Order of Service - Feb. 25, 2018 "You Gotta Know When to Walk Away"

Date of Service: 
February 25, 2018
 
            February 25, 2018                                                                          “You Gotta Know When to Walk Away”
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*Gathering Hymn                                         #83 Winds Be Still
 
Call to Worship                                            Catherine Grasso                                                    Worship Associate
 
Chalice Lighting                                          “And Yet You Persist”           Rev. Gretchen Haley (for Elizabeth Warren)
 
Music for the Morning                                 Make Me A Blessing                                                    Kimberly Haynes
 
Welcome
 
*Opening Hymn                                           #86 Blessed Spirit of My Life
 
*Covenant                                                     Love is the doctrine of this church.
                                                                      The quest for truth is its sacrament,
                                                                       And service is its prayer.
                                                                       To dwell together in peace,
                                                                       To seek knowledge in freedom,
                                                                       To serve humankind in fellowship,
                                                                        Thus do we covenant with each other.
 
*Hymn of Praise                                              From all that dwell below the skies
                                                                        Let songs of hope and faith arise
                                                                        Let peace, goodwill on earth be sung
                                                                        Through every land, by every tongue.
 
Offering for the Westside Food Bank
 
Time for All Ages                                              “Answer Mountain”                                                   Sarah E. Skwire
 
*Song of Blessing                                              #210 Wade in the Water
 
Life Together
 
Pulpit Message
 
Offering
 
Offertory Anthem                                            Great Divide                                                           Kimberly Haynes
 
Devotional Time
 
Reading / Reflection                                     “Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear”                  Elizabeth Gilbert
 
Pastoral Prayer
 
Silence
 
Musical Response
 
Sermon                                                       You Gotta Know When to Walk Away         Rev. Kikanza Nuri-Robins
 
Musical Response
 
Going Deeper                                               “Perseverance”                                                        Margaret Wheatley
 
*Closing Hymn                                             #1015 I Know I Can
 
*Benediction
 
Musical Benediction
 
Invitation to Fellowship
 
*Please stand in body or in spirit
 
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Greeters:                         James Duckman (9am); Kirk Attebury, Michael Young & Steve Young (11am)
Ushers:                            Bonnie Brae & Peggy Kharraz (9am); Nina Emerson & Tom Foretich (11am)
Coffee:                             Sheila Bjornlie & Leah Moore (9am); Sylvia Young & Cathy Wolfson (11am)
Welcome Table:               Barbara Gibbs (9am); Carol Rig (11am)
Bookstore:                       Sarah Harper (9am & 11am)
 
Service Notes
 
Today, we share 40% of our offering with NAMI Westside Los Angeles.
 
NAMI (or the National Association of the Mentally Ill) is the nation’s largest grassroots mental health organization dedicated to building better lives for the millions of Americans affected by mental illness. NAMI advocates for access to services, treatment, supports and research and is steadfast in its commitment to raising awareness, removing the stigma and building a community of hope for all of those in need.
 
NAMI Westside Los Angeles is committed to improving the lives of families who love someone struggling with mental illness by educating, advocating, listening, learning and leading. Help us partner with those working to ensure hundreds of thousands of families, individuals and educators get the support and information they need.
 
About Guest Musician Kimberly Haynes: Despite limited exposure to art and music in the inner city where she was raised, Kimberly Haynes bravely followed a divinely inspired call to song. Her work is the reflection of a life woven from intense adversity and bountiful blessings, with her passion for sacred music from all over the world always guiding her. Kimberly emerged from the fire of personal challenges with her grace intact, allowing those experiences to deepen and enrich her song. With music as her prayer, her deepest desire is to be of service to the world, using art for the healing of humanity.
 
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Chalice Lighting                            "And Yet You Persist"                   Rev Gretchen Haley (For Elizabeth Warren)
     Though you have been warned
     And given plenty of explanations
     Reasons to do otherwise
     You have persisted
     To claim a life of joy, and justice
     To carve out this time
     This space for the renewal
     Of your own heart
     Despite all the reasons, the resistance
     Fighting for your attention, luring you towards fear
     You persist
     To practice gratitude
     For this day, this life
     That has been given
     This chance to begin again
     And so let us gather
     That we might
     Offer one another courage, strength
     Healing, hope
     And this promise to
     Persist in kindness,
     Persevere in compassion
     And
     Prevail in a life that is for more than ourselves
     Come, let us worship together
 
 
Reading / Reflection
You will fail. It sucks, and I hate to say it, but it’s true. You will take creative risks, and often they will not pan out. I once threw away an entire completed book because it didn’t work. I diligently finished the thing, but it really didn’t work, so I ended up throwing it away. (I don’t know why it didn’t work. How can I know? What am I, a book coroner? I have no certificate for the cause of death. The thing just didn’t work.)
 
It makes me sad when I fail. It disappoints me. Disappointment can make me feel disgusted with myself, or
surly toward others. By this point in my life, though I’ve learned how to navigate my own disappointment
without plummeting too far into death spirals of shame, rage or inertia. That’s because by this point in my
life, I have come to understand what part of me is suffering when I fail: It’s just my ego. Elizabeth Gilbert,
Big magic: creative living beyond fear
 
 
Going Deeper
Sometimes the best thing to do is just leave things alone. To stop manipulating interfering or pushing
things along with your own worn-out energy. This is the first step—withdrawing your energy from
forcing or cajoling. The next move is to change where you are, to stop looking at the situation from the
outside and to step into it as much as you can. From inside, a whole different territory is revealed.
If we take this approach, in every situation, we discover that the resources we need are already here. We
have more than enough to work with. It’s our task to notice this abundance, and then figure out how to
work with it appropriately. What’s possible, now?
Margaret Wheatley, Perseverance
 
 
For what does Life call you to persist, in spite of the struggle or pain?
From what is it time to walk away? Is it time to pivot? Is it perhaps, an opportunity to embrace something else?