Order of Service, March 6, 2016 "Graying Gracefully"

Date of Service: 
March 6, 2016
 
 
    March 6, 2016                                                                                                      Mortality: The Practice of Being Alive
 
How does one keep from growing old inside? Surely, only in community.
- Robert McAfee Brown
 
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*Gathering Hymn                                       Gracias por el amor                                                  arr. William James Ross
                                                                      Gracias por el amor del cielo, gracias por el inmenso mar,
                                                                      Gracias por el cantar del bosque. ¡Aleluya!
                                                                      Gracias por este nuevo día, gracias por nuestra gran unión,
                                                                      Gracias por todas las bondades. ¡Aleluya!
 
Prelude                                                         Leading Pines, Chasing Fights                                                   Ned Durrett
 
Welcome
 
Opening Words                                          from Meditations on Women Who Do Too Much             Diane Ackerman
                                                                       I don’t want to get to the end of my life
                                                                       and find that I have lived just the length of it.
                                                                       I want to have lived the width of it, as well.
 
Chalice Lighting                                           YRUU Youth Group
 
*Opening Hymn                                          #34 Though I May Speak With Bravest Fire
 
*Covenant                                                    Love is the doctrine of this church.
                                                                       The quest for truth is its sacrament,
                                                                       And service is its prayer.
                                                                       To dwell together in peace,
                                                                       To seek knowledge in freedom,
                                                                       To serve humankind in fellowship,
                                                                       Thus do we covenant with each other.
 
*Hymn of Praise                                           From all that dwell below the skies
                                                                        Let songs of hope and faith arise
                                                                        Let peace, goodwill on earth be sung
                                                                        Through every land, by every tongue.
 
Offering for the Westside Food Bank
 
Time for All Ages                                         Pouring Ourselves Out                                           Rev. Tom Owen-Towle
 
Song of Blessing                                         This Little Light of Mine                                                                 Traditional
                                                                        This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine…
                                                                        Everywhere I go, I’m gonna let it shine...
 
Life Together
 
Offering                                                         Edgemont                                                                                        Ned Durrett
 
Devotional Time
 
Sung Response                                          #301 Touch the Earth, Reach the Sky
 
Reading                                                       Aging                                                                                              George Carlin
 
Music for the Morning                               What No One Seems to Know                                                      Ned Durrett
 
Sermon                                                       Graying Gracefully                                                      Rev. Tom Owen-Towle
 
*Closing Hymn                                          #23 Bring Many Names
 
*Benediction                                               To Live In This World                                                                     Mary Oliver
                                                                      To live in this world you must be able to do three things:
                                                                      To love what is mortal;
                                                                      to hold it against your bones knowing your own life depends on it;
                                                                      And, when the time comes to let it go,
                                                                      To let it go.
 
Musical Response                                     In Ronda                                                                                            Ned Durrett
 
*Please stand in body or in spirit
 
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Greeters:                                                       Tom Foretich, Barbara Gibbs & Denise Helton
Ushers:                                                         Steve DePaul, Tom Early, Linda Van Ligten & Greg Wood
Coffee:                                                          Deirdre Dietel, Peggy Rhoads, Kit Shaw & Alicia Van Ooyen
Bookstore:                                                   Mark Warkentin
 
Service Notes
 
Today 60% of our non-pledge offering will go to WISE and Healthy Aging, a multi-service,
non-profit organization serving older adults and their families and caregivers throughout Los Angeles
County. Headquartered in Santa Monica, WISE and Healthy Aging enhances the independence,
dignity, and quality of life of older adults through leadership, advocacy, and innovative services.
 
 
The Rev. Dr. Tom Owen-Towle, in his 75 th year, considers himself on the homestretch of life’s journey.
He has been a parish minister since 1967 and is the author of two dozen books on personal
relationships and spiritual growth. Tom and his life-partner, The Rev. Dr. Carolyn Sheets
Owen-Towle, are the active parents of four children and seven grandchildren. Tom is a guitarist and
parlor magician, who currently sings with seniors, mentors children and youth-at-risk, and volunteers
with San Diego’s homeless. Tom considers it a privilege and joy to return to our Santa Monica
congregation. He will have several of his books available for purchase, including HOMESTRETCH: The
Art of Finishing Life Well.
 
Ned Durrett is a lifelong Unitarian Universalist from South Carolina that grew up watching his mother
minister to congregations all over the Southeast. His southern roots can be found in his preacher’s
tongue and garage-party swagger, but it's the honest emotion pouring from every song that makes
every person he meets family and every place he plays home. More information about Ned Durrett
and his band, Ned and the Dirt, can be found at www.nedandthedirt.com. Please stop by the music
table in Forbes Hall after the service to take a look at Ned and the Dirt’s brand new EP and other
albums.