From Our Minister Archive
Start with the Step You Don't Want to Take
Hope Calls Us On!
In my sixth year of settled ministry with our congregation, we have walked together through a time of new possibilities, difficult challenges, and change and transition at 18th and Arizona. Last June, we welcomed Nica Eaton-Guinn as our part-time Summer Minister while the congregation sent me on a three-month maternity leave to welcome my son Benjamin to the world. Nica’s leadership in membership development, right relations, and worship arts were a particular gift of her summer with us.
I returned in late August to launch our church year with joyful, festive Ingathering services on the theme of spiritual journeys. The Committee on Ministry and I also completed the year-long preparations that had gone into planning my sabbatical, which began on September 28. While on sabbatical, I spent more time with my growing family, traveled to Yosemite and San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, and practiced the art of neighborliness in new and life-giving ways. Many thanks to Rev. Tera Little for her skillful ministry as our part-time Acting Minister during my sabbatical, including continuing to support our leadership in conflict management, pastoral care, and offering creative and inspiring worship services.
Since my return to full-time ministry in January, I have worked closely with our Board of Directors and Committee on Ministry to lead a process to better understand and clarify our congregation’s significant concerns about leadership, ministry, and our future together.
This spring and summer, we will celebrate two long-time and treasured staff members, DeReau Farrar and Catherine Farmer Loya, and mark the completion of their time with us. Before we send Catherine to the Tennessee Valley UU Church in Knoxville, TN, and DeReau to First Unitarian Church in Portland, OR, we will have time to share our appreciation for all they have given us, and the strong programs and ministries in religious education and music they are leaving with us now. It has truly been an honor to work with DeReau and Catherine, and I will miss them greatly. The Personnel Committee and I have begun to search for new staff to lead these vibrant parts of our congregation’s ministry.
It was a delight to officiate for the wedding of Leslie Beauvais and Ed Brand this year, where we sang together the words of Kate Wolf’s song, “Give yourself to love…” as Ed and Leslie gave themselves to their joyful partnership. We remember and are grateful for the lives of those we lost this year: Jessica Fant-Chapin, Ralph Meyer, and Dave Hallinan.
I thank you for your commitment to the practice of sharing our non-pledge offering each Sunday with organizations that do what we cannot do on our own. From July 1 to April 24, we gave away 60% of that non-pledge offering, to date over $11,000, to organizations such as Clergy and Laity United for Economic Justice (CLUELA), Step Up on Second, Camp de Benneville Pines, Community Services Unlimited of South Los Angeles (CSU), OPCC (Ocean Park Community Center), Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA), UU James Reeb Fund for Multicultural Ministries and Leadership and Black Lives of UU, Westside Food Bank, and WISE and Healthy Aging.
As we walk together into the future, and the vital, difficult work of building right relationship among us, I hope we will be guided by our covenant with one another, and with the larger faith we serve. In the words of my colleague Kendyl Gibbons:
Words and deeds of those before us
Waken here to keep us strong
Blend our voices with the chorus
Of creation’s living song
Courage bids us lift our eyes
Upward to the shining skies…
Hope calls us on!
In faith,
— Rev. Rebecca
This column is adapted from the Report on Ministry in our Annual Report.
For Our Church and for the Earth: A Time for Honesty, Integrity, and Wisdom
For Such a Time as This: A Sermon on Congregational Conflict
Sunday Sermon delivered on March 20, 2016
BENEDICTION
Traveler, there is no road. We make the road by walking.
— Antonio Machado
Speak Up About Our Church’s Finances and Future
Step up to the microphone this month to bring alive our 5th principle, which affirms the use of the democratic process within our congregations. It’s time to use our power and voice to shape the decisions that affect our spiritual home!
This month we will gather on February 14 after the second service for a special Congregational Meeting on our church finances. At this meeting, your Board of Directors and Committee on Money will present a series of congregational resolutions on our finances to ensure the best care for our spiritual home today and for generations to come. I hope you will come and help your leaders conclude this collaborative, multi-year effort with your voice and your vote.
One week later, from February 20 to February 22, we will gather again, this time in small groups of 8 to 10, for Congregational Conversations. Your Committee on Ministry and Board of Directors have invited our UUA District Staff to convene a series of special focus groups to better understand the passions and interests that inspire elders, adults, young adults, and youth in our congregation, and to better hear and begin to heal our disappointments and wounds as well. Come connect with new friends or say hello to familiar faces. You can sign up at church or by email to committeeonministry@ uusm.org for your hour-long conversation in sessions held at the church from 9 am to 12:30 pm and 1:15 to 3:30 pm on Saturday, February 20; 1 pm to 4:30 pm on Sunday, February 21; or 5 pm to 7:15 pm on Monday, February 22. Please bring your children, who are invited to spend the session in special activities with our caring childcare staff. For the Conversations to be as helpful as possible, we hope to hear from as many members and friends of our congregation as we can. If you are very active in leadership in our church, we need you. If you are less active or new to our congregation, we need you. Your voice is vital to the success of our Congregational Conversations and will significantly shape our future together.
The Committee on Ministry has set a goal of filling all 200 spots in our focus groups and we’d be glad to add more! If you know that you will not be able to attend any group in the times available, please contact committeeonministry@uusm.org and we will set up a one-on-one conversation with our trained UUA facilitators.
Tell your neighbors, tell your friends: at 18th and Arizona, it’s time to step up to the microphone and participate in the decisions that affect our spiritual home. It’s time to lift every voice — and let our community SING!
Much heart,
Rev. Rebecca
Thank You for This Gift:
Thank you for the gift of this sabbatical season in our shared ministry.
Thank you for this gift of rest
from the intensity of spiritual leadership in our vibrant congregation.
Thank you for this gift of renewal
that has led me more deeply into practices of reading and writing that
nourish me.
Thank you for this gift of presence, the ability to be more present
with my family, especially with my husband
and our six-year-old, three-year-old, and six-month old children in this
season of growth in our lives. T
hank you for this gift of neighborliness,
when I have had more space and time to lift my eyes
from my own narrow path,
and reach out to others.
Thank you, thank you.
I have missed you and your faces filling the pews, and your voices lifted
up in song.
I have missed you especially in these days and weeks
when the news is bad,
the days are short,
and the nights are long.
I am so grateful to you and Rev. Tera and our leaders
for your determination
to shine a light on injustice in our city,
to shine a light
on vulnerability, trust, courage, and vision
in building our shared future,
to shine a light
on music and teaching and arts and worship
on the gifts we share:
joy, peace, hope in the struggle.
It is good to be among you again
With you on the threshold of a new year
as we walk together
on the path of growth and courage.
With a full heart,
Rev. Rebecca
P.S.: I’m looking forward to reconnecting with you. Please catch up with me at minister@uusm.org or at church at (310) 829-5436 x104. Starting this month, I’ll be experimenting with a new work schedule by being in the office Monday through Wednesday, and reserving Thursday to focus on worship. Friday will be my day off. You can also make an appointment to see me by emailing Nurit at admin@uusm.org
From Our Sabbatical Minister:
— Rev. Tera Little
From Our Sabbatical Minister: A Radical Gratitude
A few weeks ago I bought a new journal. I love the feeling of possibility that comes from those fresh, clean, blank pages. The cover of the journal says “In everything, give thanks.”
I was drawn to that. I love the idea of living into a deep gratitude. But as I reflected on it, that notion “In everything, give thanks,” seems incredibly naive. Each week the headlines we live with are filled with more harm done to the planet and her people.
• Mass shootings
• Deaths in the Middle East
• The California drought
I picked up that blue and red notebook, with those hopeful words, and wondered, How to give thanks in the midst of this?
We come to this congregation to talk about tough stuff. You may have wandered in because your heart breaks for our planet. Because you long for a place to belong. Because you need to know that how you live your life makes a difference.
Unitarian Universalism isn’t an easy religion. Yes, we offer a wide embrace of liberal theological beliefs. Yes, we offer a wide welcome to all who honor the worth and dignity of every being. But we ask our members to take a radical stance, one that isn’t so easy if you are paying attention. We ask you to look squarely in the face of injustices of this world—and find a way to give thanks.
Re-connecting with a sense of gratitude can help us move forward when times are tough. When it seems like we cannot possibly hear about one more shooting. One more animal going extinct. One more person diagnosed with a life-threatening illness.
Part of the work we do together at UU Santa Monica is find ways to connect with gratitude in our lives. To meet the struggles of the day with a sense of hope. To remind each other that though the arc of the universe is long, is does indeed bend toward justice.
May you find multiple ways to express your gratitude for each other, and for UU Santa Monica, in the coming days.
Yours, for a time,
Rev. Tera Little
FROM OUR SABBATICAL MINISTER
“In the Shelter of Our Sukkah”
For a few months, you and I will be building a sukkah of sorts. A physical sukkah is connected with the Jewish holiday of Sukkot, a harvest festival that begins the evening of September 27 this year. The sukkah is a temporary shelter, covered with bamboo, branches, and palm leaves. It has three walls made of canvas or other material. The fourth wall is left open as a doorway. Jewish practice calls for eating and sleeping in the sukkah, as often as possible, during the seven day festival. This temporary shelter is lovingly decorated with lights, fabrics, and images of the harvest. At the end of the festival, the sukkah is dismantled, some bits stored for next year and others given back to the earth. For fun, you can Google “sukkah” and see many beautiful examples. An image of our family sukkah from last year is included here.
Growth, Outreach, and Covenant: Key Areas of Ministry for Our Congregation
It’s wonderful to be back at home with you. Thank you again for your support as we spent the last three months welcoming our son Benjamin to the world. It has been a beautiful time of growth for him and our family, as we get used to being a family of five, and as he gets used to smiling, nursing, getting baths, getting his diaper changed, and taking naps. I’m especially grateful to the Rev. Eaton-Guinn, our Summer Minister, and to our Committee on Ministry and Board of Directors, for their care and leadership that enabled so many vital projects in membership, governance, and right relations to go forward during my family leave.
As I return to full-time ministry from August 25 to September 30, it will be our challenge and opportunity to catch up with one another while also preparing to say goodbye again on October 1, when my three-month sabbatical begins. As you know, our congregation has a long history of sending its minsters on sabbatical. Both the Rev. Ernie Pipes and the Rev. Judith Meyer were able to go on sabbatical, and many of our leaders remember fondly both the sabbatical ministers who served during those special times, as well as the stories and experiences Rev. Pipes and Rev. Meyer brought back upon their return.
Unlike family leave, the sabbatical is a time dedicated to your minister’s spiritual renewal, rest, and rejuvenation. Like Rev. Pipes and Rev. Meyer before me, I plan to soak in this special time by pursuing study, reflection, contemplation, and action that is not possible when I am present in full time congregational ministry. Possible sabbatical projects may include close reading of texts in UU and wisdom traditions, an extended writing project, travel in the Pacific Southwest with and without my family, and deepening my connections with some of our community partners such as OPCC and CLUE-Los Angeles. Several years ago I realized that growth, outreach, and covenant are key areas of ministry for our congregation, and I am grateful for the opportunity to pursue these interests. I look forward to returning to the congregation on January 5, 2016, with new perspectives on our life together, as well as a renewed connection to the sources of my own spiritual leadership and courage. Thank you for the gift of this special time, and for your generous investment in your minister’s ongoing education and spiritual development.
While I am on sabbatical, I am delighted that the Rev. Tera Little will serve as our part-time Acting Minister. She will partner with our Board of Directors and the Committee on Ministry to ensure that the important ongoing ministry of the congregation continues uninterrupted, and even deepens with new leadership from your Acting Minister, staff and volunteers. From August 25 to September 30, please write to me at minister@uusm.org or call me at (310) 829-5436 x104. I look forward to connecting and reconnecting with you all. I’ve missed you and our vibrant spiritual home at 18th and Arizona.
With love,
— Rev. Rebecca