From Our Minister Archive

Sep 2006

Our new program, LifespanReligious Exploration forAdults, begins thismonth. After nearly a year of shaping our mission,gathering a committee, recruiting leaders,and reviewing curricula, we have our first offeringsfor you. Here are some highlights of coursesto begin in late September and into the fall:

Jun 2006

We'vehad a year of transitions, with changes inour office staff, a substituteminister for four months during my sabbatical,and now some significant changes in our Board ofDirectors. Throughout this time the congregationhas held steady and strong. Much credit should goto our outgoing leadership for all they have contributed.

Carol Kerr has concluded three years of service aspresident. She has done an extraordinary job, leadingus through the purchase of the house next door,the sale of the 17th Street property, and receivingthe large estate gift from Earl Morgan - tasks thatmight have overwhelmed anybody other than a brilliantbusiness lawyer, but luckily for us, that's whatCarol is. With her legal experience and willingnessto give us hours of her time, we sailed through thesetransactions. Carol has led the board and our congregationwith her sharp mind, her good heart, andher keen sense of humor. I'm looking forward to herongoing contribution as past president.

With Carol serving for three years, Jerry Gates hasbeen our longest-tenured past president. We haveall marveled as he has navigated not only manyfreeways but also many airports to come to ourmeetings, fitting board service into his busy schedule.

Somehow church work cannot be quite as compellingas saving the world from AIDS, but Jerry hasalways made important contributions to our communityin many ways. I have valued his commonsense, his independent thinking, and his loyalty toour church.

We also say goodbye to board members CarolAgate and Daniel Teplitz. Carol is stepping down totake up other church activities - and we knowshe'll find them, fortunately for us. Daniel Teplitz isleaving for college. Daniel's Tuesday nights with theboard must have been late ones, as he juggledhomework, college applications, and music with hischurch commitments.

We now have an excellent new president, CharlesHaskell, new board members Bronwen Jones, PhyllisKory, Dayla McDonald, and Pat Parkerton returningfor service, with many challenges and opportunitiesahead of us. As we go forward, we will continue tobenefit from the generous contributions of our pastleaders.

Be sure to thank them when you see them atchurch.

- Judith Meyer

May 2006

Some of you may have noticed that there are some small changes in our serviceSunday mornings. We now hear announcements and introductions after the childrenleave. Choral introits sometimes are choral closings instead. These changesare an attempt to shorten the amount of time the children stay in the sanctuaryuntil they leave for religious exploration.

I hope these small changes will help children who are too young or too restlessto be able to sit still for very long. They cannot enjoy the sanctuary experienceif they are uncomfortable. Shortening the length of time in the sanctuary willalso allow teachers to have more time with their classes.

At the same time, I want to keep the simple rituals we practice together: ringingthe bowl, music and hymns, opening words, greetings, chalice lighting, and storyfor all ages - not to mention the very important offering of food for the WestsideFood Bank, a big favorite for the children. Appreciating community and the ritualswe share are part of what I want our children to learn when they are at church.I value the time they are with us in the service and hope that they will, too.Paying attention to their needs is one way of showing how much we value thepresence of our children.

Now - what can we do to encourage more people of all ages to attend our earlyservice?

- Judith Meyer

Apr 2006

Thanks to the thirty people who attended the visioning meeting on LifespanReligious Exploration for adults. We generated many ideas and identified somepotential leaders and facilitators. We also learned that there are diverse needsfor adult programming in our congregation, not all of which may be part of LifespanRE, but which we should make sure we offer one way or another.

Lifespan RE covers the area of faith development, UU history and values, spiritualpractices, and education about other religions as well as our own. Finding waysto cover these topics in gatherings that are easy to attend is one prioritywe took from the meeting. There were others as well.

We heard that there is a need to create programming for new members, to introducethem thoroughly to our UU history, values, and institutions. The need is notsimply to educate newcomers, but to provide them with welcoming experiencesto become part of our community. Happily, our new Membership and LeadershipCommittee is looking at this need as well, so I am confident we will addressit soon.

And people expressed a desire for social programs, not necessarily ones havingto do with faith development, but with fun and intellectual activity. Tripsto arts events, current events discussions, and cooking classes were all mentionedduring our brainstorming session. It seems to me that we need a group to stepforward and take on this gap in our programming as well.

Our church serves many needs: some of them for religious exploration, othersfor service, community building, and friendship. They are all connected, ofcourse. But each deserves focused and committed leadership. What can you doto help?

-- Judith Meyer

Mar 2006

While a federal judge listened to arguments about the constitutionality ofdeath by lethal injection in San Jose, a group of religious leaders gatheredon the steps of St. Monica's Catholic church for a press conference. Nearlya dozen Roman Catholic nuns, two rabbis, a Methodist minister, an Episcopalpriest, and four Unitarian Universalist ministers (Ernie Pipes, Stefanie Etzbach-Dale,Paul Sawyer, and me) gathered to speak out against the death penalty. We choseSt. Monica's for our location because it is the church that Governor ArnoldSchwarzenegger attends.

The testimony was instructive and moving. Rabbi Neil Comess-Daniels of BethShir Sholom gave an erudite interpretation of Jewish tradition and the deathpenalty, emphasizing how rarely - if ever - it was intended to be carried out.One of the strongest voices was that of a 94-year-old nun.

As always, I came away from the interfaith gathering inspired and uplifted.There was only one problem with it. No press came. The entire event, which hadbeen carefully planned and coordinated by a professional with the Archdioceseof Los Angeles, was preempted by a "breaking news" story downtown and nobodymade it out to Santa Monica to hear us.

One good thing did happen. We may have had nothing to do with it, but the federaljudge did order that the next execution, scheduled for February 21, be carriedout in the presence of a medical professional, so that the prisoner, MichaelMorales, would not suffer from pain. It's a small step forward but it givesme hope. And I will keep speaking out against the death penalty, even if noone is there to listen.

- Judith Meyer

On Mother's Day (Sunday, May 14) our service will look at the experience ofadoption and celebrate what makes a family. If you have an adopted child - orare an adult who was adopted - and would like to take part in the service, pleasespeak with me.

- J.M.

Jan 2006

You'll be hearing about my sabbatical adventures from the pulpit, so I won'ttake up this space recounting each of them. I spent the time on travel, family,work, and rest. I walked the dog a lot. I took time to grieve the death of mymother and to work with my brothers as we divided our parents' belongings andestate.

My book of sermons is coming along nicely. I have completed the manuscript.Ernie Pipes has written a wonderful foreword. David Denton has produced a drawingfor the cover. Felicity Nussbaum is hard at work editing. Production shouldbe under way soon.

I shall always be grateful to you and to our church leadership for making itpossible for me to take my sabbatical when I did. Many volunteers, especiallyour president, Carol Kerr, assumed additional responsibility in my absence.Vilma Ortiz, Pulpit Committee chair, worked closely with the Rev. Jim Granton Sunday mornings. Jim and the staff kept programs running smoothly.

I come back to my ministry so appreciative of our congregational life - thepeople, the good works, the creativity and vision and passion for our faith- and I am happy to be back with you. Even better, as a result of the SantaMonica City Council's decision December 13, we have a building program to begin.The timing is perfect. I can't wait to get started again.

-- Judith Meyer

Dec 2005

Thank You! This will be the final material I prepare for the newsletter. Myweekend ministry concludes at the end of December. Thank you for welcoming Bettyand me into your congregation, into your lives, into your homes. A special "ThankYou!" to colleagues on the church staff; ministry shared is enriching for theminister and the congregation. A special word of appreciation to Rev. JudithMeyer for inviting me to be your minister while she has been on sabbatical leave.You are a great congregation. Thank you for our time together.

Christmas Eve Services (Volunteers needed) Following the usualpattern of this congregation we will have two services on Christmas Eve: Thefamily service will be at 6 p.m. and the candlelight service at 8 p.m. I understandmembers of the congregation frequently share in the leadership of the ChristmasEve services by doing readings. Please volunteer! I don't know who you are.

Christmas comes on Sunday this year. There will be only one service on ChristmasDay, at 10 a.m.

I stand corrected: In the sermon on November 13 I said that Mormons are requiredto tithe. Since the service I have learned I was wrong. The only requirementfor tithing in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints is for thoseMormons who wish to become temple members; participants in local LDS congregationsare not required to tithe.

- Jim Grant

Nov 2005

TheNational Storytelling Festival

Betty and I missed being with you the weekend of October 9 because we wereattending the National Storytelling Festival in Jonesborough, TN. We were twoof about 3,000 participants. There were five large tents seating 500 to 800people each, plus several smaller venues with 90-minute storytelling sessionsin each from 10 a.m. until midnight.

Here are some things I learned or re-learned at the Storytelling Festival:

Stories, whether funny or serious, are community builders. I'm inclined tobelieve that people who laugh or cry or sigh or smile together, stay together.You'll be hearing more about this in some sermons. For example, hearing onceagain the true story of the forced removal of the Cherokee people was a reminderthat political power can be evil, even when the majority of voters approve.

I knew stories were sometimes enriched with guitars or Celtic harps or banjos,but I had a delightful 90 minutes hearing stories with a chamber music trioas background. Fantastic! Explanation: "Storytelling and music naturally gotogether, like laughing and talking."

Here are some more aphorisms that I noted:

"You grow with every risk you take!"

"The more you know, the more you need common sense!"

"We can all learn from the dachshund, who has the most can-do attitude in themost can't-do body."

"It's somebody else's fault, can't you see? In the present atmosphere it'sabsolutely clear that the buck stops miles from here!" (Dedicated to "Brownie.")

Finally, I was moved to tears by a storyteller/musician named John McCutcheonwhose program "Mightier Than the Sword" was a marvelous blend of music and thewords of contemporary authors. His CD by the same name is a priceless commentaryon today's political and social situation.

On another topic, please note your opportunity to suggest a topic for the sermonon November 27. I will attempt to respond to any question or topic given tome in writing no later than November 15. If I get no questions or topics, I'llprobably do a sermon about Edward O. Wilson's idea of a "consilience" of religionand science.

- Jim Grant

Oct 2005

I am on sabbatical from September 1 to December 31.

I'll miss seeing you at our ingathering Sunday but know that you will be ingood hands with the Rev. Jim Grant.

I'll be working with Felicity Nussbaum on my book of sermons and travelingto France and Morocco with David.

I am grateful for the timing of this sabbatical. My mother died July 30. Ineed to grieve and take care of family business. I plan to return to my ministryrefreshed, rested, and ready for the next phase of our church life together.

- Judith Meyer

Sep 2005

From Our Sabbatical Minister

Betty and I thank you for the warm welcome you gave us when we were here inAugust.We are looking forward to our time with you. We will be in Santa Monicafrom Saturday early afternoon through Monday early afternoon. Please do nothesitate to call on me if I can be of service. I think the best way to be intouch with me will be through Marie Kashmer- Stiebing, church administrator.

As I thought about the first few Sunday service themes, well aware that I willbegin as your "weekend sabbatical minister" on September 11(!), I decided onthat day to invite your attention to how religious "Mystery and Wonder" maybe relevant in a world of terrorism. So, that will be the service theme my firstSunday with you.

That decision led to another, which is to think with you about the Sourcesof our UU faith for following Sundays. As you see from the Sunday services listedon the first page, these sources will be service themes.

That decision led to another, namely to invite adults to join me in a discussionof these six Sources, using the little book, "A Chosen Faith" by John Buehrensand Forrest Church. This adult religious education discussion group will meetSunday evenings, time to be announced.

If you would like to participate, please call Marie at the church Office toregister. That will help us know how many books to order. Thank you.

- Jim Grant