Newsletter for August, 2021

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Aug 2021
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Online Events in August

We are enjoying some downtime this summer, but check out the information and links below for the UUSM online programs that are taking place this month. We look forward to connecting with you!
 
Upcoming Online Events
 
Green Committee Meeting – Sunday, August 1, 2021, 11:30 am – 1:00 pm, Zoom meeting. Please email greenchair@uusm.org for Zoom link. The Green Committee informs others of the simple changes that can be made to decrease their carbon footprint and to implement social action to green our community.
 
UU Men’s Group – Thursday, August 5, 2021, 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm, Zoom Meeting. The Men’s Group offers a special opportunity to the men of the congregation and other like-minded men to join our welcoming group in provocative and stimulating discussion and to get to know others with UU perspectives in a more meaningful way. We will meet the first Thursday of the month at 7:30 PM via Zoom and in person at 1:30 PM on Saturday, August 21, 2021, at a location to be announced. To request more information or to join us, please ask the church office for information about how to contact Richard Mathias. Tonight’s topic: What it means to be a man and the ideals of manhood have changed significantly since most of us were young. How would you define “toxic masculinity”? What “manly” qualities did you respect or aspire to most when you were a child, as a young adult, and now? Which of these attributes have helped and which have harmed your domestic and work relationships?
 
Book Study – Gifts of Imperfection – Saturday, August 7, 2021, 8:30 am – 9:45 am, Zoom Meeting. It’s been 10 years since Brene Brown published The Gifts of Imperfection. Now she’s doing a 6-week 10th anniversary deep dive into how we can transform the gifts of imperfection into a deeply fulfilling life. Everyone is welcome. Visit https://brenebrown.com/thegifts-hub/ for more info. Then grab the book, take the Wholehearted Living inventory, check out the podcast and join us online! Hosted by Jacki Weber and Beth Brownlie. This class repeats every week until August 28, 2021, except July 31, 2021, and August 21, 2021. Email Teri at uusmreassist@uusm.org for the Zoom link and registration.
 
Science Non-fiction Book Group – Tuesday, August 17, 2021, 7:30 pm – 9:00 pm, Zoom Meeting. We will discuss Merchants of Doubt: How a Handful of Scientists Obscured the Truth on Issues from Tobacco Smoke to Climate Change, by Naomi Oreskes and Erik Conway. It would be nice if science were pure, but when high-level scientists have deep connections to politics and industry, a true sense of reality can be delayed by decades. To receive the link, you will want to be on the group email list. Contact: Rebecca Crawford, sci-nonfiction@uusm.org. All are welcome.
 
Open Meditation Wellsprings – every Wednesday and Friday, 12:00 pm – 1:00 pm, Zoom Meeting. We listen to brief readings, sit together quietly for twenty minutes, journal and share with each other what’s on our hearts. You are welcome to join us when it feels right for you. If you come in late or need to leave early, just do so quietly. These are exceptional times, and we trust each person to use the group in a way that fits their need. Taking this time for quiet meditation and sharing in the intimacy of having sat in silence together can help sustain and ground us during these difficult days. Please email meditation@uusm.org for the Zoom link.
 

August Generous Congregation Supports UUA Disaster Relief Fund

 
Disasters affect our congregations and their communities with increasing rapidity. From natural disasters like wildfires and hurricanes to human-caused calamities, UU congregations, their members, and their community partners bear the impact.
 
The Unitarian Universalist Association (UUA) Disaster Relief Fund is part of a covenant — a covenant between the UUA and congregations, between congregations who give generously and those in need, and with our community partners. By aiding other congregations, we act through our faith and values. Donations from across the nation allow the national organization to respond quickly and flexibly.
 
Grants can be used to repair damage to congregations’ buildings or for temporary relocation; to help members and friends who require housing assistance; to support partner organizations that serve the community on the scene, particularly those that would not be eligible for other funding.
 
Generous Congregation
 
Our practice here at UUSM is to dedicate half of our non-pledge Sunday offerings to organizations doing work in the world that advances our Unitarian Universalist principles; the other 50% of the offering is used to support the life of our church.
 
UUSM’s Generous Congregation supports our church community. And together, we uplift the reach and impact of vital organizations doing work we could not do on our own. This month, half of our Sunday offerings will go to the UUA Disaster Relief Fund. Your donations will help congregations, their members, and their communities facing the impact of disasters.
 
Please consider supporting the mission of our church, and the UUA Disaster Relief Fund. To give right now, text “$10 GCC” to 844-982-0209. (One-time-only credit card registration required.)
 
 
 
 
Faith in Action News: 

Beloved Conversations Review: White Supremacy and Me

Several people at our church participated in the Spring 2021 online course offered by the Fahs Collective at Meadville Lombard Theological School, a Unitarian Universalist seminary. More information can be found at www.meadville.edu/fahs-collaborative/beloved-conversations/. Registration for the Fall 2021 Program, which begins September 21 and runs through mid-December 2021, is open now. Here is one personal summary of the Spring course. The news magazine would love to offer other reviews of the program. If you participated, please submit to newsletter@uusm.org.
 
By Cheryl Barnett
 
I began writing my review of the Beloved Conversation Program discussing how it was structured, organized, the timing, etc. But looking over my notes, I recognized the essence of the program was self-examination, un/learning with essays and lessons designed to be on a personal level, smorgasbord-style, not a list. So my personal review would be that as I read, listened, sang through the lessons, I felt challenged to think about my ancestors, my growing up with white privilege/heritage, and to first reflect on my life experiences as I worked through the program.
 
The entire program is separated into two groups: White Folks and People of Color, letting the primary message of racism percolate personally without that inner or outer critique. By offering care to “move at the speed of trust,” my own stories have no less meaning, rather they allowed me to move towards increased clarity on how I got to this place of privilege with my own White Supremacy. I felt no triggers to accept personal blame from the variety of lessons, rather an ever-increased awareness of the myriad of ramifications that race now has/had on my life as well of those persons of color in America. The phrase most clearly defining this is:  “through an awareness of intersectionality, we can better acknowledge and ground the differences among us.” 
 
At times I was, however, overwhelmed by the multiplicity and complexity of racism, as the lessons were illuminating. Also the realization that living in the moment, without “rightness” constructs, will also bring ever more awareness that my growth is not a once-upon-a-time event but requires a lifelong stand to listen to those with different stories and remain curious, knowing that, with trust, change will happen.
 
Understanding that the greater legacy that intolerance, hate, and white supremacy has brought to our current society will continue to exist, I feel the weight this leaves on White People to make societal changes. Living with heightened awareness, mindfulness, and a responsibility to grow away from White Supremacy both personally and in community was the goal of the program and it resonated with me personally.