Dec-05
Thank You! This will be the final material I prepare for the newsletter. Myweekend ministry concludes at the end of December. Thank you for welcoming Bettyand me into your congregation, into your lives, into your homes. A special "ThankYou!" to colleagues on the church staff; ministry shared is enriching for theminister and the congregation. A special word of appreciation to Rev. JudithMeyer for inviting me to be your minister while she has been on sabbatical leave.You are a great congregation. Thank you for our time together.
Christmas Eve Services (Volunteers needed) Following the usualpattern of this congregation we will have two services on Christmas Eve: Thefamily service will be at 6 p.m. and the candlelight service at 8 p.m. I understandmembers of the congregation frequently share in the leadership of the ChristmasEve services by doing readings. Please volunteer! I don't know who you are.
Christmas comes on Sunday this year. There will be only one service on ChristmasDay, at 10 a.m.
I stand corrected: In the sermon on November 13 I said that Mormons are requiredto tithe. Since the service I have learned I was wrong. The only requirementfor tithing in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is for thoseMormons who wish to become temple members; participants in local LDS congregationsare not required to tithe.
- Jim Grant
TOP, one of the newer acronyms at UUCCSM, stands for our Telephone OutreachProgram. This initiative is still in its infancy, but it shows great promise.
TOP callers make weekly phone calls, at times convenient to both parties, toassigned phone buddies. The buddies are church members who were initially contactedby the minister and who would like the friendliness and support of a weeklycall. Some of the buddies are shut-ins and are dealing with health issues, butsome simply look forward to a weekly call.
Each caller undergoes training beforehand by the TOP Committee headed by AnitaBrenner with the support of Michael Eselun. The committee meets monthly to ensurethat all phone buddies are receiving their calls and to answer question aboutthe process. New phone buddies are assigned to callers, if needed, at the meeting.
TOP is now actively looking for callers and also would like to know if thereare other church members who would like to receive a weekly call. As a caller,you will participate in shared ministry at our church; you will get to knowa fellow UU a little better and form a remote friendship with relatively littletime and effort. Calls are typically fifteen minutes long. As a recipient youknow that someone cares and is willing to listen, and you too will make a newconnection with someone from church. Our experience so far is that both partiesare enriched by the weekly calls.
Please contact Anita Brenner if you are interested in knowingmore about this new program at our church or if you would like to be a new recipientor caller.
- Lee Voegtlen and Marv Pulliam
Meet Our Congregation's Staff in This Major Transition Period
If you were at church on Sunday, November 6, and read the pink paper insertin your order of service, you learned that Marie Kashmer-Stiebing has resignedas our congregational administrator. Marie was our administrator for five years,working not only Monday through Friday, but also Sundays and sometimes officeSaturdays as well. There's nothing like realizing how much work someone doesonly after the person has left.
The work Marie did is now being spread between Melinda Ewen, whom you knowat church for many of her talents and often see standing under the "Ask Me"sign after Sunday services, and Chuck Craig, who came on board originally tohelp Warren Mathews with the financial tasks.
But we thought it would still be good to introduce, and re-introduce, our staffto the congregation. These are the people who keep the church running day today.
Chuck Craigstarted with the church at the end of July. With a willingness to jump in andhelp wherever he could, Chuck has also learned many of the administrative functionsin the office, including preparing announcements and the order of service, filing,and providing general office support. Chuck runs a food services business andcaters throughout the Los Angeles area. He lives in and loves Santa Monica,where he was born and grew up in the shadow of Pacific Ocean Park. He says ofour church that it is "an ideal church, a church that is open to everybody.
Melinda Ewen,who has an MBA, experience heading a non-profit, and, fortunately for the church,also some free time, will be working with Chuck over the next three months whilethe search committee looks for a new administrator. Besides helping with theday-to-day administration tasks, Melinda will analyze the tasks of the administratorand make recommendations on how to make the position fit into a 40-hour workweek .
The responsibility of the sextons is to keep the church clean and have roomsready for the various meetings and events at the church.
Kevin Rollermaintains the church during the week. Kevin has been our weekday sexton foralmost three years. He comes to the church after finishing work as a custodianat a middle school in Torrance (where he and his 15- year-old son live). Soft-spokenand friendly, Kevin has done a great job of making sure church activities andmeetings can function smoothly. He has recently taken on the role of maintainingsecurity at our church. You will also find Kevin making sure our fountain ispresentable, removing trash people throw in as well as cleaning out dead leaves.
Mark Dwyer,a friend of Kevin, started as our weekend sexton this summer after Jose Ruvalcabaresigned. On Sundays you will see Mark setting up tables, changing light bulbs,and making sure everything is in order for our Sunday activities. He is semiretiredand is overjoyed with the recent arrival of a second grandchild. He also findstime to play guitar. In the eighties, he was part of a production crew thatproduced albums for artists such as Bill Medley and Debbie Gibson. He is gladto be able to work in the welcoming environment of our church.
When you see these people, please say hello and thank them for the work theyare doing at our church.
- Nels Hanson
Small Group Ministry Conference Taught Us and Others the Program
A covenant group is a small relational group helping people to connect, engagein shared spirituality and draw newcomers in, giving them "a place at the table."Members become a lay ministry to one another through honoring and supportingone another, service, and joyful celebration of life.
On October 29 the UUA Pacific Southwest District presented, and our UU SmallGroup Ministry (SGM) members hosted, Dr. M'ellen Kennedy, who traveled fromVermont. She is the co-founder of the UU SGM Network. M'ellen is passionatein guiding this program's growth. Seventy-five people from San Diego, Sacramento,Santa Barbara, and beyond enjoyed a daylong instructional workshop for UU churchesstarting and nurturing covenant groups. Because a covenant group has a distinctpurpose and a unique structure, stressing support through deep respectful listening,it takes dialogue and practice to help a group to fully understand why and howto proceed.
M'ellen highlighted having a clear purpose, format, commitment to agreed-uponground rules, and shared leadership among all members. A cornerstone of a group'ssuccess is offering our love through service to our cogregation and larger community.
For the lunch break Step Up on Second provided our tasty lasagna lunch forenjoyment in our sunny garden area. Haley Paddock and her friend, Samantha,young people from our community, helped us serve.
Program members will continue to learn and support SGM. You are invited tojoin a future group, be a trained facilitator, and/or a part of the planningteam.
- Carol-jean Teuffel, for the SGM committee
Living Green is Possible Even at Christmas Time
As the holiday gift-giving season approaches, let's consider how to minimizeunnecessary trash and packaging.
- Use canvas totes for shopping and giving.
- Use crumpled-up newspaper instead of styrofoam peanuts when packaging boxesfor mailing.
- Make donations to your friend's or family member's favorite charity.
- Buy tickets to concerts, plays, or movies, to give as gifts.
- For church friends make a donation to the UUCCSM building fund or generaloperating fund in their honor or offer to buy them tickets for a Dining forDollars event.
- Buy consumables as gifts (i.e., food and drink) since they won't take upspace or end up in a landfill.
- Stock up on patternless wrapping paper and coordinating ribbon in colorsthat will work year round.
- Make the holidays more meaningful. Give the life-changing gift of an animalin honor of a friend or loved one. Contact Heifer International at catalog.heifer.org.
- Sandra Trutt
The Louis Durra Trio Jazz Concert Did It Again
Louis Durra's enjoyable jazz concert took place on November 6, at 7 p.m. Complementedby Larry Steen on bass and Jerry Kalaf on drums, and on several numbers by vocalistJulie Millet, Louis explored various moods and rhythms for a solid 75 minutes-whichis a generous set at such a high level of musicianship. The 40 people in theaudience were thoroughly entertained.
The Music Committee sponsors four Louis Durra concerts per year, which areexceptional opportunities for church members and the public to hear first classlive jazz-for the very modest admission of $10.
Next month will mark the five-year anniversary of Louis as our pianist/organist.When he started, he was introduced as a graduate of the prestigious BerkleeCollege of Music and the San Francisco Conservatory of Music, and already hadtelevision and theatrical credits. Louis' next concert in the Sanctuary willbe on Sunday, January 22, at 7 p.m. Mark your calendar and invite your friends.
- Rob Briner
Appreciation
For collating the Sunday Order of Service we thank: Irene Hollandand Gist Lavoie, who have retired after many years on the job;Peggy Butler, Michael Young, and AnneMacQueen, who continue; and our new volunteers, Ellen Boag,Helen Brown, and Serena Shames. We are alsofortunate to have Anne serving as coordinator of office volunteers.
Christmas Notices
- Christmas eve, December 24, UCLA parking will be available from 5 to 10p.m.
- There will be only one service on December 25, at 10 a.m.
- The church office will be closed for the holidays on Monday, December 26and January 2.
Holiday Children's Events
Toy Drive
On Sundays, December 4 and 11, we'll be collecting toys for the Santa MonicaHead Start program's holiday party. This year, we need a total of 30 unisexgifts for three-to-five-year-olds that are new, unopened, and unwrapped. Dropthem off in the "Head Start" box at the foot of the Arizona entrance stairs.This year, we're taking signups so we know how many gifts to expect. Pleasesign up on November 27 or December 4 at the RE table in Forbes Hall during coffeehour, or contact Catherine Farmer.
Holiday Cookie Bake
All are invited to the Holiday Cookie Bake on Saturday, December 3, from 2to 4 p.m. in Forbes Hall. Bring an uncooked batch of cookies and we'll bakeand decorate cookies together-and sample afew. Then we'll pack up our cookiesto be sent to the Santa Monica Head Start Christmas party. Bring cookie cutters,cookie sheets, rolling pins, aprons, and your batch of cookie dough. Bring thewhole family. To RSVP, or for more information, contact Catherine Farmer.
Pay Your Pledge the Easy Way
Would you like your pledge payments to be taken directly from your bank account?Contact Warren Mathews or Carol Agate to getthe forms you can fill out authorizing the deductions.
There's Still Time to Offer a Meal for the Dining for Dollars Auction
Tantalizing, tasty, toothsome treats to tempt your taste buds have been tenderedby generous members and friends of the church for the Dining for Dollars SilentAuction slated for February 19 and 26. There are 67 contributors to date.
Offers are still being accepted for this auction, which generates income forthe church general fund and fosters community among church members and friends.
To donate, or for more information, call Helen Burns, ShirleeFrank, Sue Moore or Sandra Trutt.
It's Winter and Time Again to Bring Undies to Church
The first two Sundays in January are "Undy Sundays," when we collect new underwearfor the homeless and abused people in Santa Monica. These contributions areappreciated by those agencies that provide cleanliness and shelter to thosein need. If you come across a great sale during your holiday shopping, buy somethingfor this part of our community service. We collect underwear for both gendersand all ages and sizes.
Ponchos for the Homeless
Cold, wet weather is coming soon and many homeless people are going to be verywet unless we act to help them in their time of need. Stop by the Faith in Actiontable and donate $3 or more for the purchase of one or more ponchos for thehomeless. The ponchos will be given to local social service agencies for distribution.For further information contact Charles Haskell or SylviaBerke.
Visit the Faith in Action Corner Now Set Up in Forbes Hall
The table on the southeast corner of Forbes Hall has been the physical homebase for social justice work in our church for many years. Over the years, thetable and its bulletin board fell on hard times. The table was frequently litteredwith fliers, pamphlets, program announcements and trash that had nothing todo with Faith in Action. The table was hard to move and it diminished floorspace in Forbes Hall when the area was used for functions unrelated to socialaction.
Consequently,the Faith in Action Commission, with concurrence from the Board of Directors,removed the table and bulletin board from Forbes Hall on November 12. The bulletinboard has been replaced with a small, portable bulletin board, and a portabletable will be used and stored away after use each Sunday.
The new look for the Faith in Action corner of Forbes Hall is shown in thephotograph. We look forward to letting you know about our social justice work,to give you opportunities for expressing your opinions about social justicematters by signing petitions, and to attract volunteers to provide food forour monthly dinners at Step Up on Second and thrice yearly dinners at TurningPoint.
We invite you to stop by the table, meet our Faith in Action volunteers, andfind out more about our work. Most of the time Lyn Armondo,Cathie Gentile or Marge Zifferblatt will beat the table, but other volunteers will serve as well. We hope you like thesechanges and that you'll give us feedback about how we can further improve howwe function.
- Charles Haskell, Chair, Faith in Action Commission
At the meeting on November 8, Charles Haskell proposed on behalf of the Bylawsand Policies Committee that participation in governance committees be limitedto members only. (Non-members may attend congregational meetings, but only membersmay vote.) The board approved it.
Carol Kerr has reported to the congregation that Ryan Dinkane began work asoffice assistant on October 25, and has the ongoing support of Warren Mathewsand Chuck Craig.
Melinda Ewen, interim administrator, expressed appreciation for Warren's helpin getting her up to date. She is writing instructions for tasks as she learnsto do them. She said the Administration Committee has helped create a temporaryBuilding and Grounds Committee, which so far has one member, S.J. Guidotti,so the sextons have knowledgeable people they can contact. Melinda continuesthe search for volunteers to staff the office on Sunday. She reported churchmembership now stands at 463.
An Office Administrator Search Committee has been created. Proposed membersare John Fels, Personnel Committee; Melanie Sharp, Administration Committee;Charles Haskell, and Marv Pulliam.
The board agreed that the charge of the Search Committee should be to add upto three people to their committee, define the scope of the search, schedulea town hall meeting, recommend the salary range, post positions, design theinterview process, conduct preliminary interviews, coordinate with the Rev.Judith Meyer, and recommend the candidate to the board.
Charles Haskell reported that the Faith in Action program continues to supportthe hunger and the civil liberties projects and added the health insurance projectat the congregational meeting. Materials to describe these programs appear onthe church web site.
Warren Mathews reported that budgetary effects of the resignation of MarieKashmer-Stiebing and hiring Ryan Dinkane as a permanent assistant as well asa temporary assistant amount to a wash in the office staffing costs. Investmentincome is up, and expenditures will be reduced because the new administratorwill not be eligible for a pension in the first year. PSWD fair share is lessthan expected and pledge receipts are tracking the budget. The surplus is greaterthan expected.
Catherine Farmer, Director of Religious Exploration, reported that the OWL(Our Whole Lives) program will be presented at the start of the new year. TheK-1 group will meet on Sundays from 10:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. The 5th and 6thgrade sessions will continue in the afternoon.
Our church hosted a successful Regional Campus Ministry Training on October14 and 15. Catherine is remaining as a contact and to support a group that isforming at UCLA.
- Gerrie Lambson 2005
Please wear white if possible - and dress for the weather. There will alsobe a free party for participants after the event, with donations accepted tobenefit the ArtistSalon's non-profit programming. The party will be held from5:00 p.m.-2:00 a.m. at CLUB 740, 740 South Broadway, L.A. 90014, and will includea complimentary buffet, film screenings and poetry readings. For more informationon both events, see ArtistSalon.com.
A Little Bit of Money Can Go a Long Way When Pooled Through Chalice Lighters
Would you like to contribute to the larger Unitarian Universalist community?Here's an easy way to be a participant in the growth of other UU churches. ChaliceLighters is a Pacific Southwest District organization that raises money to giveto churches for growth projects. There are three "calls" a year, each one askingfor $20 or more. That means a total commitment each year of $60.
That doesn't seem like much money, but it does grow. There are about 8000 membersof district churches. There are now 484 members of Chalice Lighters. If everyonegave $20 that would be close to $10,000. The actual amount is closer to $12,000because there are some who give more than $20. If everyone in the district joined,we would be able to give $160,000 to district churches for growth projects.That's a nice dream, but Chalice Lighters is growing and this small donationfrom you will help it continue to grow.
It's easy to participate. Just send a check for $20 to PSWD Chalice Lighters,12355 Moorpark St., Studio City, CA 91604. Your donation will go to the GranitePeak UU Congregation in Prescott, AZ. They have been operating without a classroombuilding, and will use the money for a modular building to house its religiouseducation classes.
When you send your check, you will be added to the mailing list. You will besent a notice for each call, explaining what church it is designated for andwhat the project is. And if our congregation has 10% participation, we may requesta grant ourselves. For more information, contact Carol Agate.
From the Desk of the DRE
Hurry, hurry, hurry! The holidays are almost upon us, it's almost the end ofthe year, and there's so much to get done, there's no time to sit around doingnothing.
Don't we all feel this way sometimes? Our pageant this year, in fact, featuressomeone like that, someone who was so busy with little things that she missedout on something big. I'm certainly guilty of "busy-think" myself, especiallythis year for some reason. And it's an exhausting way to live.
So I'm taking some time this month to take a few deep breaths, literally andfiguratively, and remember how to slow down, how to appreciate the time thatI have. (And our friend Befana will make some discoveries of her own in ourholiday pageant in a few weeks.) A lovely poem by Gunilla Norris that I encounteredrecently speaks of each moment as a threshold moment, in an unending seriesof moments. Norris writes, "Help me appreciate how awesome this is/ How manyare the chances to be really alive/ . . . to be aware of the enormous dimensionwe live within." Yes! We are engaged, in every moment, in the act of becoming-whatwill we choose to be? How will this moment help us become who we will be tomorrow?May we not be so focused on what is coming that we forget that the only opportunityfor action comes in the present, moment by moment, as it arrives.
May we all find much time for joy (and rest) in this holiday season.
- Catherine Farmer
Friendly Beasts Information is Updated
The Friendly Beasts, preschoolers through fifth graders, will continue theirrehearsals of "The Friendly Beasts Song" for the holiday pageant, which willoccur December 18 at both services. The rehearsal schedule:
Dec. 4: K
