neighborhoodchurch, Calvary Baptist on 20th Street in Santa Monica.Pastor HermanKemp and his wife Mayattended along with VictoriaJohnson andMartha Johnson.
From UUCCSM wereour own Rev. Robertaand Dennis Haskin,Edna and Phil Bonacich,who hosted the event attheir home, John Raiford,Rick Rhoads, Ron Francis,and Sandra Trutt.
It didn't take long forthe awkwardness of newacquaintances to wearoff, and we began sharingour life experiences.Rev. Kemp told a storythat occurred during hisreligious training whenhe and fellow divinitystudents were droppedoff in a different city,with no money, dressedas homeless people, and had to survive for two and ahalf days days until they were picked up. Pastor Kempsaid living this lifestyle for a few days gave him insightinto another world. He learned first hand how it felt tobe looked down upon, to beg for money to buy food,and to seek shelter from the cold.
Everyone shared times in their lives when they wereinexperienced and didstupid things, or survivedon very little but theirwits.
We felt like old friendsby the end of theevening. I shared ourefforts at making ourchurch more sustainableand the members fromCalvary Baptist wereeager to get more informationabout things theycould do.
Future contact withCalvary Baptist membersmay be when we bothparticipate in a treeplanting activity with theU.S. Forest Service in theSanta Monica Mountainsin March.
The Multi-RacialDevelopment Committeemeets the second Sundayof each month. Join us next time and participatein our attempts to get to know other faith congregationsin our area.
- Sandra Trutt
Oh, Christmas Tree!
The annual tree decorating in our sanctuary was led this year by the expert team of Hanson-Lisovsky.
Pictured (left to right) are: Nels Hanson, Hildreth Simmons, Lauren Way (center front), Alyssa Wood, Greg Wood, Sarah Sullivan, Brit Malpiede, Jennie Roberson, Alex Baker.
A Message from Our Treasurer
The church needs your help. To continue ourmission of helping our congregation and those in ourcommunity to find a spiritual home or charitable help,our finances will need a significant boost. The economyhas affected our pledge receipts this year, andnew pledges made for the 2009 calendar year, significantlyand adversely-as it has undoubtedly affectedyour budget as well. In fact, the church faces an anticipatedshortfall of $90,000 over the next twelve months,perhaps more, which could completely deplete ourunrestricted savings. Additionally, we will haveexpenses related to our settled minister in 2009 thatwould present an additional $30,000 in expenses. However,the church has fixed expenses that cannot easilybe cut without hurting church services and employeeand congregational morale alike, and the church is offinite resources.While we do have some emergencyfunds, it is our sincere hope that we do not need to tapour "life savings" to maintain our mission.
We want to bring better services to our congregation;we want to add to adult religious education; wewant to bring new social programs; we want to be yourresource for not only spiritual, but also social needs.However, we now find our church with a very leanbudget, and we need funds to maintain the status quo,let alone bring new and better services to our congregationand community.We pledge that as a church wewill invest into expanding our services to provide moreopportunities for you to explore, learn, and socialize ifwe do not have to commit those resources to meetingour operational budget. This will help our church grow,adding new members and adding new programs tohelp more people realize what it means to be a UU.These efforts and investments may help improve ourfinances down the road.
We hope that you can reach into your hearts to helpyour church and your friends achieve our mission ofhelping each of us explore our faith and providingmeaningful services to help those in our communitywho are truly in desperate need.Sincerely,
- Gene D Balas,Treasurer
Progress in 2009 Pledge Campaign
The economy is tanking. People are losing jobs.Retirement savings are shrinking. Given this background,the 2009 Pledge Campaign is not doing badly.As of December 9 we had 172 pledges, up from 120 lastyear on the same date. Total pledges were $240,123,versus $200,170 a year ago. Although among those whopledged this year and last, average pledges are down10%, we have heard that nationally church contributionsare down 15% to 25%, so we are doing well in arelative sort of way. Below is a picture of the brickswe've been using to symbolize the building of ourchurch community through pledges.
However, in absolute terms we are in trouble. Ourcurrent projections are that we will run a deficit of$90,000 this year, depleting our unrestricted (nonemergency)savings if we use this to make up thedeficit. The paradox is that a healthy vital church canbe especially important in difficult times. The churchprovides a supportive community. Church activities,such as musical and RE events, are low or no cost. And,we will soon be faced with the added expenses associatedwith a settled minister.
What I'm going to say now applies only to those ofus who are lucky enough to have not lost our jobs orwhose retirement savings have not been halved. Thechurch will not stay the same for very long as it is if wemaintain the same level of contributions as in the past.Borrowing from Dickens, picture some future Christmaswith a dingier, drabber church, with an unimpressiveRE program, a half-time minister, no musical programming,and an inadequate staff, which is less ableto contribute to the wider community. It's up to us.
- Phil BonacichChair, Stewardship Committee
Second Sunday Supper
January 11, 6:00 p.m.
Potluk in Forbes Hall; monthly on second Sundays.. Entree and drinks provided. (Jan. 11 - Turkey. Feb. 10 - Turkey chili. March 8 - Soup.)
Bring a dish of vegetables, bread, your speciality dessert...or just yourself for conversation, entertainment, laughter and food.
Times are hard and the UUs are a'eating. Join us each month.
Town Hall Meeting Guidelines
Town Hallmeeting guidelinesThe board has received many requests for Town Hallmeetings to occur next spring. In order to be fair to allgroups, the board has established a few guidelines:Place request at least one month in advance.Submit request to melinda@uusm.org.The board will consider your requests for approvaland placement on the church calendar.
Dining for Dollars Silent Auction is February 15 & 22
The Dining for Dollars committee has been working very hard toget some great events to be auctioned off during the last two Sundaysin February.
What about dining under a 300-year-old oak tree at the 1920's estatethat used to belong to Donald Douglas, founder of Douglas Aircraft?How about homemade ice cream and dessert wine?
Events include aWildflowerWalk; Scenes from an Italian Restaurant atthe church, hosted by the YRUU youth; Ladies' Night in a heated pool;Fresh Maine Lobsters, flown in live (tools, bibs, and know-how includedin the price); French, Sicilian, Thai, Mexican dinners; Vegetarian Brunch;Brunch at the Bel-Air Bay Club; Dinner at the Jonathan Club.We havethem all.
We will be publishing the list of all the events (date, place, host/hostess)in the February newsletter and in the February church announcements,so watch those spaces for further information.
- Melanie Sharp
New Class - UU 101 (Session A & B)
Thursday, January 29 and February 5, 7:00 p.m. in the Cottage
UU 101 is a new class for people who are interestedin membership or who want to get to know the churchand its people, culture, values and programs a bit better.When you register you are signing up for both Aand B sessions. Each session is an hour and a half, witha total commitment of three hours.
For details and registration, see http://archive.uusm.org/visitors/uu101.php. You can also sign up for theclasses in Forbes at the Ask Me station, or simply sendan e-mail to Marsha Smith to getthe class description and to register.UU101 is hosted by the Membership & LeadershipCommittee
Faith in Action Town Hall
Peacemaking: A Draft Statement of Conscience
The invasion and occupation of Iraq is going on sixyears in 2009. President-elect Barak Obama has todecide on a strategy for Afghanistan. How do we asUUs feel about pacifism versus a "just" war? How dowe practice "just" peacemaking?
Attend the FIA Town Hall meeting on January 11 tocontribute your thoughts and vote on the followingstatement of conscience:
Do we, the UUCCSM, covenant to take up peacemakingas part of our mission through worship, religiouseducation, and social action?
Please take a look at the UUA's website for the completetext of the proposed draft statement:http://www.uua.org/socialjustice/issuesprocess/currentissues/peacemaking/121606.shtml
In order for Peacemaking: A Draft Statement of Conscience to appear on the General Assembly (GA) 2009agenda, a 25% quorum of congregations is required.That is, 25% of all certified congregations must participatein the Congregational Poll. Let us fully participatein our democratic process by having our congregationalvoice heard. Handouts on the proposed statementwill be provided at the meeting.
- Cathie Gentile
Starting January 10 a new class is being offered. It iscalled "Low Carbon Diet." The four-session class willprovide a small group of four to eight people a plan forcarbon "weight loss" through a self-study guide.
This group is part of a challenge put forth by the UULegislative Ministry for UU congregations to lose onemillion pounds of carbon emissions before EarthDay,2009. To learn more about the program, go to http://uulmca.org/programs/climate_water/low_carbon_challenge.html. Here is an opportunity to learnways that will effectively lower your energy usage andsave pollutants from entering the environment. Enrollmentis limited. The small-group setting fosters aclose-knit unit in which to share your successes andchallenges. The class meets every other Saturday at 3p.m. in Room 4. Please contact Lindsay Pinkham tosign up or to get more information.
Home Energy Survey is Offered
Southern California Edison offers free customizedenergy reports. They have a 15-minute online survey at http://www.sce.com/survey or you can call for a copy to bemailed to you at (800) 278-8585. Southern CaliforniaEdison will provide you with a customized report identifyingopportunities for saving energy and money inyour home.
At the December 9 board meeting MarshaSmith, Membership & Leadership liaison,reported that with the death of MarionHolman, the resignation of Louise Rothman andLida Bogert, and the move of Liz Peterson and ErinTemple, church membership was reduced from 416to 411. However, with the reinstatement of KimO'Brien and John and Sharon Hart, as well as theaddition of new members Tom Early and BarbaraGibbs, church membership was at 415.
Treasurer Gene Balas reported that church expensesare exceeding income so far this year. He cautionedthat we may continue in deficit through the end ofthe fiscal year.
Marsha Smith also reviewed the procedure throughwhich newcomers to our church progress in thesteps toward membership. The committee is hostingthe "Stars" program, presented by Dennis Haskin, toimprove contact and welcome to newcomers. Theywill have a newcomer reception on January 10. Anew UU 101 class, facilitated by members of thecongregation and our minister, is being planned. Adraft of the proposed content of the courses was distributedfor review. The UU 101 course may be presentedseveral times a year.
Melinda Ewen, Director of Administration, reportedthat the Stewardship canvas is continuing to receivepledges, but that the amount pledged to date isabout $50,000 less than we expect to need for nextyear's budget.
Victor Paddock, Chair of the Personnel Committee,presented job descriptions for Choir Section Leaderand Office-RE Assistant. These were approved by theboard.
Tom Hamilton, Co-Chair of the New Building Committee,reviewed the status of the landscaping project,which is expected to be completed by the end ofthe first week in January. Planning for Forbes Hallrenovation will begin after the landscaping is finished.
Beth Rendeiro reported that a new ad hoc group willways to expand the electronic presence of thechurch via our website.
Committee Liaison Reports:
Kathy Cook, chair of the Bylaws and Policies Committee,asked that new members be appointed totheir committee.
Sandra Trutt reported that the Green Committee hastwo new environmental projects: providing solarcookers to a community in Africa, and providingCFLs (compact flourescent lightbulbs) to needy familiesin our community.
Beth Rendeiro reported for the RE Council that JackiWeber is a new member of their committee. Theyare working on a new visioning process that will bepresented in early 2009.
An item of new business was the decision that TownHall Meetings must be approved by the board atleast one month before the date of the meeting.Agendas for proposed Town Halls should be sent tomelinda@uusm.org.
The Rev. Roberta Haskin reported that she has beenmeeting with the transition team and other groupswithin the church to help the congregation recognizeits unique identity and its strengths, needs, andchallenges.
Catherine Farmer Loya, Director of Religious Education,expressed gratitude to all who had assisted ouryoung people in collecting warm clothes, blankets,and toiletries for the homeless teen program atCommon Ground.
Melinda reported that the New Building Projectreceived two $20,000 grant payments: one from theCity of Santa Monica and one from the UU SpiritLevel Foundation in San Diego.While these fundswere anticipated in our financial projections, it isnice to have them in hand.
- Geralyn Lambson
Members of the Unitarian Universalist Church ofArlington, Virginia, are opening their homes to fellowUUs from January 16 to 22 for lodging during President-elect Obama's inauguration. Accommodationsrange from sleeping on the sofa to a private room andbath, priced accordingly. All homes are convenientlylocated in the D.C. metro area (mainlyArlington/Alexandria/Fairfax, Virginia) and accessibleto the metro subway system. You don't have to missout on this exciting historical event. This is afundraiser for UUCA-all proceeds benefit thechurch. To request a reservation, pleasevisit www.uucava.org and click on "UUCAHosts4Change."
From Our DRE
What is the Religious Explorationprogramall about,anyway?We're nowhalfway through our church year;it's almost time for us to start planningfor the next one, and the RECouncil and I have some big questions for you.
Over the past couple of years we've been adjustingour programs and trying new things. I'm proud of theprogramwe're offering.We're asking the "big questions"-not because we think things aren't going well. Theyare. But it's important that we stay in touch with thewhole congregation's desires and dreams for our programs,and so we're coming to you to start the conversation.This is especially important as our congregationbegins to assess its overall identity and direction as partof our preparation for settling a newminister over thenext couple of years.
This spring we will embark on an RE visioningprocess that will help us determine, as a whole congregation,what our priorities and goals are for the childrenand youth of our UUCCSMfamily. Thismonth, on bothJanuary 11 and 25, there will be a short "REVisioning"survey in the order of service which we hope allmembersof our church will take the time to fill out.Whetheror not you're a parent or volunteer in the RE program,we need to hear fromyou.What are themost importantelements of our educationalministry to the youngestmembers of our community?Members of the RE Councilwill be on hand during coffee hour to take completedsurveys and talk with you about your responses.
Next, the RE Council and I invite you to join us onthe evening of Sunday, February 22, for a visioningmeeting for RE at UUCCSM.We'll provide dinner andchildcare if you'll show up to help us determine thefuture direction of our program. And then onMarch 22we'll share the results of our visioning with the wholecongregation at a Town Hallmeeting following the 11a.m. service.
What does REmean?
RE is where we create a community for our childrento explore our seven UU principles.
RE is a supportive, loving setting where children'sauthentic selves are nurtured and celebrated.RE is a community where our children can be safeand have fun.
RE is_______________________.
What does REmean to you?
Share your vision this spring, and help us turn themeaning into action.
- Catherine Farmer Loya
The Louis Durra Trio forsakes its recent genre-hoppingexplorations to play a concert of straight-aheadjazz. Find out and hear what that sounds like. It'salways awesome. January 18, 7 p.m. in the sanctuary.Champagne reception follows. $10 suggested donation.
Watch out for the upcoming early choir Sunday. Ourdevoted choir members and section leaders will sing at9 a.m. instead of 11 a.m. and our 11a.m. crowd willhear our guest musician. The very first one of these for2009 will be 9 a.m., January 25.
The Music Committee is launching a new series ofevents coordinated by VictorWylie. Folks are invited tocome together and play music. No rehearsal required.This will occur four times a year. Two will be for popularmusic and two for the classical repertoire. All arewelcome. Our first event will be all kinds of popularmusic on February 8, 4