Newsletter for September, 2013

Month: 
Sep 2013
From Our Minister: 
Last July, before departing on six weeks of summer leave, I gave you all an invitation from my colleague Tom Owen-Toole, to cast your nets into the depths — the depths of life, and of faith. On the other side of that rewarding time of travel, childcare, reflection, housework, study, visiting other churches, and email, I am still wrestling with his words. 
 
You see, Tom writes about the fear that has kept him so often on the surface of things, and kept him from “delving downward into consciousness and growth.” If you are like me, it’s easy to take his statement literally, and recall your frozen moments lingering on the shores of the ocean, the lake, or the pool, reluctant to finally take the plunge into the water. What is it that keeps us there, considering, waiting, delaying? 
 
And then there is my son. As the waves come into view this summer at the beach, he runs toward them, tiny legs pumping, face aglow with delight. A joy (and a parent’s terror) to behold, it is all I can do to keep a grip on 
his sandy tummy as he splashes into the surf, laughing, reaching, wanting more. What is it that allows some of us to dive in, to run toward the waves as if toward some grand new adventure?
 
As we make our way together into a new church year, I want to know what is calling you forward into the deep. Are you ready to go beyond the surfaces of life, toward growth, understanding, healing, and renewal?
 
Tom writes (in my adaptation), that it is the voice of our liberal and liberating faith that calls him forward and urges him on in hard times:
 
Our relentless faith has issued its summons.
It is beckoning and calling to us, saying
Climb down from your elevated perches
Vacate the comfortable surrounds of life’s surface
And together we will enter life’s depths
Where authentic suffering, joy, and meaning await us.
 
I hope you will cast your nets into the depths with your minister and your spiritual community at 18th and Arizona this fall.
 
See you in church,
Rev. Rebecca
From Our President: 
September signals the end of summer and the start of  a new school year. Even if you haven’t been to school in a very  long time, it’s hard not to feel a twinge of that old anticipation:  dread and excitement and complicated imaginings about the  future year. At church, September is also the time of beginnings, when the activity level rises noticeably, beginning its  slow crescendo into the holidays. It is the beginning of the  fourth year of Rev. Rebecca Bijur’s ministry with us, and your  Board has some exciting plans for you. We have been through 
three seasons of change, and we are ready to focus some of the  wonderful energy we feel at church these days to shape the  path we are walking. We are going to hold a series of visioning  meetings, and we hope you will all participate. Meetings will  be held after church on Sundays and also in the evenings at  members’ homes. Watch for announcements and sign-up sheets  at the end of this month.
 
These meetings are a time to celebrate our vibrant  community and to spend some time imagining its future.  e 
will consider our purpose, our mission, and our core values.  Speaking these things out loud gives direction and meaning to  our actions. We will think about growing our church and our  faith and what that might mean. We will think about the ways  we wish to walk together and how we can best create lifeaffirming relationships among us. We will acknowledge the  remarkable legacy gifts we have received this past year and  consider the various ways we might honor them.
 
You can begin to think about where you want the  church to be in 5, 10, and 50 years. If money were not a  barrier,  what would you do differently? What does the Unitarian Universalist Church of your imagination look like? How is it  staffed? How do its members care for one another? How does  it support our wider community, our UU faith, life on earth?
 
As we brainstorm these ideas, we know that we will  always have limitations, but we also know that a vision of our  purpose and our long-range plan can help us make better decisions about opportunities that arise. Come and share your  thoughts and dreams with the other members of our community. Together, we make a difference in one another's lives and  in the world around us.
 
See you at a meeting,
Cynthia Cottam
News & Announcements: 

Ralphs' Scrip Program to Resume

 
The new Scrip program by Ralph’s begins in  September. UUCCSM is still active in the program, but  participating members need to register for the new term  after September 1. Participants are required to register for  the new term at www.ralphs.com or by using a bar scan at  a cash register. Even if you registered as recently as June,  July, or August, you are required to register again beginning September 1.
 
For your convenience, step-by-step website registration instructions can be found at www.ralphs.com
click on Community, then click on community Contributions, and then on “For participants questions, click here.”
If you want a customized bar scan as an alternative to registration, please email your request to community.programs@ralphs.com Copies of the scan letter are  also on file in the office.
 
Nurit Gordon
Faith in Action News: 

Textbook Fund for Incarcerated Students

In April, UUCCSM received a  letter from Jacob Reed, an inmate at Avenal prison (near Fresno) and a member of  the UU Church of the Larger Fellowship,  who was taking courses at Avenal through a community college distance learning program. As he pointed out, inmates  may take courses for free, but must pay for textbooks, which  very few can afford. He has been in contact with the Church  of the Larger Fellowship on the subject, and has written to  every UU church in California to ask for help in raising funds  to purchase textbooks for incarcerated students.
 
Several churches have responded to this request, including UUCCSM, where Faith in Action is administering the  program. Most of us are in contact with each other and with  the college through the Associate Dean of Distance Learning  and Professional Education who coordinates the prison education program. As he informed us, the college provides  courses for approximately 2,000 inmates throughout the California prison system; last fall these students were enrolled in  some 3,600 courses. But the cost of textbooks is a problem for  many students; textbooks cost $15 to $300 each, and average  about $150 per course. He is very enthusiastic about the idea  of a textbook fund, pointing out that prisoners who participate  in education programs in prison have much lower recidivism  rates than others who are incarcerated, a fact demonstrated by  numerous studies. Many of the incarcerated students complete  their AA and/or transfer to a four-year college.
 
The college foundation has set up a fund to collect  donations for textbooks and provide scholarships of $150 for  incarcerated students throughout the California prison system.  Students who receive scholarships use the funds to pay for the  books and, once they are finished with them, pass them on to  other students or contribute them to the prison library. Individual members of congregations who wish to donate would  contribute the funds to their respective churches, indicating  that they are for the “Incarcerated Students Textbook Fund.”
 
The churches will collect the donations and send a check for  the full amount to the College Foundation fund. Here at Santa  Monica we will begin collecting funds in September. Information will be available at the Faith in Action table in Forbes  Hall, as well as on the UUCCSM website.
 
The textbook fund can be seen as part of an ongoing  emphasis at UUCCSM and other UU churches on issues of  mass incarceration and the prison industrial complex. Many of  us have read Michelle Alexander’s book “The New Jim Crow:  Mass Incarceration in an Age of Color-Blindness” (which was  the featured book of the UUA in 2012) and/or heard Alexander speak. The Peace and Social Justice Committee has sponsored three  discussion series about the book, as well as films and speakers on these issues. The textbook fund represents a  wonderful opportunity to “put our faith in action” and to  provide help to the incarcerated that can make a real difference in their lives.
 
Nora Hamilton
 

Visitation Program for Immigrant Detainees Suspended

 
On July 24, ICE (Immigration Control and Enforcement) abruptly suspended immigrant visitation programs at three facilities in Southern California: Adelanto, James Musick, and Santa Ana. The programs are coordinated by CIVIC (Community Initiatives for Visiting Immigrant Detainees), a national program with 28 affiliated groups throughout the country dedicated to ending the isolation of immigrant detainees, many of them in facilities far 
removed from their families, through letter writing campaigns and visitation programs. Several members of 
UUCCSM, as well as other UUs, have been working with CIVIC, touring detention facilities and visiting immigrant detainees.
 
The rationale for the ICE suspension was an article in the Huffington Post by Christina Fialho, an attorney and 
Co-Director of CIVIC, criticizing conditions at ICE facilities such as lack of oversight, insufficient training of officials, and inadequate medical care; comments on Facebook by visitation volunteers have also described conditions in immigrant detention facilities. In addition, Christina, an attorney, was blocked from visiting a client in detention at the Adelanto Detention Center. These actions are contrary to a stated ICE policy recognizing the right of detainees, the media, and community members to speak freely and forbidding facilities to deny access to anyone due to their political or editorial opinion.
 
CIVIC and the ACLU of Southern California have written to ICE asking for a public explanation for the uspension and the reinstatement of the visitation programs.
 
The case has been publicized in the media, including an AP article which was also carried in several newspapers, and in interviews with CNN Español and Telemundo. Some of the media coverage, as well as more information about CIVIC and its visitation programs, can be found at www.endisolation.org
 
Nora Hamilton
 

Picnic Thanks

 
Dear Friends,
The Interweave / Women's Alliance Picnic was another great success, thanks to all of your help!
 
Attendees donated $566 and we had expenses of  $69.07 (beef franks, chicken franks, vegan dogs, buns, condiments), so we have left $496.93, half of which will stay in the  Interweave account for expenses such as the Coming Out Day  speaker, a movie series, and fees for the June Gay Pride Parade. The other half will be donated to Common Ground, the  Westside HIV community center.
 
Thank you again for the great food, decorations, and  music, and for your help in setting up, serving, and cleaning  up! As always, this picnic provided a great mid-summer opportunity for fellowship for our church community.
 

CareNet is UUCCSM’s caring network

 
We offer rides, meals,  and thoughtful cards to  those in need. If you have a need or  know someone who  might, please email carenet@uusm.org
 
Kris Langabeer

 

From the Archives: 
As most of us have noticed, our  church at 18th and Arizona is in the same  neighborhood as three other churches, Pilgrim Lutheran at 18th and Wilshire, Seventh Day Adventist at Arizona and 19th,  and the Little Chapel of the Dawn at Arizona and 20th. The Little Chapel of the  Dawn has never been affiliated with any denomination; rather, it  was dedicated almost eighty years ago as part of the Gates,  Kingsley and Gates Funeral Home (GK&G). (Dr. E.F. Gates,  Virgil B. Kingsley and Mark T. Gates were business partners,  who sold the property to Service Corporation International in  1998.) I’ve long been curious about the Little Chapel of the  Dawn, in part because it’s on a pedestrian-friendly corner lot, the  international news covered the activities of GK&G after the death  of President Reagan in 2004, and my parents were married there  in 1952 by Stephen Fritchman of First UU Church. Thankfully  the UUCCSM Archives have a copy of the Service of  edicationprogram for our sanctuary, on April 6, 1930. When was the  Little Chapel of the Dawn built, and are there any records of 
that? Seeking that information, last year I stopped by the  GK&G office and asked. At first someone said there were  no records, but several months later a longtime GK&G employee emailed me and said he had forgotten a crudely  framed original proclamation nailed to the wall behind a  door of an interior office. It took over six months to arrange  to borrow it to copy and scan, but that finally happened this  last January. It's an old-fashioned calligraphy proclamation,  boldly dated, incorporates flowery and religious language of 
the time, and is a genuine historical document. The Little Chapel of the Dawn was dedicated only three years after our sanctuary, and both churches have been used for 80 years in the spirit of “universal reverence for every 
creed.” Of course the GK&G property has always been run as a business and the Unitarian Church and its successor entities have never been for economic profit, but both are equally part of the fabric and history of the neighborhood, city, and region.
 
Rob Briner
Splinters from the Board: 
dent Cynthia Cottam lit the chalice as Rev. Rebecca  was on vacation. Cynthia led a meditation for the check-in, 
perhaps inspired by the recent Board Retreat facilitated by  Rev. Jim Grant. The President's Report shared that Debbie  Menzies and Sheila Cummins are chairing the new Hospitality Committee.
 
As of this month’s meeting the church has 373  members. Kevin Squire and Jill Doughtie have joined us.
 
The Generous Congregation Contribution in July was  $786. It was donated to Step Up On Second.
 
Church Administrator Nurit Gordon reported that  our net income is higher than expected this month due to 
decreased expenses and increased rental income. The  church's lobby bathroom will be renovated next. The Facility Development Committee (FDC) has applied for a new  permit to replace the one approved by the Architectural  Review Board back in 2010. The FDC wants to have windows that are more historically accurate.
Nurit tallied our total membership for 2012 to  2013 as follows:
 
25 new members
7 resigned
1 transferred
12 lapsed
3 deceased
1 re-instated
 
Acting DRE Emmalinda MacLean reported that  the youth's trip to New Orleans gathered many wonderful  stories and it had a significant impact on the lives of our  teens. She also said there has been great enthusiasm for  James Witker's “Understanding the Bible” course.
 
Treasurer Kit Shaw presented the Financial Report and year-end reports.
 
Board discussion followed regarding the visioning process with the congregation. Cynthia suggested that  we follow a model similar to that used by the minister selection process, having a series of cottage meetings at the 
church and in member's homes during the months of October and November. About an hour was devoted to brainstorming on this subject, much of it focused on how to  gather the point of view of the congregation and how that  will interface with the vision of our minister.
 
The meeting adjourned at 9:20 p.m. The next  board meeting will be on September 10.
 
Bronwen Jones
Other UU News & Events: 

Los Angeles Interfaith Trip to Israel/Palestine 2014

 
Our church has been invited by Beth Shir Shalom to join an interfaith journey to the Holy Land - Eretz HaKodesh - Al-Ard AlMuqaddasah, April 21 to April 30, 2014. Rev. Bijur will help lead the trip, along with Rabbi Comess-Daniels and Jihad Turk, a Muslim leader previously affiliated with the Islamic Center of Southern California, as we listen to the modern voices and explore the ancient traditions of this region alongside L.A.neighbors of other faiths. Cost is approx. $4,050 per person (includes hotel and airfare from L.A. to Israel), $500 deposit due October 15. Please email the church office at admin@uusm.org for the full itinerary and to join the trip!
RE News: 

From Our DRE:

As I write this month’s column, I  am just back from my maternity leave. I’ll  admit, part of me is sad to reach the end of  this special family time, but I’m also so  excited to come back to work and see what  the new church year will bring for our  UUCCSM community. It’s good to be back. I am so grateful  to all of you for your care and support, and for the opportunity to take some time away to focus solely on getting to  know our little guy. I’m only three months in, but already I  can see that being Evan’s mama is making me a better person, and will make me a better DRE too.
 
During my leave I thought a lot about the purpose  of religious community, and the heart of it all for me is that  church is for giving people of all ages the support and tools  needed so they can go out into the everyday world and live  with integrity, compassion, and a sense that we’re all in this  together. Church isn’t just a nice place to come to on Sunday  morning; it’s a place to come for a weekly reminder about all  the hard and good work we can do during the rest of the  week to live in a way that aligns with our most deeply held 
values. The seven UU principles are one articulation of some  of those values which we Unitarian Universalists hold in  common.
 
We have so much to look forward to this year! I  return to work mindful that this is a good time to assess my 
relationship with the congregation as your Director of Religious Education; three months away has given me an opportunity to reflect on the strengths as well as the growing edges of  my work with you. And I’m sure that your time with Emmalinda as your Acting DRE has given all of you a chance to think about what you want from your religious educator, too.
 
I’m back, but I can’t promise that everything will be the same  as it was before Evan’s arrival. But I think that’s a good thing. I  come back to you renewed — if not rested — and I can promise to come to work each day with profound gratitude for the  gift of doing the work that my heart calls me to do, to bring  passion and eagerness to the work that I do with you, and to  keep the big picture in sight — perhaps the biggest picture of  all — that every one of us has the power to make the world  better, and that the world needs the message of hope and worth 
that our faith has to offer. And that, ultimately, my job is to  help the congregation bring that message to all of its children,  youth, and adults.
 
I can’t do it alone; we have programs to offer to our  community because members give their time and passion to  make them happen. As our congregation works this year on its  vision for the future, I’d like for you to think about what you want from our religious exploration program, for yourself and  for others of all ages, and think about what you’d feel good  about doing to help your vision become a reality. We have lots  of opportunities to get involved, and we need you. Will you  help?
 
Catherine Farmer Loya
 

From Our Interim DRE

you all for such a wonderful summer! It has been a  great privilege to be a part of your faith community for these  three months. I have been deeply moved by the generous spirits of so many church members who have given their time and  talents so cheerfully to this congregation’s children; without  your gifts, none of this summer’s wonderful activities would  have been possible. So many people these days view church  through a  consumer-lens: “what do I get out of it?” But  church is made rich through people like you, who ask “how  can I give to this?” And while financial support of the church  is vital to its well-being, your donations of energy, enthusiasm, patience, preparation, and follow-through are the lifeblood of this Religious Education program and a priceless gift  to the  children and youth in it.
 
This sense of community shone radiantly in our  Summer Chalice Camp talent show, after service on August 4. 
Thank you to everyone who stayed and cheered for all our  performers; your enthusiastic reception is what made this  event such an empowering experience for the participants.
 
The children who signed up to perform varied in readiness,  from well-rehearsed and excited to nervous and on the verge  of backing out, but our leaders encouraged everyone, and our  social-hour audience helped everyone feel supported and affirmed. To me this is exactly what a church community should feel like to a child — a place where they will be celebrated and cherished for taking risks and letting their unique gifts shine, without fear of teasing or rejection.
 
I can tell that these performers, and all the children  and youth in this congregation, have had many role models 
for courage, enthusiasm, and generosity of spirit over the  years. So to all of you who have volunteered as their teachers  as they’ve grown up in this church, thank you. I sincerely  hope you will consider giving from the heart again in the  coming year, as the Lifespan RE committee looks to fill the  teaching schedule for the 2013-14 Sunday morning classes — and if you’ve never taught in RE before, it’s a wonderful time  to start. Having spent only a brief window of time with Santa  Monica’s children, I can say that they are a brilliant, exciting,  thoughtful, funny, and compassionate group who will be  deeply blessed by your sharing of your gifts with them.
 
Thank you once again for sharing your faith community and its wonderful young people with me; I am blessed by  the time we have spent together, and I wish you all deep peace  and great joy.
 
Emmalinda MacLean
 

What's in Store for Children & Youth in the New Church Year

 
On Ingathering Sunday, September 8, we’ll celebrate the beginning of a new church year together as one 
community of all ages — all will attend the service in the  sanctuary. Then on September 15, all children and youth  who attend will take part in a special Social Justice project,  while many of our church families are enjoying the church  camp weekend at Camp de Benneville Pines. RE Classes  will begin on Sunday, September 22. No matter the age of  your child, we have something exciting in store this year:
 
Preschool to Kindergarten: “Celebrating Me &  My World” celebrates the wondrous qualities of the children themselves and expands outward to the things and people around them. This program provides preschoolers with  experiences and opportunities to grow in their sense of trust  and caring and to develop their self-identity and their sense  of connectedness with all of life.
 
Grades 1 to 2: “Spirit Seekers” shares with children core stories of our faith, which connect with our  monthly all-church ministry themes, as children make  meaning of their lives, grow a strong UU identity, and, together, create a spiritual community that honors multiple  learning styles and celebrates beauty in diversity.
 
Grades 3 to 5: “Sing to the Power” affirms our  Unitarian Universalist heritage of confronting "powers and 
structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love." Participants experience their own  power, and understand how it can help them to be leaders.  Sing to the Power uses a metaphor of the four elements — earth, air, fire, and water — as a framework to explore different forms of power. The program begins with a unit on  earth and kinds of power associated with it: Connection, Roots, Growth, and Place. The second unit features kinds of  power associated with air: Stillness, Presence, Silence, and  Listening. The third unit centers on the powers of fire:   Shine, Passion, Action, Reaching Out. The program concludes with three powers of water: Flexibility, Persistence,  and Gathering. The final session honors all of the elements'  power to transform.
 
Grades 6 to 7: “You the Creator” gives participants an opportunity to unleash and appreciate their creative 
energies. According to the author Richard S. Kimball, “You  are, can be, and should be one of the creative forces in the  world — for its sake and for yours.” The curriculum is  packed with FUN, and focuses on a new  experience of  spirituality and an understanding of the creative forces in all  of us. Four E’s inform the program: Exploring, Experiencing, Expanding, and Expressing. And ten themes run  through it: Religion and Creativity, Religion and Creative  Arts, Arts and Creativity, Creativity and Self, Practical  Creativity, Universal Creative Force, Creative Spirituality,  Creating Community, Yes You Can, and Creativity for All.  Imagine how individual lives and even the world might change  if our youth understood the positive power of the creative forces  within!
 
Grade 8: “Coming of Age” provides opportunities for  youth to learn who they are and where they are on their spiritual journey, bond with other teens, celebrate their gifts, learn about  the church and how it works, and articulate their own personal  beliefs within the context of our UU faith. The year culminates  on Coming of Age Sunday, May 18, when the youth will present  religious credo statements before the congregation in a worship 
service of their own design.
 
Grades 9 to 12: “Young Religious Unitarian Universalists (YRUU)” empowers teens, with the guidance of adult 
advisors, to create their own vision and mission for their program. YRUU youth will explore what it means to be young and  UU, how our UU principles inform how we live our lives, and  what power young UUs have to change the world. YRUU also  takes part in social justice projects, organizes social gatherings,  and will plan and lead a Sunday worship service for the congregation.
 

Adult Programs Coming Up

 
On Sunday, September 29, from 1 to 3 p.m., join James  Witker for a discussion of “The Jefferson Bible,” probably the  shortest version ever written and certainly one of the most controversial among mainstream Christians.
 
In October we look forward to the beginning of a  monthly series of discussions on Joseph Campbell’s powerful  book and TV series on the power of myth. On the first Sunday  of each month we will meet in the Cottage from 1 to 3 p.m. to  watch and talk about one episode.
 
Also in October, Leon Henderson-MacLennan will be  reprising his four-part workshop, “Lessons of Loss.” If you  haven’t experienced this powerful series before, you owe it to  yourself to sign up this year.
 
Keep an eye on the weekly announcements and Order  of Service for information about continuing activity groups like  The Empty Nesters, The Wednesday Night Writers, Knitters &  Friends, and those Crazy Quilters.
That’s just the tip of the iceberg. Visit the Lifespan  Table in Forbes Hall regularly for new information, sign-ups, 
and to make suggestions about what you would like to see happen at UUCCSM this year.
 

O.W.L. (Our Whole Lives)

 
O.W.L. (Our Whole Lives) is swooping in this fall for all young adults and adults. Everyone between the ages of 18 and 108 is welcome to sign up for this nine-session program, which begins in early October. O.W.L. is the lifespan human sexuality program developed by and utilized in many UU communities in North America. Join us for an exploration of values, culture, practices and perspectives on human sexuality. More to follow at the Lifespan RE table beginning in September. In the meantime, please feel free to contact Beth Rendeiro with questions.

Theme Discussion 

with Leon Henderson-MacLennan
@ 10:10 a.m. on the Patio
September 22, 2013 on
“Fellowship”